UNIT 11 RELATIONSHIPS AND HUMAN SEXUALITY

Question 1

What is the key to developing healthy relationships?

Answer 1

Communication

Effective communication is essential for building and maintaining relationships.

Question 2

What are the components of verbal communication?

Answer 2

• Desire to know
• Decision to tell
• Includes talking and listening

Verbal communication involves both expressing and receiving messages.

Question 3

What percentage of communication is nonverbal?

Answer 3

67%

Nonverbal cues play a significant role in how messages are conveyed.

Question 4

List three forms of nonverbal communication.

Answer 4

• Touch
• Eye contact
• Facial expression
• Proximity

Nonverbal communication can convey emotions and attitudes without spoken words.

Question 5

Nonverbal communication comes from your own sense of _______.

Answer 5

[self-esteem]

Self-esteem influences how individuals express themselves nonverbally.

Question 6

What are the three essential elements of effective communication besides verbal and nonverbal?

Answer 6

• Self-disclosure
• Listening
• Feedback

These elements enhance understanding and connection between communicators.

Question 7

What is self-perception?

Answer 7

The way individuals view themselves, which can influence interactions with others.

Lack of self-esteem can impact relationships negatively.

Question 8

What are the key characteristics of friendship?

Answer 8

Enhanced feelings of warmth, trust, respect, and qualities such as honesty, acceptance, empathy, and loyalty.

These characteristics contribute to strong and lasting friendships.

Question 9

What activities are typically involved in dating?

Answer 9

Spending time together, practicing communication skills, seeing if romantic feelings develop, and testing compatibility.

Dating helps individuals understand their connection with one another.

Question 10

What factors contribute to romantic attraction?

Answer 10

Warmth and kindness, physical attributes, and financial stability.

Different individuals may prioritize these factors differently.

Question 11

Define intimacy in the context of relationships.

Answer 11

Open trust and sharing of close confidential thoughts and feelings; not always sexual.

Intimacy can exist in various forms beyond physical intimacy.

Question 12

What are the three components of Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love?

Answer 12

• Commitment
• Intimacy
• Passion

Sternberg’s theory suggests that different types of love can be understood through the interplay of these three components.

Question 13

Fill in the blank: Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love includes ______, intimacy, and passion.

Answer 13

Commitment

Question 14

True or False: According to Sternberg, passion is one of the three essential components of love.

Answer 14

True

Question 15

Which component of Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love refers to the emotional closeness and connectedness?

Answer 15

Intimacy

Intimacy involves feelings of warmth, closeness, and connectedness in a relationship.

Question 16

What does the commitment component in Sternberg’s theory signify?

Answer 16

The decision to maintain a long-term relationship

Commitment involves the cognitive aspect of love, including the decision to love someone and the commitment to stay with them.

Question 17

In Sternberg’s model, what is passion characterized by?

Answer 17

Physical attraction and sexual desire

Passion is often associated with the intense feelings of attraction and excitement that can occur in romantic relationships.

Question 18

What is the initial stage of relationships before mature love?

Answer 18

Passionate love

Passionate love is characterized by intense emotions and attraction.

Question 19

What are signs that a relationship shows promise?

Answer 19

Signs include:
* You feel at ease with partner
* You feel good about your partner whether they’re around or not
* Your partner is open with you
* You can say no to each other without feeling guilty
* You feel cared for, appreciated and accepted
* Your partner listens to what you say

These signs indicate a healthy and mature relationship.

Question 20

True or False: In a promising relationship, you should feel guilty when saying no to your partner.

Answer 20

False

A healthy relationship allows for open communication and boundaries.

Question 21

Fill in the blank: A relationship shows promise if you feel _______ with your partner.

Answer 21

at ease

Feeling at ease is crucial for comfort and intimacy in relationships.

Question 22

What does it mean if you feel good about your partner when they’re not around?

Answer 22

It indicates a level of trust and appreciation in the relationship

This reflects emotional independence and secure attachment.

Question 23

What is an important aspect of communication in a promising relationship?

Answer 23

Your partner listens to what you say

Active listening is essential for understanding and valuing each other’s perspectives.

Question 24

What does it signify if you feel cared for and accepted in a relationship?

Answer 24

It indicates emotional safety and mutual respect

These feelings are foundational for a mature love.

Question 25

What are the crucial ingredients for commitment?

Answer 25

Love, sex, and intimacy ## Footnote These elements are fundamental for building and maintaining commitment in relationships.

Question 26

Name two key components of commitment.

Answer 26

Mutual trust and caring ## Footnote Trust and care are essential for fostering a secure and supportive relationship.

Question 27

True or False: Respect is not a crucial ingredient for commitment.

Answer 27

False ## Footnote Respect is vital for a healthy, committed relationship.

Question 28

What does a willingness to tolerate flaws imply in a relationship?

Answer 28

Acceptance of imperfections ## Footnote This willingness helps partners navigate challenges and maintain harmony.

Question 29

Fill in the blank: Effective _______ is essential for commitment.

Answer 29

communication ## Footnote Clear and open communication fosters understanding and connection.

Question 30

What does a willingness to change in response to each other signify?

Answer 30

Adaptability ## Footnote This adaptability demonstrates commitment to the relationship's growth.

Question 31

List three aspects of sharing duties and responsibilities in a committed relationship.

Answer 31

* Egalitarian roles * Balance of individual interests * Joint activities ## Footnote Sharing responsibilities fosters equality and mutual support.

Question 32

What is the significance of shared morals and values in commitment?

Answer 32

Foundation for alignment ## Footnote Shared morals and values help partners navigate decisions and conflicts together.

Question 33

What are the three forms of committed relationships?

Answer 33

Partnerships, cohabitation, or marriage ## Footnote These represent different ways individuals can engage in long-term relationships.

Question 34

What trend is observed regarding marriage?

Answer 34

Fewer people are getting married ## Footnote This indicates a shift in societal norms and preferences towards long-term relationships.

Question 35

What is a common choice among couples instead of marriage?

Answer 35

Living together ## Footnote Cohabitation has become a more popular option for many couples.

Question 36

How do married people compare to non-married people in terms of health and longevity?

Answer 36

Married people are healthier and live longer ## Footnote This suggests a potential benefit of marriage on overall well-being.

Question 37

What is the selection theory in the context of marriage?

Answer 37

Healthy people are more attractive and more likely to get married ## Footnote This theory posits that health can influence marriage prospects.

Question 38

What does protection theory suggest about married couples?

Answer 38

Married people look after each other and support each other ## Footnote This theory highlights the mutual benefits of being in a committed relationship.

Question 39

What are some forms of committed relationships?

Answer 39

Many different forms ## Footnote Includes married, cohabitating, and other types of partnerships.

Question 40

Is there a single 'normal' form of committed relationship?

Answer 40

No, there is no one 'normal' ## Footnote Committed relationships can vary widely across cultures and individuals.

Question 41

Which group is generally healthier: married/cohabitating people or single/divorced/widowed individuals?

Answer 41

Married/cohabitating people ## Footnote Studies suggest that those in committed relationships often enjoy better physical and mental health.

Question 42

What are some potential reasons for the health benefits of committed relationships?

Answer 42

Potential reasons include: * Genetic selection * Support of a spouse/partner * Positive effect of raising children * Better lifestyle values * Other factors ## Footnote These factors may interact in complex ways to influence health.

Question 43

True or False: The health advantages of committed relationships are likely due to a single factor.

Answer 43

False ## Footnote It is likely a combination of multiple factors that contribute to the health benefits.

Question 44

What are the three types of abuse that indicate an unhealthy relationship?

Answer 44

Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse ## Footnote These forms of abuse are key indicators of an unhealthy relationship.

Question 45

What is codependency?

Answer 45

A condition where one person relies excessively on another for emotional support and validation ## Footnote Codependency can lead to an imbalance in a relationship.

Question 46

Name three warning signs of an unhealthy relationship.

Answer 46

* Criticism * Contempt * Defensiveness ## Footnote These behaviors can erode trust and respect in a relationship.

Question 47

True or False: Wanting to know where you are at all times is a sign of a healthy relationship.

Answer 47

False ## Footnote This behavior indicates a lack of trust and control issues.

Question 48

Fill in the blank: A partner who is frequently _______ you may be exhibiting unhealthy behavior.

Answer 48

humiliating ## Footnote Humiliation can significantly impact self-esteem and mental health.

Question 49

What behavior can indicate jealousy or anger in an unhealthy relationship?

Answer 49

Becoming jealous or angry ## Footnote Such behaviors can lead to controlling actions and emotional distress.

Question 50

What does it mean to attempt to control various aspects of your life in a relationship?

Answer 50

It signifies a lack of respect for personal autonomy and boundaries ## Footnote Control can manifest in many ways, including monitoring activities or decisions.

Question 51

What is a potential consequence of threatening harm in a relationship?

Answer 51

It creates an environment of fear and intimidation ## Footnote Threats can escalate to physical violence and should be taken seriously.

Question 52

What does coercion in a relationship imply?

Answer 52

Trying to manipulate or force someone into doing something against their will ## Footnote Coercion undermines consent and can be a form of emotional abuse.