Chapter 7 - Working in a Counselling Relationship (SEVEN) Flashcards
Counsellor Skills in the Understanding and Action Phases
Changing Perceptions Leading Multi-focused responding Accurate empathy Self-disclosure Immediacy Hope and Humor Confrontation Contracting Rehearsal
What is functional fixity and what methods can counselors use to address a client with this problem?
- seeing things in only one way or from one perspective or being fixated on the idea that this particular situation or attribute is the issue, ex. HCI
- reframing: offers the client another probable and positive viewpoint or perspective on a situation; the changed point of view gives the client a different way of responding
1. Redefining the problem
2. Altering the behavior in certain situations
3. Perceiving the problem in a more manageable way and acting accordingly
3 Types of Multi-focused Responding
- Affective Responses; focus on a client’s feelings
- Behavioral Responses; focus on actions
- Cognitive Responses; focus on thought
define: Self-disclosure
-conscious and intentional technique in which counselors share information about their lives outside the counseling relationship
3 elements of effective self-disclosure
brief and focused
does not add to the client’s problems
used frequently
define: immediacy
- involves a counselor’s and a client’s understanding and communicating at the moment what is going on between them in the helping relationship
- particularly feelings, impressions, and expectations
3 Kinds of Immediacy:
- Overall Relationship Immediacy - “How are we doing?”
- Immediacy That Focuses on a Particular Event in a Session - “What’s going on right now?”
- Self-Involving Statements - “I like how you did…”
What is the role of hope in a client’s understanding and action phase?
- the feeling that something desirable, such as the achievement of a goal is possible
- clients do best in counseling when hope is instilled in the process
- hope can increase a client’s motivation to work on a problem
What is the role of humor in a client’s understanding and action phase?
- involves giving an incongruent or unexpected response to a question or situation to the amusement of those involved
- requires both sensitivity and timing
- should not be used to be demeaning, but rather to build bridges between counselor and client
- can circumvent clients’ resistance, build rapport, dispel tension, help clients distance themselves from psychological pain, and aid in the increase of a client’s self-efficacy
What is the role of confrontation in a client’s understanding and action phase?
- challenges a client to examine, modify, or control an aspect of behavior that is currently nonexistent or improperly used
- not an attack but rather an invitation and dialogue
define/explain: the MUM effect
-avoiding confrontation of a client’s behavior, results in counselor’s being less effective
What are the advantages of using written contracts in counseling?
- Provides a written record of agreed-upon goals and the course of action to be taken.
- The formal nature of a contract may motivate a client who tends to procrastinate.
- If the contract is broken down into definable sections, a client may get a clear feeling that problems can be solved.
- Places responsibility for change on the client and has the potential to empower the client.
- By specifically outlining the number of sessions to be held, the contract ensures that clients will return to counseling regularly
Approaches to Setting up Contracts
- Counselor indicates that the purpose of counseling is to work not talk.
- Focus change in the client rather than someone not present who exists in the client’s life (that would be consulting like with a teacher about how to help a student).
- Avoid including client’s con words such as try or maybe.
- Avoid shoulds or musts that are goals directed toward pleasing others. Ask what the client really wants.
- Define behaviorally what client wishes to achieve through counseling.
- Contracts focus on change in client’s behaviors, thoughts, or feelings.
define: SAFE (4 elements of a good contract)
S = specificity: What are the treatment goals? A = awareness; knowledge of procedures, goals, and side effects of counseling F = fairness; balance of information in the relationship between client and counselor E = efficacy; client believes they can make choices and decisions; in other words, believes in their ability to achieve counseling goals
Two Types of Rehearsal:
- Overt rehearsal; requires the client to verbalize or act out what he or she is going to do
- Covert rehearsal; is imagining or reflecting on the desired goal.