theme a: religion, relationships and families Flashcards
how do we know that women and men are equal?
‘God created humankind in his image…male and female he created them’
how do we know that men and women are supposed to procreate?
‘be fruitful and multiply’
how do we know that men and women complement eachother?
-in genesis 2 God takes adam (humanity) and splits it into two complementary parts
-this shows the idea of in equality between sexes, as men and women complement each other
-together each person is able to give the other what the other lacks, producing a harmony which isn’t possible in isolation
what are the three natures/purposes of sexual love?
-procreative
-unitive
-marital
sexual love as procreative
-through sex God creates new life
-catholic marriage ceremony contains the commitment to accept children lovingly from God
quote to present sexual love as procreative
every marriage act must remain open to the transmission of life’ (humana vitae 11)
sexual love as unitive
-sexual love expresses and deepens the couples love for each other
-adultery is forbidden because it destroys the unity of the married couple
quote to present sexual love as unitive
‘the two shall become one flesh’ (bible)
sexual love as marital
-sacrament of marriage lets two people in love commit themselves publicly and exclusively to each other
-the promises made before God in the catholic church include a commitment to be together for life
-after these promise, the commitment is consummated by sex
-for a marriage to be valid there has to be sexual intercourse
-sex before or outside marriage is not allowed
pope john paul Ils teachings about marital sex
-unites a couple in love
-shows commitment, mutual love and respect
-leads to greater intimacy
-gives the possibility of creating new life
-NFP
pope john paul Ils teachings about extramarital sex
-a form of exploitation for personal pleasure
-can make people selfish, caring only for themselves and not their marriage partner
-adultery breaks marriage vows and shows no commitment to a spouse
-is a sin and distorts God’s original plan for human beings
-can lead people to think of others as sex objects rather than individuals with dignity and value
modern british views about sexual relationships
-some people in britain have casual sex with many partners
-many people in britain, including some christians, view using contraceptives as a responsible way of preventing sexually transmitted diseases and unplanned pregnancies
other christian denominations’ views about sexual relationships
-sex should be treated with respect and consideration
-intercourse should only take place within marriage
sex before marriage: christian beliefs
-the gift of virginity offered in marriage makes both husband and wife feel special, privileged and loved
-sex before marriage devalues it
-as there has been no sex before marriage there, there is no danger of sexually transmitted diseases
quote about sex before marriage
‘wait until they are married’ (catechism)
contrasting beliefs to the church’s beliefs on sex before marriage
-other christian denominations think that sex should be saved for marriage
-many christians and non-christians in british society do have sex before marriage
-some have casual sex and many use contraceptives to prevent pregnancy
catholic & christian teachings about adultery
-breaks the promises made in marriage
-betrays trust in the marriage
-brings distress into the home and causes the whole family to be unhappy
-it can cause the break-up of the marriage
non religious views on adultery
-it may break a marriage promise but there may be a reason why, such as if one partner refuses to have sex
-personal happiness is important even if it may cause harm to someone else
-there may be other reasons why the marriage is falling apart e.g. a very unhappy marriage
-maybe the couple made a serious mistake in getting married and have found a more suitable partner
homosexuality: the teaching of the catholic church
-homosexual relations are not acceptable as there is no possibility of new life
-homosexuals should live celibate lives
-people are loved by God regardless of their sexual orientation, so should be treated with respect
contrasting views about homosexuality
-the church of england supports the idea of same-sex civil partnerships
-same-sex marriage was legalised in 2014 in england and wales
-some united reformed churches perform same-sex marriages
-many people in british society believe homosexuals should have the same rights as heterosexuals and so should be able to marry
-they do not see being able to have children as an essential part of marriage
conditions for a valid catholic marriage
-marriage is not valid until it is consummated
-the two people must declare that they are willing to accept God’s gift of children
-the promises must be made in the presence of a catholic priest
-both promise that they will remain together ‘for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part’
-the couple must not be closely related
-both people must be getting married of their own free
-the couple must be free to marry
-the actual moment of marriage is the consent
pope francis on homosexuality
-while homosexual acts are sinful, homosexuality in itself is not
-homosexuals should be integrated into society, not marginalised
the nature of marriage
-providing the loving relationship and atmosphere through which children can grow and flourish
-an exclusive union of a man and woman
-a sacrament through which God’s love and blessing is given to a couple
the marriage promises
-the public declaration assures each other that their love is genuine and asks for the church community’s support
-the full names are used to ensure everyone knows the identity of those making the promises
-by making the same promises the husband and wife show that there is equal commitment in marriage
-the commitment only ends when one partner dies (till death do us part’)
-the promises recognise that there may be difficulties as well as good times (for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health’)
-they promise to fulfil a loving relationship (‘to love and to cherish’)
what is cohabitation?
a couple living together and having a sexual relationship without being married to one another