15. Variations in Sexual Behaviour Flashcards
% of women = cannot experience orgasm through penetration alone
75
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OMG yes
% of ppl who fake orgasms
28 men, 67 women
y fake (4)
- Orgasm was unlikely
- Wanted sex to end
- Wanted to avoid negative consequences (hurting partner’s feelings)
- Wanted to obtain positive consequences (pleasing partner)
CONSEQUENCES for faking (3)
- Repeated faking → partner gets wrong feedback about what works for you sexually
- Setting yourself up for not experiencing sexual pleasure
- Teaching your partner what doesn’t work
- 25% women fake 90% of the time
- Becomes problematic when it’s a pattern
% of ppl who have fantasies
97
3 most common fantasies
- 89% → threesome
- 74% → orgies
- 61% → gangbang
% fantasize about sadomasochism?
- 60% → inflicting pain
- 65% → receiving pain
other fantasies?
- Novelty, adventure, and variety
- Anal, different positions, sex in public, trying new toy, etc.
how many have acted out their biggest fantasy and why?
Less than 1/3 have acted out their biggest fantasy
- Most common reason: worried about how their partner would react
Sexual orientation:
who we are attracted to sexually
- Relatively stable beginning in adolescence
Gynephillic
attracted to women
Androphilic
attracted to men
Sexual-flexibility
willingness to deviate from sexual orientation; willingness to deviate from societal sexual norms
Low sexual-flexibility → extreme circumstances to deviate from sexual activity
who is higher in sexual fluidity? (M v. F)
- Women tend to be higher than men (2/3 report same sex fantasies)
- Men= 1/3 report same sex fantasies
Why are women more sexually flexible than men? (3)
- Evolutionary explanations: Affiliation with women as adaptive?
- Difficult for women to survive to expand possibilities for support if the male partner is lost - Sexual imprinting windows
- Sexual references = shaped by experience
- Men have a shorter window during adolescence- Many can trace their fetish interests back to this period
- Self Report Bias
- Women might be more likely to report
- Less taboo than for men to report
7 most common “atypical” internet searches
Youth, incest, domination, submission, bestiality, transsexual, and “grannies”
top 5 most viewed category in porn in 2021
- japanese
- lesbian
- ebony
- hentai
- MILF
top 3 men vs. women
men
1. japanese
2. MILF
3. mature
women
1. lesbian
2. japanese
3. MILF
% canadian viewers that are women?
30-40%
How did COVID impact pornography viewership?
pornhub traffic increased 11.6%
NOT SUSTAINED
why increase? (2)
- More time
- Terror Management Theory
- When people are reminded of their mortality, they engage in behaviours to cope with their mortality
COVID Baby Boom? cause boredd?
nope
Research by Dr. Lorri Brotto (UBC) how did sexual activity increase and decrease
- Pandemic → more stress (especially true for women)
- In relationship NOT living with partner = sexual activity INCREASED
- In relationship LIVING with partner = sexual activity DECREASED
domestic abuse?
- Increased
- Particularly by women
- Crisis calls increased
quality of sex life during pandemic?
43% -> decline
42% -> same
13% -> improved
frequency?
declined
most common new additions made by 1 in 5?
new sexual positions, sexting, sharing nude photos, cybersex, filming oneself masturbating, fulfilling sexual fantasies
OTHER: VR porn, remote control dildos
what predicted new additions?
- ^ stress and loneliness = ^ in diverse sexual activities
- Sex = way to cope with stress of COVID
Statistical definition of abnormal sex
Behaviours that are rare (frequency)
- Doesn’t give insight into psychological functioning of person engaging in behaviour
eg: standing on head while having sex
Sociological approach
Deviance from norms
- Depends on society
- Eg: having a shoe fetish
Legal approach
Breaks laws
- Eg: indecent exposure, sex with kids or animals, etc.
Psychological approach
Causes distress or impairment
4Ds of abnormal behaviour:
- dysfunctional → impairs the person’s functioning in daily life
- distress → causes great emotional distress
- deviant → desiring sex with a corpse
- dangerous → to self or others
Medical approach
Paraphilias
- Identified in DSM-5 (8 specific)
- MUST be distress or impairment
when is liking an object abnormal
becomes necessary for sexual arousal or substitute for human partner
- Eg: silk panties
- Really enjoys them
- Cannot get sexually aroused unless silk panties are involved
in general…
wishing to experience sexual behaviour = higher than actual experience
Paraphilic disorder:
Atypical sexual interest → NOT mental disorders
“A paraphilic disorder is a paraphilia that is currently causing distress or impairment to the individual or a paraphilia whose satisfaction has entailed personal harm, or risk of harm to others.” (Causes problems in person’s life in some way)
- distress, impairment, or harm required for diagnosis → distress can’t be result of society’s disapproval
- Must be included for at least 6 months
Anomalous Activities (3)
Distorted behaviours in courtship
- voyeuristic
- exhibitionistic
- frotteuristic
Voyeuristic Disorder
(a voyeur would not find watching an exhibitionist arousing)
- observing an unsuspecting person who is naked, in the process of disrobing, or engaging in sexual activity (peeping toms)
risk (being caught) → contributes to sexual charge
must be over 18 for diagnosis (kids are curious naturally), unknown prevalence (9.6% men, 2.6% women ?)
Exhibitionistic Disorder
Exposing one’s genitals to an unsuspecting person (flashing) Commonly men → women, rare for men → men, or women to expose
“Indecent exposure” → illegal
- can co-occur with pedophilic
- Prevalence = Unknown
- 2-4% in males, lower in females ?
what causes Exhibitionistic
- Likely to have experienced adverse events in childhood
- Father abandonment
- Physical or emotional abuse
goal of Exhibitionistic
- Produce shock, or another strong emotional response
- Best thing to do: stay calm, look away, walk away: dont reinforce shock
Frotteuristic Disorder
- Touching or rubbing against a non-consenting person
- ~30% of male population has engaged in this
- Almost normalized in nightclubs
- Recent study = 35% university students reported engaging in this behaviour
- 4% men, >1% women
Algolagnic Disorders (2)
Involve pain and suffering
- Sexual Masochism Disorder
- Sexual Sadism Disorder
Sexual Masochism Disorder
- Being humiliated, beaten, bound or otherwise made to suffer is sexually exciting to the person
- Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
- himself a masochist
- wrote novels expressing his fantasies
- Prevalence = 2% men, 1% women
Sexual Sadism Disorder
- psychological or physical suffering, humiliation of the victim is sexually exciting to the person
- Derived from Marquis de Sade who lived during French Revolution
- Practiced sadism
- Apparently several women died from this
- Causes distress or have acted with unconsenting person
- Prevalence = Unknown
- 2% men, less for women
- Higher in individuals who have committed sexual homicide
- 37-75% (among men)
Anomalous Target Preference (4)
Problematic target of sexual interest
- Pedophilic Disorder
- Fetishistic Disorder
- Transvestic Disorder
- Autogynephilia
Pedophilic Disorder
DSM-5TR:
1. Over a period of 6 months, recurrent, intense
sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or
behaviors involving sexual activity with a
prepubescent child or children (generally age 13 or
younger).
2. The individual has acted on these urges, or the
sexual urges or fantasies cause marked distress or
interpersonal difficulty.
3. The individual is at least age 16 years and at least 5 years older than the child or children in Criterion A.