Week 7 - Communication and Process Outcomes Flashcards
Communication in negotiation
Communication processes, both verbal and nonverbal, are critical to achieving negotiation goals to resolving conflicts
Negotiation is a process of interaction
Negotiation is context for communication subtleties that influence processes and outcomes
What is communicated during negotiation?
- Offer, counteroffers, and motives: dynamic, interactive, and subject to situational and environmental constraints.
- Information about alternatives (BATNA): negotiators with an attractive BATNA should tell the other party about it if they expect to receive its full benefits
- Information about outcomes: be cautious about sharing outcomes )people feel less positive about their own outcomes when they know how well other party did)
- Social accounts: explanation of mitigating circumstances (no other choice in taking the position they did), explanation of exonerating circumstances (honest mistake - explain broader perspective of a position that looks negative), reframing explanation (change context)
- Communication about process: halt conflict spirals that might otherwise lead to an impasse
How people communicate: Use of language
- Logical level (proposals, offers)
- Pragmatic level (semantics, syntax, style)
The meaning conveyed by a proposition or statement is a combination of one logical surface message and several pragmatic (i.e., hinted or inferred) messages.
It is not only what is said and how it is said that matters but also what additional, veiled, or subsurface information is intended, conveyed, or perceived in reception.
Selection of a communication channel
- Communication is experienced differently when it occurs through different channels
- People negotiate through a variety of communication media - by phone, in writing and increasingly through electronic channels or virtual negotiations
- Social presence distinguishes one communication channel from another (the ability of a channel to carry and convey subtle social cues from sender to receiver that go beyond literal text)
As an alternative to face-to-face interaction, the telephone preserves the ability to transmit social cues through inflection or tone of voice but forfeits the ability to communicate through facial expressions or physical gestures. Written communication has only the words and symbols on paper, although the choice of words and the way they are arranged can certainly convey tone, (in)formality, and emotion.
Use of nonverbal communication
- Make eye contact
- Adjust body position
- Nonverbally encourage or discourage what is being said (nodding, “uh uh”, frown, shake head etc.)
Three main techniques are available for improving communication in a negotiation
- Asking questions
- Listening
- Using role reversal
How to improve communication: Asking questions (Manageable questions)
- Cause attention or prepare the other person’s thinking for further questions (may I ask you a question?)
- Getting information (how much will this cost?)
- Generating thoughts (do you have any suggestions for improving this?)
Unmanageable questions
Cause difficulty (where did you get this dumb idea?)
Give information (didn’t you know we couldn’t afford this?)
Bring the discussion to a false conclusion (don’t you think we have talked about this enough?)
Although these questions may yield information, they are likely to make the
other party feel uncomfortable and less willing to provide information in the future.
Negotiators can also use questions to manage difficult or stalled negotiations
- Take it or leave it
- Pressure to respond to a deadline
- Highball or lowball
- Impasse (what can we do to close this gap)
- Attempts to pressure, control, manipulate
Listening: three major forms
Passive listening: Receiving the message while providing no feedback to the sender
Acknowledgement: Receivers not their heads, maintain eye contact, interject responses
Active listening: Receivers restate or paraphrase the sender’s message in their own language
Using role reversal to improve communication in negotiation
Negotiators understand the other party’s positions by actively arguing these positions until the other party is convinced that he or she is understood
For example, someone can ask you how you would respond to the situation that he or she is in. In doing so, you can come to understand that person’s position, perhaps accept its validity, and discover how to modify both positions to make them more compatible.
Helps members of the negotiation team anticipate counterarguments and formulate appropriate responses
Benefits arising from good communication patterns
- Trust
- Reputation
- Justice
Trust
An individual’s belief in and willingness to act on the words, actions and decisions of another
Three things contribute to trust:
- Individual’s chronic disposition toward trust (individual differences in personality that make some people more trusting than others)
- Situation factors (the opportunity for the parties to communicate with each other adequately)
- History of the relationship between the parties
Recent research on trust and negotiation
Many people approach a new relationship with an unknown party with remarkably high levels of trust
Trust tends to cue cooperative behaviour
Individual motives also shape trust and expectations of the other’s behaviour - Parties who are more co-operatively motivated report higher initial trust
The nature of the negotiation task (distributive versus integrative) can shape how parties judge the trust
- In a more distributive context, trusters tend to focus on the risks they face, while those who are in a position to receive and then reciprocate the others’ trust focus on the benefits that the trusters have provided to them.
- the possibilities for trust to break down or not be completed may increase because neither party truly understands the risks or rewards as perceived by the other,