Attraction Flashcards
what is the social affiliation model?
homeostatic model (constantly changing boundaries) where we seek out interactions in a manner consistent with an INTERNAL OPTIMAL RANGE
why do we isolate ourselves? (theories & models) (3)
privacy regulation theory (Altman, 1975)
social affiliation model (O’connor & Rosenblood, 1996)
sociotropic vs soliotropic orientation (Leary, Herbst, McCrary, 2003)
why do we isolate ourselves? (2) + (2)
psychological wellbeing:
isolation allows for:
–> creativity & freedom of expression
–> relaxation & spirituality
Privacy regulation theory (Altman, 1975)= (4)
- Desire for privacy is not consistent: it is dynamic (changing) & dialectic (interactive)
- it varies based on individual and cultural differences
- when actual privacy EXCEEDS desired we feel lonely
- when actual privacy is LESS THAN desired we feel annoyed or crowded
sociotropic vs solitropic orientation (Leary, Herbst, McCrary, 2003)
sociotropic= orientation towards being with people
solitropic= orientation towards being alone
- two orientations arent counter-opposed more of a quadruple scale
what are the 4 motivations to be with people?>
- social attention= seeking praise or approval
- social comparison= seeking information (e.g. assess if opinions are valid & general info seeking)
- stimulation= seeking entertainmnet (anything to avoid boredom)
- emotional support
why bother attracting people? (2)
- due to fundamental need to belong
- ‘need to affiliate’= urge to form connections
Dangers of social isolations: evidence> (3)
- Infants need for social care (spitz, 1945)> resulted in hospitalism & stunted development
- Inmate spent 29 years in solitary confinement> resulted in trouble recognising faces & sense of direction
- poker player bet $100,000 he could last 30 days in isolation> (lasted 20 days, experienced changes in his sleep cycle & hallucinations)
infants need for social care (spitz, 1945) (3)
- Post wwII abandoned babies taken in by hospital- only biological needs tended to> no nurture or social contact
impact: - hospitalism= state of apathy & depression among infants deprived of social contact
- higher mortality rates & less socially & mentally advanced
Dangers of social isolation: effect on the brain> (2)
- reduced size of hippocampus (memory & spatial awareness)
- increased activity of the amygdala (memory, decision-making, & emotions)
dangers of social isolation: effects on the body (2)
- diverse social networks related to a lower susceptibility to common colds
- increase risk of heart attack or stroke
dangers of social isolation: effect of rejection
- evidence from fMRI studies show brain response to rejection from people as the same as physical pain (eisenberger, lieberman, & williams, 2003)
(- aspirin can help sooth emotional pain (deweall & baumeister, 2006))
Dangers of social isolation: which part of the brain become overactivated if you spend too much time alone?
amygdala
someone with a solitropic orientation prefers?
spending time by themselves
Dangers of social isolation: what becomes underactivated when we spend too much time alone?
hippocampus
(memory & spatial awareness)
What is social identity?
Idea a person’s sense of self is based on group membership
what is the ‘social cure’ (jettern et al, 2009) [3]
- Depressed individuals who joined groups reduced risk of depression relapse by 24%
- If joined three groups, risk reduced by 63%
- membership of social groups is both protective against developing depression & curative of existing depression