Attraction and Close Relationships Flashcards

Exam 3

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What do people display when the need to belong is not met?

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Depression, anxiety, efforts to restore relationships, and withdraw

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What are exchange relationships?

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People expect and desire equity in a relationship (expect immediate repayment of benefits)

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What are examples of exchange relationships?

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Strangers, acquaintances, business partners

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What are communal relationships?

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People expect and desire mutual responsiveness to each other’s needs (care for people without worrying about getting something for it)

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What are examples of communal relationships?

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Close friendships, romantic relationships, family

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What is the social exchange theory?

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Variables that predict satisfaction and commitment in relationships (romantic relationships possibly friendships)

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What variables lead to satisfaction?

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Rewards - Costs - Comparison Level (CL)

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What variables lead to commitment?

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Satisfaction - Comparison level for alternatives + Investments

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Why was attachment theory created?

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To explain how a child interacts with his/her parents

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What is anxiety?

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Fear of rejection and abandonment

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What is avoidance?

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Avoid intimacy in relationships

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What are the 4 different attachment styles?

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Secure, Anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, fearful-avoidant

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What is a secure attachment style?

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Confident, comfortable with intimacy

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What is an anxious-preoccupied attachment style?

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Seek out intimacy because they fear being abandoned (clingy)

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What is a dismissive-avoidant attachment style?

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Fear intimacy (self-reliant, don’t want to rely on others)

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What is a fearful-avoidant attachment style?

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Mixed feelings (want to be close, but aren’t comfortable with intimacy) high on both anxiety and avoidance

17
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What 5 things predict attraction?

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  1. Proximity
  2. Physical Attractiveness
  3. Similarity
  4. Reciprocal Liking
  5. Reactance
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What is the propinquity (or Proximity) Effect?

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The more we see and interact with people, the more likely they are to become our friends

19
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What is the single best predictor of attraction?

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Physical proximity or nearness

20
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What is the mere exposure effect?

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The more often we are exposed to a stimulus, the more we come to like that stimulus

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What is an example of the mere exposure effect?

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People like pictures of their mirror-image (what they usually see) while their friends like actual pictures

22
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What features are seen as attractive?

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Large eyes, big smile, prominent cheekbones, symmetrical features

23
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Why do we like beautiful people?

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It is inherently rewarding to be in the company of people who are attractive

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What is the ‘what is beautiful is good’ stereotype?

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Belief that attractive people also possess positive personality characteristics (also called the halo effect)

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Is the ‘what is beautiful is good’ stereotype accurate?

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Good-looking people do have more friends, better social skills, and a more active sex life, but beauty is not related to objective measures of intelligence, personality, or mental health

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Why do we like similar others?

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  1. We’re more likely to meet similar others
  2. They provide us with validation for our characteristics and beliefs (make us think we’re right)
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What is reciprocity?

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We like people who like us, or who like us back (reciprocal liking can be a self-fulfilling prophecy)

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What is reactance?

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When we are told that we cannot have or do something, it often increases its desirability to us (secrecy also increases attractiveness)

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What are the 3 basic components of Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love?

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Passion, intimacy, commitment

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What is passion?

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Arousal, sexual attraction

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What is initmacy?

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Feelings of being close to and bonded with one’s partner

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What is commitment?

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Long term stability

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What is liking?

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Intimacy alone
Ex: therapist, short-term friend

34
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What is companionate love?

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Intimacy and Commitment
Ex: friends and family

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What is empty love?

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Commitment alone
Ex: extended family, unhappy marriage

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What is fatuous love?

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Passion and Commitment
Ex: sneaky link

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What is infatuation?

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Passion alone
Ex: one night stand

38
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What is romantic love?

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Intimacy and Passion
Ex: summer romance, vacation boyfriend

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What is consummate love?

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Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment