Week 3 - Close Relationships (1) - "Getting closer" Flashcards
Do people’s dating preferences predict who they want to date?
No
What did Eastwick and Finkel (2008) find in regard to dating preferences?
There was no relationship between what people said they wanted before the event and who they wanted to date after the event
Similar studies since Eastwick & Finkel (2008) have found that?
Similar findings
What does the research on dating preferences suggest?
Predicting romantic attraction more ‘random’ than we may believe, may feel as though destined to be together, but this seems the results rather than the cease of linking someone
What are the non-verbal signals of romantic interest?
- Smiling
- Increased eye contact (pupil dilation)
- Synchrozined gestures and mimicking
- Touch on face, neck, torso
- Less distance, oriented towards each other
- Speech (matching volume and speed of speech, vocal warmth, relaxed speech, laughter)
In America in 2022, what percentage of people were using online dating?
30%
In 2022, dating online was particularly common among who?
- Younger adults (18-29) - 53%
- Non-heterosexual (e.g. gay) - 51%
In 2022 how many people were active in online dating in the UK?
10 million
Why can online dating be disappointing?
May not feel as attracted to others when finding out who they ‘really’ are, as opposed to who we thought they are (Ramirez et al, 2015)
What is social exchange theory?
Rewards and costs determine satisfaction and commitment (whether to stay or leave)
What are the costs in the social exchange theory?
Undesirable relationship experiences
Rewards and costs in the social exchange theory can be tangible/ material, what is an example of this?
Making dinner, financial assistance
Rewards and costs in the social exchange theory can be intangible/social, what is an example of this?
Feeling loved, knowing your partner is dependable, jealousy
In social exchange theory costs are particularly influential, why is this?
People pay more attention to costs, remember costs more than rewards
How much greater is the influence costs has in the social exchange theory compared to rewards?
5X greater influence
In the investment model what is the three factors that influences commitment?
Satisfaction
Investments
Alternatives
What does the feeling of commitment determine?
Whether to stay or leave the relationship