Chapter 6 Flashcards
What is the three-stage model of helping?
- Exploration
->establishing rapport and trust
->developing relationship
->explore clients thoughts, feelings, experiences, behaviors - Insight
->exploring things above helps them gain insight into themselves - Action
->helping clients develop skills they can use in their daily lives
->processing what is and isn’t working
What is another three stage model?
Stage 1: Opening-up
->how you start time together
-> focus on relationship
Stage 2: Encounter & Resolution
->working/what you accomplish
Stage 3: Closure
->help them get more grounded/contain things so they can safely walk out that door
->diffuse emotions of session, re-go over what you accomplished today
What is accurate empathy?
->Ability to accurately infer the specific content of another person’s thoughts & feelings
->Being able to see a client’s world or experience from the client’s point of view
->Being able to communicate this understanding back to the
client
What are some empathetic highlights?
- Perceptiveness
->responding skills are only important if they’re accurate - Know-how
->know how to respond in a way that’s non-judging - Assertiveness
->how to actually say that to a client
What is the basic formula of how to respond?
->You feel…(name the correct emotion
expressed by the client)
->because…(identify the correct thoughts, experiences, behaviors that give rise to the feelings)
EX.Client: “I could kill him! He failed to take the kids again last
weekend. This is three times out of the last six weeks.”
Counsellor: “You feel furious because he keeps failing to hold up
his part of the bargain.”
What are some ways to tell if your empathetic highlight is accurate or inaccurate?
->Accurate
* Verbal or nonverbal confirmation of accuracy by client
* Further clarification &
elaboration by client
* Movement to next round in dialogue
->Inaccurate
* Verbal or nonverbal indication of
inaccuracy by client
* Restatement, modification, or
correction by counsellor
* Confirmation of accuracy by client, further
clarification/elaboration
What are the different types of probes?
- Prompts
->briefly encourage clients to talk further
-> ‘mhmm’ ‘i see’ ‘oh yeah’ - Statements
->indicate the need for clarification
-> ‘i’m not sure I understand you completely/ not sure I am getting it right’ - Requests
->directly ask for more information or clarification
-> ‘tell me more about that’ - Questions
->open-ended are preferable
-> ‘tell me more about that’ ‘how did that make you feel?’ - Single-word phrases
->briefly restate key thoughts clients’
express
What is the art of probing?
->Probes can help clients name, take notice of, explore, clarify, or further
define any issue at any stage of the helping process (microskills)
->They are designed to provide clarity and move things forward
Counsellors have to listen for…
…the message behind the message
->Listen for hints, partial statements, confusion, covert messages, resources the client has forgotten they have,
themes
* Help make the implied explicit
* Help clients identify themes
* Help clients make connections
* Share educated hunches
Describe summaries
Can be useful:
->At the beginning of a session or
interaction
->During a session that is going nowhere
->When the client needs a new
perspective
->Often it is better to have the client
provide the summary
Describe how silence can be used therapeutically
->Involves a focused nonverbal response
->Attentive posture and caring attitude
->May allow clients time to think or choose their words
->client may be in deep emotional state and may need silence to reflect/process
What is relationship focused immediacy?
->Ability to discuss the overall client-helper (‘how are you and I doing’) relationship with the client
->How the relationship has developed
->How it is helping or hindering progress (reliant on you?)
What is event focused immediacy?
->Ability to discuss with the client what is happening in the relationship
at any given moment
->Specific interactions or incidents
->What is going on between you and me right now?
-> ‘I’d like to pause for a moment and discuss this’
->client looking away and arms crossed after you say something
When should you use immediacy?
->A session is directionless & it seems no progress is being made
->There is tension between the counsellor & client
->Trust seems to be an issue
->Differing interpersonal styles or social distance between counsellor &
client
->Dependency seems to be interfering with the counselling process
Describe humor
->Requires sensitivity and timing
->Clinical tool that has many therapeutic applications:
—>Build rapport
—>Reduce tension or resistance
—>Distance clients from overwhelming pain
—>Contributes to creative thinking & Self-efficacy
—>Keep things in perspective