Chapter 14: Social Influences Flashcards
What does it mean for a parent to be warm and responsive?
They care about their children and their problems. They want to spend time with them and help them
What are the two aspects of control in parenting?
Psychological manipulation and behavioural (imposing limits)
Describe authoritarian parenting
high control and little warmth- expect obedience and do not really consider the child’s needs or wishes- low self-esteem and aggressive
Describe authoritative parenting
fair control with warmth and responsiveness- explain rules and allow discussions- sociable, responsible, self-reliant
Describe permissive/ indulgent parenting
warmth with little control- accept the child’s behaviour and do not punish them a lot- give them too much independence when they are too young- impulsive with little self-control
Describe uninvolved parenting
no warmth or control- provide basic physical and emotional needs but not much more- aggressive and do bad in school
Low economic class tends to come with what kind of parenting style
authoritarian
What is direct instruction?
telling a child what to do, when, and why- parents who coach kids on emotional and social behaviour help kids learn the skills needed to be good people while understanding the reason behind their behaviour
What is counterimitation?
When a kid learns what not to do through learning by observing
What are the two forms of feedback?
Reinforcement (action that increases the chance of the response) and punishment (action that discourages that response)
Reinforcement is the best form of feedback but what type of punishment is best when this does not work?
Negative punishment
What is the Negative Reinforcement Trap?
reinforcing a behaviour that a parent wants to discourage- giving up when a kid pushes back- most common with a mother and her son
What factors make punishment best?
When it happens right after the incident, is consistent, comes with an explanation, the child has a warm relationship with the punisher, the severity matches the behaviour
What is the most effective form of punishment and why?
Time outs because it gives cool down time and then parents can provide an explanation
What is a Time-in
Another form of a time out when a parent gives the explanation right away
When does parental conflict create problems for children?
When it is chronic
How should parenting change as the kids gets older?
Control should be strong when younger then allow for more autonomy when the kid is older
What is the percentage of divorce in Canada?
38%
How long does it take for a kid to adjust after divorce?
Typically 2 years
T/F when parents split it is best for the child to be with the same sex parent
True
How can parents reduce the effects of divorce?
explain why and what will happen and encourage discussion when the child is upset
What are some things that parents should not do after divorce?
Compete for attention, take anger out on kids, criticize ex, have children mediate