1. ATTITUDE & EMOTIONS Flashcards
have the same opinion as someone
Everyone agrees with John that Sian should get the job.
agree with
unwillingly agree to do something
I want to go on an expensive vacation this year. I’m trying to persuade my husband to go along with the idea.
go along with
believe that someone or something is wrong
Martin and Simon disagreed with each other about what color to paint the kitchen. disagree with
disapprove of something
My aunt frowns on people wearing shoes indoors. She makes her friends take them off when they visit.
frown on
be opposed to something
Laura objected to Ankita’s proposals for the new restaurant.
object to
rely on someone
I can always count on my sister to comfort me when I’m upset.
count on
criticize someone for a particular thing
Danny pulled Roberta up on her attitude towards the environment.
pull up on (UK)
strongly criticize someone
During the debate, the politician hit out at her opponents.
hit out at
support someone in an argument
Whenever there’s a disagreement at work, Paulina always sides with our boss. It’s so irritating!
side with
reveal your opposition to something in public
Our local representative has come out against the plans for a new housing development.
come out against
defend someone or yourself against someone else
Carla stood up to the bullies. She told them to stop being mean to her brother
Stand up to
resist or oppose something
The workers at the factory are pushing back on the management’s attempt to introduce a pay cut.
push back (on)
dislike someone for an unknown reason
I think Sonia has something against me.
She never wants to talk to me.
have (something) against
reject an idea
My idea was shot down by the panel before I had a chance to explain it to them.
shoot down
respond to someone who has criticized you
When Emily’s boss accused her of being lazy, she fought back by showing him the clothes she had made that morning.
fight back
deal with criticism or a difficult situation by laughing at it
Terry’s colleagues always make fun of his shirts, but he just laughs it off
Laugh off
do something positive to correct a mistake
Donna bought her brother some chocolates to make up for the things she had said to him.
make up for
treat something as if it is not important
Paul usually shrugs off criticism of his cooking.
shrug off
solve small problems or details
The two companies have almost reached a deal. They just need to iron out a few last details.
iron out
not let criticism or a difficult situation affect you badly
Everyone criticized Magda’s art when she started, but she rose above it and is a successful artist now.
Rise above
in agreement
We’re on the same page about who should get this job.
given permission or approval
Samira has been given the go-ahead to play tennis after her injury.
similar in terms of thoughts, ideas, or attitude
It’s great to work with the creative people in this team. We’re all on the same wavelength.
given permission for
The government has given the green light to the construction of a new train station.
Fran’s dad gave her the thumbs-up to go out with her friends.
agree fully or have a similar attitude
I’m glad my boss and I see eye to eye about recycling in the office.
gave her permission
Fran’s dad gave her the thumbs-up to go out with her friends.
Unable to agree
Nelson and Carole are at odds about which car to buy
reacted angrily
Don jumped down my throat when I suggested he clean the kitchen
accepted each other’s differing opinion
My girlfriend and I have agreed to disagree about what to do on vacation.
a subject that people argue about regularly
Who takes the dog for a walk is a bone of contention for our kids.
severely reprimanded me
My wife read me the riot act for forgetting to lock the door again.
argued all the time
Lenka and I fought like cats and dogs when we were children.
reached an agreement
We struck a deal with the clients after we offered them a discount.
Diana and I reached a compromise about what movie to watch tonight.
a position between two different opinions, or a compromise
We found the middle ground about how much to spend on our new car.
made a compromise
My son wanted to stay out all night.
I met him halfway and let him stay out until midnight.
reaching an agreement after a long discussion
The negotiating teams stayed up all night hammering out a deal.
make a problem or conflict feel less serious
I tried to smooth things over between Pari and Toni after their argument.
ended an argument that has lasted a long time
My neighbor and I have buried the hatchet after arguing about the parking.
did something to end a conflict
After arguing with Dan, Cy held out an olive branch and bought him a drink.
imply, try to say something indirectly
Sorry, I’m not sure what you’re getting at.
get at
give your opinion publicly
Anetta is always speaking out about environmental issues.
add your opinion to an ongoing discussion
The professor weighed in on the debate about the new power station.
Weight in on
use facts or arguments to support your opinion
Farah makes sure to base all her arguments on facts.
base on
criticize someone in an angry way
Andy lashed out at someone who dropped litter in the street.
lash out (at)
criticize someone in an angry way
The manager laid into the players after they lost another match.
lay into
defend someone or something
Only one of my colleagues stuck up for me when my boss criticized my work.
stick up for
give someone support by agreeing with them
When Dad accused me of lying, Jo backed me up and told him I was telling the truth.
back up
make someone join in an argument against their will
Moira tried to drag Phil into her argument with the chef.
drag into
avoid becoming involved
in an argument
Phil, however, prefered
to stay out of it.
stay out of
withdraw a demand or admit you were wrong
Sam wanted his waiters to dress as hot dogs. He backed down when they threatened to quit.
back down
admit you are wrong (after some resistance)
When Pete showed Martin the facts, Martin had to climb down and admit he was wrong.
Climb down
withdraw a threat
Kirsten had been threatening to fire Imran, but she backed off when he promised to work harder.
back off
sort out your differences and become friends again
Arun and Les patched things up after they had an argument.
patch up
admit that what you said was wrong
I’m sorry I said I didn’t like your dress, Katie. I take it back.
take back
resolve a problem or disagreement
I’m trying to smooth things over with Anna, so I bought her some flowers.
smooth over (with)
agree to something (after a lot of resistance)
Craig’s parents finally caved in and bought him a games console.
cave in
make an opinion or proposal less strong
Ed hated Carla’s new book, but he watered down his opinion when he wrote his review.
water down
become friends again
Ben and guns finally made up after their argument
Make up
have a disagreement with someone
They had fallen out when they both applied for the same job
To fall out with
Help
Yulia offered to lend a hand with the dishes after the party.
sympathize with
I really feel for Mario. He has to work so hard in the kitchen.
To feel for
extremely generous
Semir is generous to a fault.
He invited us into his home for a wonderful meal.
made me feel guilty, or told me off
Phil gave me a hard time about being late for work again.
treats them very badly
The boss makes the trainees stay until 11 most nights. She treats them like dirt!
unnecessarily cruel or unkind
Laughing at Sandy’s new dress was below the belt.
disappointed us, or failed to support us
Selma let us down when she canceled the concert at the last minute.
offered to listen to someone’s problems
Yoshiko offered a sympathetic ear when my cat went missing.
kind and generous
Alex is so big hearted. She bought me a beautiful vase for my new apartment.