Week 9 Flashcards
Sense of Self
Sense of self emerges about 18-24 months
Sense of Self- Animals
Most animals don’t have a recognizable sense of self … but some exceptions
Personality
-Measures of predictive behaviour
-genetics (40-60%)
-Acting differetnly across different situations
-more extrovert means less introvert
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Barnum effect
The tendency for people to believe that personality descriptions are tailored specifically to them, when in fact they are vague and general enough to apply to a wide range of people
Strangers to ourselves
Studies show that our peers and acquaintances are often better at predicting our future behaviour than we are. Why?
People have a good grasp of human nature … we understand how social behaviour is shaped by various constraints. But we exempt ourselves from this understanding, thinking instead that our own actions are more a product of our intentions and free will.
Self-concept (looking-glass self)
How we think others see ourselves rather than what others actually see us
Self-perception theory
people gain self-insight by observing their own behaviour
social comparison theory
We tend to compare ourselves to others to assess our own traits and abilities
Social comparisons offer us information … it’s only through comparison that we can gauge the extent to which we’re funny, smart, tall and so forth
-Upward comparisons make us feel bad eg. below average
-Downward comparisons makes us feel better eg. doing bad but being told its above average
spotlight effect
Refers to the tendency for people to believe they are being noticed more than they really are.
This can be quite reassuring … the illusion of being noticed is particularly obvious when we’ve done something embarrassing
-also wearing clothes that seem embarrassing but people do not notice
Illusion of transparency
Refers to the tendency for people to believe that others understand our mental states more than they really do.
Can be negative … we think people “get” us more than they really do. Also may be implicated in bystander non-intervention (we don’t read other people’s signals of concern as well as they presume we do).
But, like the spotlight effect, it can also be reassuring. A common feature of public speaking is for people to over-estimate how much an audience “sees” that they are nervous.
Learning about the illusion of transparency has been shown to improve performance among anxious public speakers.
How to measure self-esteem
As an explicit unidimensional scale (e.g., Rosenberg self-esteem scale)
As an explicit 2-dimensional scale (e.g., self-liking / self-competency scale)
Implicitly, through implicit association tasks, name-letter effects, signature effects etc.
Explicit vs Implicit self esteem
If you’re high on both this is called “secure self-esteem”. If you’re high in explicit but low on implicit self-esteem, it’s called “fragile” or “defensive” self-esteem. People with this pattern are more likely to show verbal defensiveness, more likely to display ingroup bias, and less likely to offer forgiveness to others.
BUT … a review of 7 measures of implicit self-esteem showed very weak correlations among each other … big problem.
High Self-esteem
HAPPINESS
Yes, high self-esteem people are happier; low self-esteem people are more prone to depression and eating disorders.
SPEAKING UP
Yes, high self-esteem people are more likely to speak up and to criticize the group’s approach … indirectly linked with leadership potential.
BUFFERING AGAINST STRESS
Some evidence that high self-esteem helps buffer people against stress, making them more resilient in terms of well-being. But the research is mixed on this.
BUFFERING AGAINST EXISTENTIAL THREAT
High self-esteem is theorized to offer people a ready-made sense of meaning and purpose. Accordingly, high self-esteem people should be less reactive to existential threats (e.g., mortality salience). The evidence for this is pretty consistent
SCHOOLWORK
High self-esteem people tend to do better at school … but there’s little evidence that promoting self-esteem among students successfully improves performance.
WORKPLACE SUCCESS
Also limited evidence that high self-esteem causes good performance at work … with the exception that high self-esteem does seem to help people persist in the face of failure.
RELATIONSHIPS
People high in self-esteem feel more liked, and feel as though they’re more attractive to others. But objective measures seem to disconfirm this.
Self-esteem doesn’t predict the quality or duration of relationships.
RISKY ADOLESCENT BEHAVIOUR
Common perception that low self-esteem causes kids to engage less in smoking, drinking, drug-taking, early sex etc. But no consistent evidence for this … and some evidence for the opposite (high self-esteem people more likely to experiment).
Low Self-esteem
Many different answers to this question, including:
Having a large discrepancy between your actual and ideal self
Receiving persistent negative feedback from the universe
Being uncertain about your qualities (whether good or bad)
Feeling like you’re not accepted by others (sociometer theory)
Sociometer Theory
According to sociometer theory, self-esteem is a measure of whether you feel accepted or rejected by others. Just like physical pain signals that you need to attend to a physical wound, low self-esteem is designed to flag that you need to work harder to build acceptance with others.