The Let Them Theory Flashcards

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Three pillars that are the invisible foundation every friendship is built on

A

proximity, timing, and energy

“There are three factors that I believe, make great friendships as possible: proximity, timing, and energy. These pillars are the invisible foundation. Every friendship is built on.” The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, p 161

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“According to a University of Kansas study, to become a “casual” friend, you have to spend _____ hours with someone. And to become a “close” friend, you have to spend over _____ hours with someone.” The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, p 162

A

74 hrs to be casual friends
200 hrs to be close friends

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When a friendship fades, or someone reveals who they are, one or maybe more of the three ________ of friendship is off.

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pillars

The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, p 171

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Researchers say the kinds of people you sit next to at the coffee shop, or stand next to in the elevator in your building, are not strangers – they are “____ _____.“

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weak ties

The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, p 182

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