theories of romantic relationship: duck phase model Flashcards
What is the phase model?
Stages people go through when their relationship is not working.
What are the four stages of the phase model?
- Intra-psychic
- Dyadic
- Social
- Grave dressing
What is the focus of the intra-psychic phase?
Cognitive process regarding dissatisfaction.
What do individuals do during the intra-psychic phase?
Worry about reasons for dissatisfaction, weigh pros and cons, and make future plans.
What is the focus of the dyadic phase?
Interpersonal process between the two partners.
What happens during the dyadic phase?
Partners must discuss their relationship, airing dissatisfaction.
What characterizes the dyadic phase?
- Anxiety
- Hostility
- Complaints about lack of equity
- Resentment of imbalanced roles
- Deeper self-disclosure
What is the focus of the social phase?
Wider process involving the couple’s social networks.
What occurs during the social phase?
The breakup is made public, and people choose sides.
What roles do friends play during the social phase?
- Provide reassurance
- Place blame
- Attempt to help the relationship
What is the focus of the grave dressing phase?
Creating a narrative to favor oneself and maintain a positive reputation.
What role does gossip play in the grave dressing phase?
Helps partners gain social credit.
What does the dissatisfied partner reach in the grave dressing phase?
The threshold ‘time to get a new life.’
