The Let Them Theory Flashcards
Three pillars that are the invisible foundation every friendship is built on
proximity, timing, and energy
“There are three factors that I believe, make great friendships as possible: proximity, timing, and energy. These pillars are the invisible foundation. Every friendship is built on.” The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, p 161
“According to a University of Kansas study, to become a “casual” friend, you have to spend _____ hours with someone. And to become a “close” friend, you have to spend over _____ hours with someone.” The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, p 162
74 hrs to be casual friends
200 hrs to be close friends
When a friendship fades, or someone reveals who they are, one or maybe more of the three ________ of friendship is off.
pillars
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, p 171
Researchers say the kinds of people you sit next to at the coffee shop, or stand next to in the elevator in your building, are not strangers – they are “____ _____.“
weak ties
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, p 182