UNIT 11 RELATIONSHIPS AND HUMAN SEXUALITY Flashcards

1
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What is the key to developing healthy relationships?

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Communication

Effective communication is essential for building and maintaining relationships.

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What are the components of verbal communication?

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  • Desire to know
  • Decision to tell
  • Includes talking and listening

Verbal communication involves both expressing and receiving messages.

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What percentage of communication is nonverbal?

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67%

Nonverbal cues play a significant role in how messages are conveyed.

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List three forms of nonverbal communication.

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  • Touch
  • Eye contact
  • Facial expression
  • Proximity

Nonverbal communication can convey emotions and attitudes without spoken words.

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Nonverbal communication comes from your own sense of _______.

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[self-esteem]

Self-esteem influences how individuals express themselves nonverbally.

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What are the three essential elements of effective communication besides verbal and nonverbal?

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  • Self-disclosure
  • Listening
  • Feedback

These elements enhance understanding and connection between communicators.

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What is self-perception?

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The way individuals view themselves, which can influence interactions with others.

Lack of self-esteem can impact relationships negatively.

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What are the key characteristics of friendship?

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Enhanced feelings of warmth, trust, respect, and qualities such as honesty, acceptance, empathy, and loyalty.

These characteristics contribute to strong and lasting friendships.

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What activities are typically involved in dating?

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Spending time together, practicing communication skills, seeing if romantic feelings develop, and testing compatibility.

Dating helps individuals understand their connection with one another.

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What factors contribute to romantic attraction?

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Warmth and kindness, physical attributes, and financial stability.

Different individuals may prioritize these factors differently.

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11
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Define intimacy in the context of relationships.

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Open trust and sharing of close confidential thoughts and feelings; not always sexual.

Intimacy can exist in various forms beyond physical intimacy.

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What are the three components of Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love?

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  • Commitment
  • Intimacy
  • Passion

Sternberg’s theory suggests that different types of love can be understood through the interplay of these three components.

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Fill in the blank: Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love includes ______, intimacy, and passion.

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Commitment

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True or False: According to Sternberg, passion is one of the three essential components of love.

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True

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Which component of Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love refers to the emotional closeness and connectedness?

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Intimacy

Intimacy involves feelings of warmth, closeness, and connectedness in a relationship.

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What does the commitment component in Sternberg’s theory signify?

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The decision to maintain a long-term relationship

Commitment involves the cognitive aspect of love, including the decision to love someone and the commitment to stay with them.

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In Sternberg’s model, what is passion characterized by?

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Physical attraction and sexual desire

Passion is often associated with the intense feelings of attraction and excitement that can occur in romantic relationships.

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18
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What is the initial stage of relationships before mature love?

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Passionate love

Passionate love is characterized by intense emotions and attraction.

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What are signs that a relationship shows promise?

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Signs include:
* You feel at ease with partner
* You feel good about your partner whether they’re around or not
* Your partner is open with you
* You can say no to each other without feeling guilty
* You feel cared for, appreciated and accepted
* Your partner listens to what you say

These signs indicate a healthy and mature relationship.

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20
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True or False: In a promising relationship, you should feel guilty when saying no to your partner.

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False

A healthy relationship allows for open communication and boundaries.

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21
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Fill in the blank: A relationship shows promise if you feel _______ with your partner.

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at ease

Feeling at ease is crucial for comfort and intimacy in relationships.

22
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What does it mean if you feel good about your partner when they’re not around?

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It indicates a level of trust and appreciation in the relationship

This reflects emotional independence and secure attachment.

23
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What is an important aspect of communication in a promising relationship?

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Your partner listens to what you say

Active listening is essential for understanding and valuing each other’s perspectives.

24
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What does it signify if you feel cared for and accepted in a relationship?

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It indicates emotional safety and mutual respect

These feelings are foundational for a mature love.

25
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What are the crucial ingredients for commitment?

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Love, sex, and intimacy

These elements are fundamental for building and maintaining commitment in relationships.

26
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Name two key components of commitment.

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Mutual trust and caring

Trust and care are essential for fostering a secure and supportive relationship.

27
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True or False: Respect is not a crucial ingredient for commitment.

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False

Respect is vital for a healthy, committed relationship.

28
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What does a willingness to tolerate flaws imply in a relationship?

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Acceptance of imperfections

This willingness helps partners navigate challenges and maintain harmony.

29
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Fill in the blank: Effective _______ is essential for commitment.

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communication

Clear and open communication fosters understanding and connection.

30
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What does a willingness to change in response to each other signify?

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Adaptability

This adaptability demonstrates commitment to the relationship’s growth.

31
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List three aspects of sharing duties and responsibilities in a committed relationship.

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  • Egalitarian roles
  • Balance of individual interests
  • Joint activities

Sharing responsibilities fosters equality and mutual support.

32
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What is the significance of shared morals and values in commitment?

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Foundation for alignment

Shared morals and values help partners navigate decisions and conflicts together.

33
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What are the three forms of committed relationships?

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Partnerships, cohabitation, or marriage

These represent different ways individuals can engage in long-term relationships.

34
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What trend is observed regarding marriage?

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Fewer people are getting married

This indicates a shift in societal norms and preferences towards long-term relationships.

35
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What is a common choice among couples instead of marriage?

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Living together

Cohabitation has become a more popular option for many couples.

36
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How do married people compare to non-married people in terms of health and longevity?

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Married people are healthier and live longer

This suggests a potential benefit of marriage on overall well-being.

37
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What is the selection theory in the context of marriage?

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Healthy people are more attractive and more likely to get married

This theory posits that health can influence marriage prospects.

38
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What does protection theory suggest about married couples?

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Married people look after each other and support each other

This theory highlights the mutual benefits of being in a committed relationship.

39
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What are some forms of committed relationships?

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Many different forms

Includes married, cohabitating, and other types of partnerships.

40
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Is there a single ‘normal’ form of committed relationship?

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No, there is no one ‘normal’

Committed relationships can vary widely across cultures and individuals.

41
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Which group is generally healthier: married/cohabitating people or single/divorced/widowed individuals?

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Married/cohabitating people

Studies suggest that those in committed relationships often enjoy better physical and mental health.

42
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What are some potential reasons for the health benefits of committed relationships?

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Potential reasons include:
* Genetic selection
* Support of a spouse/partner
* Positive effect of raising children
* Better lifestyle values
* Other factors

These factors may interact in complex ways to influence health.

43
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True or False: The health advantages of committed relationships are likely due to a single factor.

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False

It is likely a combination of multiple factors that contribute to the health benefits.

44
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What are the three types of abuse that indicate an unhealthy relationship?

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Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse

These forms of abuse are key indicators of an unhealthy relationship.

45
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What is codependency?

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A condition where one person relies excessively on another for emotional support and validation

Codependency can lead to an imbalance in a relationship.

46
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Name three warning signs of an unhealthy relationship.

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  • Criticism
  • Contempt
  • Defensiveness

These behaviors can erode trust and respect in a relationship.

47
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True or False: Wanting to know where you are at all times is a sign of a healthy relationship.

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False

This behavior indicates a lack of trust and control issues.

48
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Fill in the blank: A partner who is frequently _______ you may be exhibiting unhealthy behavior.

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humiliating

Humiliation can significantly impact self-esteem and mental health.

49
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What behavior can indicate jealousy or anger in an unhealthy relationship?

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Becoming jealous or angry

Such behaviors can lead to controlling actions and emotional distress.

50
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What does it mean to attempt to control various aspects of your life in a relationship?

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It signifies a lack of respect for personal autonomy and boundaries

Control can manifest in many ways, including monitoring activities or decisions.

51
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What is a potential consequence of threatening harm in a relationship?

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It creates an environment of fear and intimidation

Threats can escalate to physical violence and should be taken seriously.

52
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What does coercion in a relationship imply?

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Trying to manipulate or force someone into doing something against their will

Coercion undermines consent and can be a form of emotional abuse.