Chapter 5 Notes

Question 0

is intimacy with,caring for, and commitment to another person

Answer 0

Love

Question 1

is a person who is temperamentally suited to another

-one’s best friend, cofidant, and romantic partner

Answer 1

soul mate

Question 2

an emotionally intense,passionate love is which a person believes that there is love at first sight,that there is only one true love and that love conquers all.

Answer 2

Romantic Love

Question 3

this emphasizes intimacy, with,affection for, and commitment to another person
- more stable

Answer 3

companionate love

Question 4

Love is Natural High

- nature’s or evolution’s way of bringing males and females together for the purpose of reproduction and child rearing

Answer 4

Biochemical theory

Question 5

our primary motivation in life is to be connected with other people
-its the only security we have. Survival need.

Answer 5

attachment theory

Question 6

feeling at ease or comfortable

Answer 6

Stage 1: Rapport

Question 7

the sharing of pleasures,ideas, humor, and sexual desires

Answer 7

Stage 3: Mutual Dependency

Question 8

disclosing personal feeling

Answer 8

Stage 2: Self-Revelation

Question 9

reinforcing each other,share each other’s goals, and help each other satisfy deeper needs

Answer 9

Stage 4: Intimacy Need Fulfillment

Question 10

when you and your partner’s intimacy, passion, and decision/commitment are of the same intensity

Answer 10

consummate love

Question 11

Love of beauty. Characterized by intense emotional attachment and powerful sexual feeling. Love at first site.

Answer 11

Eros

Question 12

obsessive love. Strong sexual attraction and emotional intensity,extreme jealousy, and mood swings. Roller coaster

Answer 12

Mania

Question 13

playful casual, and carefree. Focuses on sex as recreation rather the on ones serious relationship

Answer 13

Ludus

Question 14

companionate love. Affectionate and peaceful friendship developing into long-lasting relationship

Answer 14

storage

Question 15

altruistic love- unselfish,self-sacrificing love. Those who attempt to expense of their own other’s needs even at the expense of their own.
-children’s needs before parents

Answer 15

agape

Question 16

Defining intimacy

Answer 16

1) The presence of love & affection
2) Personal validation
3) Trust
4) Self-disclosure

Question 17

an unusual intolerant/hostile emotional response to a real/imagined threat to a love relationship

Answer 17

jealousy

Question 18

_______ are more apt to become jealous when their partner becomes involved in an emotional and physical relationship

Answer 18

Women

Question 19

________ are more apt to become jealous when they fear that their partner is sexually involved with someone else.

Answer 19

Men

Question 20

love that is not returned

• more attractive rejects less attractive
• less serious rejects more serious

Answer 20

unrequited love

Question 21

practical love. Love that makes a rational assessment of a potential partner’s positive and negatives. Education,income, etc.
-Love with a shopping list

Answer 21

Pragma