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Attraction and Close Relationships Flashcards

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Determinants of initial attraction

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Proximity/exposure

  • Festinger housing study
  • Moreland and Beach classroom study

Similarity
- Byrne’s two-stage attraction model

Reciprocal liking

  • Curtis and miller liking study
  • Two exceptions

Physical attractiveness

  • Characteristics
  • Composites
  • Stereotypes and self-fulfilling prophecies
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Proximity

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How close a person lives

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Similarity

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People become romantically involved with others who are equivalent in their physical attractiveness
Friends, dates, and marriage partners resemble each other on- demographic variables (age, education, race, religion, socioeconomic status)
+ opinions, style

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Physical Attractiveness

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We end up with partners with similar levels of attractiveness
More attractive, more positively you are viewed
- Babies look longer at attractive faces
- Attractive experiments get more signatures
- Attractive suspects get lower bail and fines
- Attractive people get paid more

What do people find attractive?

  • Smooth skin, pleasant expression, youthfulness
  • Symmetry
  • Body shape
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Stereotypes about attractive people

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Attractive people are judged to be

  • More socially competent
  • More sexual, happier, and more assertive
  • This is dependent on independent and interdependent cultures

Truth?

  • Physical attractiveness is not related to objective measures of intelligence, personality, adjustment, or self-esteem
  • Good looking people have more friends, better social skills, and more active sex life.
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Self-fulfilling prophecy

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Higher in attractiveness people will rate you higher due to stereotypes – therefore you will live up to that expectation.

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Beauty standards and issues in attraction

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Beauty has costs
- Cannot tell why you are receiving attention – attribute favourable report about quality of work to looks when seen by evaluator

Pressure to maintain beauty

  • Steroids
  • Standards
  • Eating disorders
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Evolutionary Perspective

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Men and women look for different characteristics in a romantic partner

Both seek to maximise their chances of reproductive success
- Pass genes onto next generation

Men 
Constraints 
-	No limits on # of kids 
-	Not very selective 
What they look for 
-	Signs of reproductive fitness
-	Physical appearance 
-	Attractiveness, youth 
Women 
Constraints 
-	Can only bear and raise a certain # of kids 
-	Can be highly selective 
What they look for 
-	Resources 
-	Economic and career achievements 
-	Ambition, industriousness, good earning capacity
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Conspicuous Consumption (Short term mating + evolutionary perspective)

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Buying/displaying expensive items
Showing off your resources/status

Is this a short-term mating strategy used by men?
- Signal high genetic quality
- Opportunity to obtain economic resources
Not great for long term mating role
- Too wasteful

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Intimate relationships

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Feelings of attachment, affection, and love

Fulfilment of psychological needs generates interdependence between partners
- Each has a meaningful influence on the other

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Types of love

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Passionate vs. companionate love

  • Passionate (intense longing for a person and physiological arousal)
  • Companionate (feelings of intimacy and affection
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Intimacy

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Self-disclosure

  • Revelations about the self, made to others
  • Increases as relationship develops

Higher self-disclosure associated with

  • More positive affect and attraction in lab study
  • Greater satisfaction, commitment, and love in couples

Gender effects

  • Women disclose more than men
  • People disclose more when talking to women
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Type of Equity relationships

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Exchange relationships

  • E.g., strangers and casual acquaintances
  • Strict reciprocity
  • Keep track of who contributes what

Communal relationships

  • E.g., close friends, romantic partners, and family members
  • Mutual responsiveness to each other’s needs
  • Don’t keep track of contributions as closely
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Need to Belong theory (Baumeister & Leary, 1995) – The backdrop of this class

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People have a fundamental need to belong, need positive interactions with one or more people in the context of stable, supportive relationships.

  • React strongly to successes and failures in belonging
  • Engage in behaviours to fulfill our need to belong
  • Relationships are substitutable

People should be motivated to sustain relationships due to this need. If we have positive reactions this will meet our need to belong.

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Reasons for proximity effect

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The mere exposure effect
- The more often we are exposed to a stimulus, the more we come to like that stimulus even if we have no conscious recognition of it

Why?

  • Exposure increases perceptual fluency (easy to process), which feels good.
  • Repeated exposure to object + nothing bad happens = safe
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Two-stage model of the attraction process (Byrne, 1986) and reasons

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You meet someone, go through the negative screen of dissimilarity, when dissimilar you avoid someone. If you are similar you go through the positive screen of similarity if you have low similarity you become indifferent to someone. If you have a high similarity you’re attracted then continue contact.

Reasons for similarity-attraction

Social validation function
- When others share our attitudes and beliefs, it makes us feel like we are right

Attribution for disagreement
- When others disagree with us on important issues, we may attribute it to an unpleasant, immoral, weak, or thoughtless character

Reciprocal liking
- We assume that similar others will like us

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Why do we like attractive people?

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What-is-beautiful-is-good stereotype

Rewarding to be in the company of people who are aesthetically appealing

We associate physical attractiveness with other desirable qualities

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Triangular theory of love

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Passion
- Arousal you experience towards your partner including sexual attraction (motivational component)

Intimacy
- Feeling of being close to and bonded with a partner (emotional component)

Commitment
- To love your partner and maintain that love and stay with your partner (cognitive component)

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Social exchange theory

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In their relationships with others, people are motivated to maximse benefits and minimise costs

Rewards
- Positive, gratifying aspects of the relationship that make it worthwhile and reinforcing

Costs
- Things we don’t like about our partner, conflict, compromise

People are more satisfied when the reward/cost ratio exceeds their comparison level
- Average expectation about the level of rewards and punishments they are likely to receive in a particular relationship

People are more committed when the reward/cost ratio exceeds their comparison level for alternatives
- Expectations about the level of rewards and punishments they would receive in an alternative relationship

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Investment model

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Builds onto Social Exchange Theory

  • Adds investments
  • What people have put into a relationship that they can’t recover if the relationship ends (e.g., time and effort, memories, shared activities/friends)
  • Helps to explain why people stay in relationships even when they are not satisfied
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Equity Theory

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People feel happiest when the balance of rewards and costs are the same for each person in the relationship.

  • My benefits/contributions = partners benefits/contributions
  • I feel bad it I think I’m over – or under benefited

Exchange theory says that more rewards are better, equity says this is not always the case

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Festinger et al. (1950) proximity experiment.

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University married housing residents started as strangers, randomly assigned to apartments.
Those that lived closer were more likely to be friends- those living by stairs and mailboxes had more upstairs friends. If you live close to people, you’re more likely to be friends with them. More opportunity.

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Classroom study, (Moreland & Beach, 1992)

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4 female confederates reviewed as equally attractive. Each attended class different times across the semester. Pictures of confederates placed on a projector and their attractiveness was rated. The one that attend the class the most was the most attractive.

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Reciprocal liking experiment

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Participants are paired up. Experimenter tells you the other participant likes you or doesn’t (IV). If you think either of these it sets a cycle in motion, you either return the favour positively or negatively.

Findings
- The reciprocity effect exists when confederates say they liked someone more. They self-disclosed more, more pleasant, and warm.

Reasons

  • Rewarding – it feels good to be around someone who likes us
  • Similarity – we like ourselves

Exceptions

  • Playing hard to get – prefer people who are moderately selective compared to nonselective or too selective
  • Self-esteem – low self-esteem Ps prefer to meet and talk to people who criticised vs. praised them.
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Composite faces

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Ps rate many faces merged by a computer as more attractive than the component faces – the more faces the more attractive

Why?
Composite faces are more familiar and prototypical

Not all the same

  • Composites are rated as more attractive when made from attractive vs average faces and contain a picture of us
  • Egotism and self-esteem come into this
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Self-fulfilling prophecy experiment

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Male Ps spoke with a woman over the phone – saw picture of an attractive or unattractive female who they thought they would talk to - Ps were more sociable and warmer to women they thought were attractive

Women’s responses to the men were more attractive, confident, animated, and warm

Same effect influenced both men and women.

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Buss surveyed 9000 Ps in 37 countries, evidence for the evolutionary perspective, what did people value?

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How important and desirable are various characteristics in choosing a marriage partner?

  • Women valued ambition, industriousness, earning capacity more than men
  • Men valued physical attractiveness more than women
  • Both valued honesty, trustworthiness, and a pleasant personality the most

Gender differences are stronger on a limited mate-budget

Physical attractiveness is important for women, especially when looking at

  • Behaviour vs. ratings
  • Short-term relationships vs. potential marriage partner
  • Areas with more economic power
  • Areas with disease (attractiveness can signal health)
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Who engages in conspicuous consumption? (evolution support)

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Mating strategies scaled
- High or low investment

Story priming

  • Short-term romantic fling
  • Long-term committed relationship
  • Searching for a lost item in one’s household

DV
- How much money would you want to spend on a nice dinner with friends, new car, new watch

Findings

  • Low investment men primed with a short-term situation were higher in conspicuous consumption (compared to control)
  • If your natural approach to mating is short-term (in men) then you are more likely to engage in conspicuous consumption for mating purposes
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How do potential mates perceive conspicuous consumption- experiment?

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Ps read about opposite sex target who had just purchased a luxury or non-luxury car

Rated desirability as potential date and marriage partner, and perceived mating strategy

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Passion and Misattribution of Arousal (Dutton & Aron)

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Misattribution) Female confederates give a questionnaire and telephone number (for debriefing) to male participants.

  • During or after crossing a suspension bridge across a canyon
  • Those approached on the scary bridge were more likely to call; presumably because they misattributed their arousal to attraction for confederate
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White, Fishbein, and Rutstein examined initial attraction as a moderator

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(Passion) IV 1: Physiological arousal
- Male Ps ran for 15 seconds (low arousal) or 2 minutes (high arousal)

IV 2: Attractiveness of future ‘date’
- Watched video of a female confederate made to look attractive or unattractive

DVs: trait ratings, romantic attraction, general attraction

Findings
- Running/arousal increased attraction to attractive target and decreased attraction to unattractive target

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