Week 3 - The Power of Listening Flashcards
Listening Blocks
Mind reading
Rehearsing
Filtering
Judging
Advising
Sparring
Being right
Derailing
Placating
Comparing
Identifying
Mind reading
Making assumptions about what people will say
Rehearsing
Preparing what you will respond next before your partner has finished talking
Filtering
Selective attention, only hearing certain types of information
Judging
Holding certain opinions about the other person
Advising
Telling people how to fix the problem
Sparring
Being argumentative, seeking to convince the other person that your position is better
Being right
main focus on being right and cannot permit self to be wrong
Derailing
Going off the rails, changing topic, making jokes, interrupting
Placating
To agree too much and too quickly
Comparing
working out whether the speaker is smarter/better/more powerful than you
Identifying
Linking other person’s experience to your own
Daydreaming
Being reminded of a memory and drifting away
Dadirri
Deep listening - being in a moment of stillness
Micro-skills
Clarifying
Probing Questions
Paraphrasing
Summarising
Double Listening