Ch 6: Responsibility II Flashcards

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Responsibility and Psychotherapy: Research Evidence

Two propositions between responsibility and psychotherapy

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  1. Avoidance is not conducive to mental health
  2. Acceptance leads to success

However, this oversimplifies.

  • Some defense mechanisms such as innocent victim, externalization, losing control are maladaptive
  • Some defense mechanisms such as belief in grace or divine providence can be helpful
  • Some take on responsibility too fully and without the internal resources to face anxiety
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IS RESPONSIBILITY AVOIDANCE BAD FOR MENTAL HEALTH?

External locus of control

Warm, attentive, responsive family environment

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Didn’t find a lot of research with ‘freedom’, ‘responsibility’, ‘willing’, but did find it with external locus of control:
- Feelings of inadequacy
- More tense, anxious, hostile, confused
Imaginative, more frustrated, more apprehensive
- Schizophrenics are more likely to have an external locus of control
- Severely impaired patients are more likely to be externals than are mildly impaired patients
- Depressed patients also often external locus of control

There’s some evidence that a warm, attentive, and responsive family environment is a precursor of development of an internal locus of control while an inconsistent, unpredictable, non-friendly environment predicts an external locus of control
- Older siblings tend to have an internal locus control as well, compared to younger ones

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DOES PSYCHOTHERAPY INCREASE RESPONSIBILITY AWARENESS? IS THAT HELPFUL?

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Several findings:
- Gillis and Jesser demonstrated that hospitalized patients who improved shifted from external to internal locus
- Dua reported a behavioral program with delinquents that resulted in internality
PS! Unfortunately, the above studies don’t have control groups and are subjective to hawthorne effects (acting as expected because of being observed)

Yalom had a 12-category 60-item questionnaire with successful group therapy patients, and “Learning that I must take ultimate responsibility for the way I live my life no matter how much guidance and support I get from others” was in TOP5
- York and Eisman repeated Yalom’s study with drug addicts and the same item was in TOP2

Dreyer demonstrated that majority of patients entering a psychiatric ward expect that others will help them, but 8 days later they stated that they must assume greater personal responsibility

Lieberman with women’s consciousness-raising groups reports patients central theme as “I alone am responsible for my own happiness”

The data suggest that successful psychotherapy patients become more aware of personal responsibility for life. “It seems that not only seeing that relationships - intimacy and relatedness - is a key learning point for patients, but also what one cannot get from others, in therapy as well as in life.”

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Therapist Style: Research Evidence (for locus of control)

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Findings
Helweg asked people to look at videos of Rogers (non-directive) and Ellis (very directive), and found that internals preferred Rogers and externals preferred Ellis

Jacobsen asked therapists to construct profiles of their approaches, and found the same - internals preferred more non-directive ones, and externals more directive ones

Wilson looked at a similar thing through perception: internals will select therapists who they perceive will permit them full participation and control in the process

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Yalom on danger of therapist style

Encounter groups

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Yalom: “The danger: the more active and forceful the therapist (even when in the service of helping the patient assume responsibility), the more the patient is infantilized.”

Yalom studied this with colleagues in encounter groups, they measured all sorts of different aspects:
- Level of activity
- Consent of comments
- Degree of executive function (setting limits, rules, norms, goals, time management, pacing, stopping interceding)
- Number of structured exercises
Feedback exercises, hot seat, psychodrama

When analyzing the outcomes between leader behavior and outcomes (self-esteem, coping mechanisms, peer evaluations etc,)

  • A curvilinear relationship between executive function an outcome: too much resulted in a highly structured authoritarian group in which members failed to have a sense of autonomy; too little resulted in a bewildered floundering group
  • The more structured exercises used by the leader, the more competent did the members deem him to be immediately at the end of the group but the less successful was the outcome of his group’s members measured six months later
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Limits of Responsibility

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The concept of responsibility pragmatically “works” for psychotherapy. But how far does this truth go?

Many therapists work towards responsibility in their clients but secretly believe in a deterministic world (Yalom: “and I don’t exclude myself”)

  • The doubt can leak out, e.g. with a divorced depressed woman, the therapist can think “well, but it is hard as a 45-year-old to find an attractive, single, straight man in San Francisco. Her job, which she needs to survive, to pay her bills, also doesn’t offer a lot of opportunities to meet new people. Perhaps Mr. Right would make 90% of her troubles go away”
  • Then Mr.Right does come along, and happily ever after never transpires
  • So what is right about responsibility?
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Determinist vs Libertarian

Skinner

Binswanger

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Generally in a debate the logic and reality seems to be on the side of the determinist; the libertarian is “softer” and appeals to unmeasurable, emotional argument

  • Dilemma for psychotherapists: being libertarian is effective in their work, but many with backgrounds in science find that a deterministic argument is unassailable
  • However, even Skinner said that “since we are determined by our environment, each of us may manipulate behavior by manipulating our environment”
  • Binswanger about Freud: “The fact that our lives are determined by the forces of life is only one side of the truth; the other is that we determine these forces as our fate. Those who, like Freud, have forged their fates with the hammer - the work of art he has created in the medium of language is sufficient evidence of this - can dispute this fact least of all.”
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Reciprocal determinism

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Bandura: “We all know problem-prone individuals who predictably breed negative social climates wherever they go. Others are equally skilled at bringing out the best in those with whom they interact.”

  • I.e. reciprocal determinism
  • “In deciding which movie to attend from many alternatives in a large city, there are few constraints on the individual so that personal preferences emerge as the predominant determinants. In contrast, if people are immersed in a deep pool of water, their behavior will be remarkably similar, however uniquely varied they might be in their cognitive and behavioral make-up.”
  • Yalom: “but even immersed in the neck, they can choose how they feel about the situation” (but can they?!)
  • However Bandura also said: “for every chicken discovered by an unidirectional environmentalist, a social learning theorist can identify a prior egg”
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Epictetus

Crux of being human

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Epictetus: “I must die. I must be imprisoned. I must suffer exile. But must I die groaning? Must I whine as well? Can anyone hinder me from going into exile with a smile? The master threatens to chain me: what say you? Chain me? My leg you will chain - yes, but not my will - no, not even Zeus can conquer that.”

Yalom: “One’s attitude towards one’s situation is the very crux of being human

  • Even with our handicaps, we are responsible of how we approach them
  • Yalom: “It was Abraham Lincoln, I believe, who said that after forty everyone is responsible for his face.”

Yalom had a patient who felt that because of his handicap she can’t find a mate and without a mate life was without value
- She closed off any options for herself, including an intimate friendship with another woman or a nonsexual friendship with a man

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Acceptance of the external ‘given’

The true task

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Yalom: “Recognition and acceptance of the external ‘given’ do not involve a passive stance toward one’s external environment.

Indeed neo-Marxists and proponents of radical psychiatry have often levied this very charge towards mental health: that it neglects the adverse material circumstances of the individual, whom it urges to unquestioningly accept his or her (capitalist-imposed) lot in life.”

The true task is to then identify one’s true coefficient of adversity; to help patients reconstrue that which they cannot alter.

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PHYSICAL DISEASE & RESPONSIBILITY

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Personal responsibility extends farther than responsibility for one’s psychological state

Freud was the first to suggest that accidental injuries are not just accidental, but instead a manifestation of psychic conflict: he described the “accident prone” individual who suffers an unusual amount of accidental injury.
- Following Freud, two generations of analysts developed the field of psychosomatic medicine in which a number of medical illnesses - arthritis, ulcers, asthma, ulcerative colitis - were discovered to be powerfully affected by psychological state

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Simonton: Even cancer?!

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The concept of responsibility is now being also applied to such illnesses as cancer - long though to be far beyond the individual control

  • Simonton basically reasons that since the individual is constantly exposed to cancer cells, one’s body resists these cells unless resistance has been lowered by some factor, e.g. stress, then psychological focus may well be marshaled to influence the course of cancer
  • He suggests daily visual meditation of a metaphor regarding the cancer, e.g. that the cancer is a piece of raw meat and that white blood cells are bulldogs that are devouring the meat
  • No evidence that this increases survival
  • However, cancer introduces a lot of helplessness, e.g. compared to heart disease in which you can diet and exercise and rest better, thus the simonton approach could help with helplessness
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If Simonton is a lie?

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Nevertheless, if Simonton is based on a lie (doesn’t increase survival) then what else could one do

  • Yalom: “First, one is always responsible for their attitude towards cancer”
  • Some give in to despair and die an early psychological death
  • Some use cancer as catalyst for change towards a meaningful life

Frankl:
- During WWI a Jewish army doctor was sitting in a fox hole with his gentile friend, an aristocratic colonel, and heavy shooting began. Teasingly the colonel said: “You are afraid aren’t you? That’s just another proof that the Aryan race is superior to the Semitic one.” “Sure, I’m afraid,” was the doctor’s answer. “But who is superior? If you, my dear colonel, were as afraid as I am, you would have run away long ago.”

Yalom has developed cancer groups in which members helped each other to assume more responsibility in the process, e.g.

  • to ask for more information from the doctor, to learn to read the X-rays, some found it sensible to refuse medication at certain points
  • Some became activists and advocated for tax credit for breast protheses
  • Some also assumed responsibility of affecting the group itself
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Neurotic guilt & real guilt

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A distinction may be made between neurotic guilt and “real” guilt, or in Buber’s terms, between “guilt” and “guilt feelings”.

  • Neurotic guilt emanates from imagined transgressions against another individual, against ancient and modern taboos, or against parental or social tribunals
  • “Real” guilt flows from an actual transgression against another
  • Though the subjective dysphoric experience is similar, the meaning and the therapeutic management of these forms are very different
  • Neurotic guilt must be approached through a working through of the sense of badness, the unconscious aggressivity and the wish for punishment
  • “Real” guilt must be met by actual or symbolically appropriate reparation
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Existential perspective on guilt

Heidegger

Tillich

Susya

Rollo May

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An existential perspective adds important dimensions to guilt: no longer can the individual rely on such alibis as: “I didn’t mean it”, “I couldn’t help it”
- More importantly, it adds the dimension of being guilty about something you did towards another, but also being guilty of transgression against oneself.

Heidegger used the same word - schuldig - for both guilt and responsibility: “being guilty also has the signification of ‘being responsible for’ - that is, being the cause, or author or even the occasion for something.”

  • Heidegger then proceeds to say that “in the idea of ‘guilty’ there lies the character of the ‘not’, dasein is always constituting, and it “constantly lags behind its possibilities”.
  • Guilt is thus intimately related to possibility or potentiality - feeling guilty of failing to fulfill one’s authentic possibility

Tillich: “Man’s being is not only given to him, but also demanded of him. He is responsible for it; literally, he is required to answer, if he is asked, what he has made of himself. He who asks him is his judge, namely he himself. The situation produces the anxiety which in relative terms is the anxiety of guilt, in absolute terms the anxiety of self-rejection or condemnation.”

Susya, a Hasidic rabbi: “When I get to heaven, they will not ask me ‘Why were you not Moses?’ Instead they will ask ‘Why were you not Susya? Why did you not become what only you could become?’”

Rollo May suggested to look at repression as a source of information: “What is this person’s relation to his own potentialities? What goes on that he chooses or is forced to choose, to block off from his awareness that he knows and on another level knows that he knows?”
- May also describes (existential) guilt as a “positive constructive emotion” - it’s compatible, even necessary for mental health. “When the person denies his potentialities, his condition is guilt.”

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Words used in literature for reaching one’s potential

Horney & Maslow

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self-actualization, self-realization, self-development, development of potential, growth, autonomy, etc

Karen Horney: “Psychopathology occurs when adverse circumstances inhibit a child from growing towards the realization of his or her own possibilities, and instead of it’s potential self develops an “idealized self” towards which it directs its life energies.
- The price for this is alienation, being split, overriding one’s genuine feelings, wishes, and thoughts

Maslow, largely influenced by Horney, too believed that individuals naturally actualize themselves unless circumstances in their development are so adverse that they must strive for safety rather than for growth (adopting a “deficiency motivation”)

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How does one find one’s potential? How does one recognize it when one meets it? How does one know when one has lost one’s way?

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Heidegger, Tillich, Maslow, and May would all say: “Through guilt! Through anxiety! Through the call of the conscience!

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32 years with spiteful man

Bruce & bumps

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Clinical vignette of woman who was for 32 years married to a spiteful man and didn’t go to therapy because she was afraid of marriage breaking up.

  • Eventually she came and at some point Yalom asked her to think of death and describe her feelings without hesitation, she answered: “Regret, for wasting my life, for never knowing what I could have been” (i.e. guilt)
  • She did manage to break up, and later some hard work to start looking at life with possibility rather than regret

Bruce, the compulsive sex man, also felt that life pushed him to do the things he did. “He felt so driven, so perpetually panicked that, like Kaftka, he felt “fortunate to be able to sit in the corner and breathe.”

  • He had also evaded tax, stolen his neighbours newspapers, stolen change from his father as a kid etc.
  • There was crazy self-hatred
  • The first exposure came through assertiveness, he was afraid to assert himself in public situations for his company, because he was afraid of “exposure” - that the opponent or journalist would read aloud a list of all the shameful episodes in his life
  • Yalom asked which would he be afraid of the most, the past or the current deeds?
  • “The current. I could handle the past ones, because that was the way I used to be. Now I’ve changed. I’m a different person.” Hearing himself say this made him realize that his fear of assertiveness is a result of what he is doing right now. Eventually he was immediately and entirely the source of his own self-hatred.
  • Further, bigger developments arrived. He realized that he had focused for much of his life on sex, breasts, genitals, copulation, seductions etc.
  • Bruce: “imagine if we’d study some insect and found out that the males are transfixed by two bumps oh the female and devote all their days on earth to finding ways of touching these bumps. What would we think? Surely there must be more to life! I was like that insect.”
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Kafka’s trial

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Kafka’s trial is a story of the protagonist not taking responsibility (about a crime his arrested for) from the first moment onwards

  • Joseph K. seeks help from every conceivable source to no avail, but as the reader realizes he is confronted with the internal court (e.g. hint at this is that the court is in the attic of a slum dwelling and the the judges of the desks are littered with pornographic books)
  • Joseph K. rationalises “How can any man be called guilty? We are all simply men here, one as much as the other.” Priest: “But that’s how all guilty men talk” “You cast too much help to the outside!” “There is no life outside the jurisdiction of the court (of your own mind)” - it would be delusion
  • There’s a parable at the end when an old man asks for permission through a gate, but the gatekeeper says “Try to get in without my permission. But note that I am powerful. From hall to hall, keepers stand at every door, one more powerful than the other and the sight of the third man is already more than I can ever stand.” The man waits and waits for years and basically starts dying, until he finally asks: - “How has no one but me come seeking admittance?” Gatekeeper says: “No one but you could gain admission through this door, since it was meant for you. I am now going to shut it.”
  • Kafka himself apparently didn’t understand the parable at first. Yet importantly: Kafka’s old man was guilty - not only guilty of living an unlived life, of waiting for permission from another, of not going through the door meant for him alone, but also of not accepting his guilt, not using it as a guide of his interior
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Huscher’s case of Mr. T, who could no longer swallow

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He had problems with his wife, no sexual intimacy, she was a drunk, but Mr. T still didn’t create an outside life for himself

  • “Stuck in his rigid and restricted world, he cleverly parried any of the therapist’s suggestions to the effect that he further this or that potential, pursue this or that option.”
  • His swallowing symptom went away but for years he didn’t change his life, but did continue therapy, which the therapist took as a positive indication
  • Mr. T had a dream very similar to the trial where he was arrested and taken to the police. They didn’t tell me what he was arrested for and asked him to plead guilty. He said “book me with anything you want” and they put him to jail for 5-30 years.
  • Mr T and Joseph K. both are summoned by existential guilt and both choose to proclaim their innocence - after all, neither has committed a crime.
  • Quite the contrary: existential guilt issues from omission. Both Mr T and Joseph K are guilty for what they have not done with their lives.
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Guilt’s implications

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Guilt has then rich implications for the therapist. The therapist should regard it as a call from within which, if heeded, can function as a guide to personal fulfilment.

One who, like Mr T and Joseph K, has existential guilt, has transgressed against their own destiny. Redemption is achieved by plunging oneself into the “true” vocation of the human being, which, as Kierkegaard said, “is to will to be oneself.”