The Game

Question 1

M3 Model

Answer 1

A-Attract C-Comfort S-Seduce
A1-Open
A2-Female-to-Male Interest
A3-Male-toFemale Interest
C1-Conversation
C2-Connection
C3-Intimacy
S1-Foreplay
S2-LMR
S3-Sex

Question 2

A1

Answer 2

The Man approaches a set, runs an opener, and immediately earns the set’s acceptance and reaches the social hook.
-Direct/Single
-Group openers
-Indirect Openers
-Secondary Openers
-Non-sexual patterns
-Opinion Openers

Question 3

Single Openers - Direct Openers/Pick up lines

Answer 3

Hide and seek, angels, mean Tennessee, organ donor, tying shoes, country road, left eye, campfire, dead, workout, casserole, dollar, religious, magnets, parking, chemistry, library

End statement: I’m glad you laughed because I wanted to see if you had a personality before I introduced myself.”

I’m never playing hide and seek with you. Because a girl like you is so hard to find.

I’m not an organ donor but you can have my heart any day.

Can I take your picture? I want to prove to my friends that angels do exist.

Are you from Tennessee? “Why because you’re the only ten you see? No, because you’re a 6 ½, i’m just making small talk.

Can I tie your shoes? Because I don’t want you falling for anyone else.

Sing country roads-she says take me home- then say ok

What’s wrong with your left eye because you’ve been looking right all night long.

Are you a campfire because you’re hot and I want s’more.

Am I dead? Because I’m looking at heaven

Kissing burns 7 calories a minute. Want to workout?

You put the ass in casserole.

If I had a dollar for every time I thought of you tonight how much would I have? Just one because I never stop thinking of you.

Are you religious? Because you’re the answer to all my prayers.

Did you swallow magnets? Because you’re so attractive.

Are you a parking ticket? Because you have fine written all over.

Did we go to school together? Because I’m sure we had chemistry.

I don’t have a library card but can I check you out?

Question 4

Group Openers

Answer 4

–More fun group, leader, clown, drug dogs, unlucky number,

“You see that group over there? They said they are more fun than your group. Please prove to me they are mistaken.”

“Who is the leader here?” (They all point) Say playfully to leader, “What qualifies you to be in charge?” “Do you know what alpha means?”

They’re shaking people down as you walk out for drugs. I just wanted to warn you. (Pause, smile) Just kidding….Who’s nervous?!

Count the number of people and say “Don’t you all know that 3 is an unlucky number? That’s why I came over, I’m here to help you all out!”

Question 5

Indirect Openers-List

Answer 5

Girl Fight
Avoiding Someone
Picture Opener
Shoe Opener
Bank Robery
Mischievous Girl
Bubbles6969
I almost wore that
Never Couple

Question 6

Secondary Openers-List

Answer 6

Bar Bet
Palm Reading
Opinion
Dinosaurs
Energy Openers
C-Shaped and U Shaped Smiles
ESP

Question 7

Bar Bet Opener

Answer 7

5 questions that they have to get all wrong. 4th question is how many was that. If they answer correctly they lose. If they lie again then you say have you played this game before and the will answer correctly thus they lose on the 5th.

Question 8

Palm Reading

Answer 8

Lifeline, career, money, kids, personality,

Question 9

False Disqualifiers-A2

Answer 9

Definition: disqualifying yourself in a joking manner to make a girl try harder to get you.

“It would never work out between us.”

“I can already tell, you and I are not going to get along.”

“You’re Fired.”

“You’re too much of a nice girl for me.”

“You’re a nurse (lobbyist, democrat, environmentalist, lawyer, PR etc.)? Oh my God, I can’t even talk to you.”

“I’m totally not boyfriend material Hey, that guy over there looks perfect for you.”

“We are so broken up. I want my CDs/sweatshirt(clothes, toothbrush etc.) back.”

Question 10

Negs-A2

Answer 10

blowing your nose: showing that you’re not interested and after all, how can she feel negativity about something natural. It is also something you do in front of someone you feel comfortable and she will feel comfortable with you.

“Too bad I’m gay.” This is confusing to her but meant as a joke. This also creates a challenge even if she doesn’t believe you.

“Where’s your off button.” casual joking but it lowers her social value.

“you’re touchy”

“I’ve eaten girls like you for breakfast.” This can be used when a challenge is made.

“I don’t think we should get to know each other.” Why not. “Because you’re just too much of a nice girl for me.”

If your target says something rude say, “You don’t get out much do you?”

Isolation of the target. When in a group or a set of 2, the target may answer a question and your response is “i wasn’t asking you. Does she always do that?”

If she says she’s a model say “A hand model?” or ask her if people ask her that a lot. Then say they were being polite.

Are those hair extensions…oh well it looks nice anyway

I think your hair would look better (up/down)

what do you call that hairstyle, the waffle? Smile

you have eye crusties. No, don’t rub them. I like eye crusties :)

You have beautiful eyes. Can I touch them?

You kinda have man hands

Those shoes look really comfortable

How Cute…your nose wiggles when you talk. Say something again. Smile

Eww…you spit on me.

You blink a lot.

Nice nails…are they real? Oh…well they look nice anyway

I like that skirt. Those are really popular these days.

I like that skirt. I just saw a girl wearing it a few minutes ago.

Question 11

BHRR - Bait Hook Reel Release

Answer 11

Me: “Hey… tell me.. are you Swedish?” (Bait)

Her: “Yes… why?” (Hook)

Me: “Oh my god… I’m a SUCKER for Swedish girls…” (Reel)

Me: “I can’t even talk to you anymore…” (Release)

Question 12

Neg Statements - A3

Answer 12

“Hey, at first you seemed kinda dull… but now that I’ve talked to you a bit more, you’re pretty fun.”

“So… what do you have going for you besides your looks?” “Blahblahblah” “Cool, I like that.” “I like your energy.”

“I like the way you carry yourself.”

Question 13

Patterns C-1 - List

Answer 13

The Cube
Photo Routine
BJ Pattern
Discovery Channel
Piano Performance
Twin Brother
Animal Pattern

Question 14

Wiesel Phrases-C1

Answer 14

Super Weasel Phrases: Have you ever, what’s it like when?

“If I (you) were to…” This is a type of softener. ‘If I were to take you out on a date…what would we do?”

“Remember what the feeling was like when you…

Were first in love

Found your passion in life

Had the best kiss of your life.

When you suddenly or instantaneously become of aware of a growing sense of fascination, you no longer feel a sense of control.”

Question 15

State Process Experience SPE

Answer 15

Put the girl into a state of mind you want her to be in. Create an experience in her mind from recalling past experiences she has had, or implanting a future experience in her.

Ex. Patterns: Twin Brothers, Traveling Woman Dream,

Question 16

She gives you LMR:

Answer 16

NEGATION “you’re right… I shouldn’t be touching your… You shouldn’t be feeling even more turned on… I can’t be pulling off your panties and going down on you… We absolutely must not”
You: “You’re right, we should stop, I’m gonna stop taking off your pants”

Question 17

Girl Fight Opener - Indirect Opener

Answer 17

“Oh my. Did you see that girl fight outside? They were fighting over this guy. I talked to him afterward. His name was Glen. That’s a deal-breaker name. Glen. So they were pulling each other’s hair and one of the girl’s boobs pops out. Normally I’m all for seeing a ripe on, but this was a saggy-baggy booby…you know, from national Geographic.”

Question 18

Chick Flick opinion Opener

Answer 18

You: Can I ask your opinion?

Her: Yes, sure.

You: I’ve been thinking about seeing movie (insert popular movie title) but my friends said I would be gay if I went to see the movie. What do you think… is it ok for a guy to watch romantic movies?

Question 19

Does Size Matter? - Opinion

Answer 19

Hey girls, lets me ask you something.. does size really matters?

Girls: yes/no

You: Interesting, because friend of mine has this huge, huge (pause) car, and he gets none, while my other friend has this tiny, tiniest ( pause) Vespa and he gets all of the girls… what’s up with that?

This opener will always get them think about.. hmmm… but that’s why you move tosomething else. I found it very effective after 3 minutes, to transition to direct.

You: Actually, I didn’t come here to talk about my stupid friend, I came because you are so damn sexy, and I am going to get to know you… so tell me something about yourself. When you open with something like this, and conversation either stays too long in that topic, OR each time you try to change topic, they go back on opener, use this above transition. Its very Powerful frame destroyer. Wide & deep Rapport from here (so what kind of music you listen)?

Question 20

Avoiding Someone - IO

Answer 20

So you know when you’re at a party and someone you’re avoiding shows up…and you have to look completely enthralled in conversation to keep them from talking to you? Her: “Oh totally…” (No one has said no yet.) Yeah, so thanks for helping me out.

Question 21

Picture Opener-IO

Answer 21

Walk up to this 10 and say, “Hi. Could you do me a favor?” Wait for her to respond. They will usually think you are hitting on them at which point you say, “could you take a picture of my friend and I?” Good subtle neg. Give her a playful additional neg by saying, “you of course DO know how to use a camera … yes?” MUST transition to a good story right away like this, “Thanks. Have you noticed … that pictures with people looking at the camera are not nearly as interesting as action shots? Well, what sort of action shot should we take?”

Question 22

Shoe Opener-IO

Answer 22

Hey, they say you can tell the exact mood a girl is in by the length of the heel on her shoe. If it’s really tall, even if she doesn’t realize it, she wants hot sex, and if it’s really low she’s not feeling very sexual. Hmmmm….Analyze her shoes and discuss about it, after that you can look on other Girls “Hey look her shoes!!”

Question 23

Bank Robbery

Answer 23

“Hey girls, are you good drivers? Me and Friend, are robbing bank across the street, and guess what (pause). Driver screwed us. All you need to do is picks us up at XX.00am, and drive to airport. You get 3%. This always leads into good conversation, with good energy. They always want to negotiate their %. And they will ask for 5%

If you want to create more drama here, start opener with this:

You: Hey girls, let me ask you something, can you keep a secret?

Girls: Yes

You: OK… (Opener) Delivery must be Playful. Be prepared to get lots of IOIs.

Question 24

Mischievous Girl - IO

Answer 24

Walk by a hot girl who’s standing/sitting by herself or slightly away from her group of friends, and deliver this over the shoulder:

You: “So why are you standing/sitting there trying to look mysterious?”

Her: (smiling) blah blah

You: “Yeah, see… you got that mischievous look on your face like you just did something bad and got away with it”

She should be smiling and laughing by then if delivered right.

Question 25

Bubbles6969

Answer 25

Go up to your target…

You: “hey I’m finally here! Traffic was horrendous! And I admit, it took me some time to decide on what shoes to wear.”

Her: Puzzled look on her face

You: “wait…you’re not BUBBLES6969? The pic she sent me looks EXACTLY like you!”

Her: “blah blah” (hopefully a laughter and smile if delivered right)

You: “wow… talk about embarrassing moments, huh?”

Of course you aren’t embarrassed and you can just stack forward from there appearing unphased by the “embarrassing moment”

Question 26

I almost wore that - IO

Answer 26

The principle is very simple: Girls HATE showing up to a party wearing the same thing as other girls. So, as she walks by, point on something on her, then make eye contact and say:

“You know, I almost wore that EXACT SAME THING tonight. That would have been SO embarrassing.”

If she looks stunned and doesn’t laugh right away, ask her what color it is (Particularly in a dark club or if you have shades on). I always lean in and say “Is that blue, or is it green??” Kino escalation by touching whatever it is she’s wearing.

“Oh, it’s green? My dress/teddy/negligee/coonskin cap is blue, so it’s not that bad.”

Which naturally leads into… “Have you ever been at the same club/party/restaurant/coonskin cap with another girl in the same dress but different color? Is that less embarrassing?”

She should be amused and intrigued by this point.

Question 27

Dinosaurs - Secondary Opener

Answer 27

Hey, what’s your favorite dinosaur? (High energy, playful attitude, smile.) Her: “T-Rex” C’mon, that’s lame. You only said that because you remember that name. that’s what everyone says when they can’t think of a good dinosaur name. It’s so common, and to think, I thought you were unique and different from the other girls. I want a good one, and a reason why it’s your favorite dinosaur.

Back Story: My favorite dinosaur would have to be the triceratops (pick one). When I was little I used to get gummy snacks packed in my lunch box and the triceratops were the oranges ones. And well, orange is my favorite color. Eventually though, I graduated 2to Ninja Turtle gummy snacks with Michelangelo being the new favorite. But yeah, don’t worry about me being some immature guy obsessed with dinosaurs. Because I mean,come on, Ninja Turtles are way sweeter. (You can change the color to purple and say Donatello. Hell, You don’t even have to use Ninja Turtles, use Scooby Doo, or PowerRangers, have fun with it.)

Question 28

Never a Couple

Answer 28

“Aww – you are soo cute.. but you make me SO SAD!

Girl: WHY?

Cos we could NEVER EVER be a couple!

Girl: WHY ??

Because we are too similar.. Imagine, we would be SO IN LOVE.. and the next moment, we would be fighting and screaming and throwing things.. and then we would have HOT MAKE UP SEX all over theplace.. and then fight, makeup sex, fight, make up sex.. after a week we would both be in psychiatric care due to emotional drainage!”

Question 29

Eighties Music

Answer 29

Hey guys, help me out, I have this song stuck in my head ALL day and I can’t remember who sings it. it goes “you spin me right round baby right round like a record player rightround, round round, etc….” who sings that???(blah, blah, blah)

I was talking to my mom earlier today and she said its Lionel Richie… but I KNOW thatisn’t right! Then later in the night you can like re open with “Dead or Alive…” This works with anyone hit wonder 80s music.

Question 30

Motorcycle

Answer 30

I need a female opinion. My buddy (put hand on wingman’s shoulder) wants go get a bike (motorcycle). Could he get more chicks with a crotch rocket or Harley?

BANG! Each girl has her opinion and at least one will answer directly to the wingman, while the others start asking what you ride. They all want rides and you can always get a number close.

I know what you’re thinking. “But I don’t have a bike!” It’s not a problem. When she asks, “what do you ride?” (And she will) just pull back with a humble, “Oh I’m just learning. I can’t take you out yet.” Then switch to, “So girls jump on the back of strangers’ bikes all the time, but getting in a less lethal CAR with a stranger is’dangerous’. What’s up with that?”

Question 31

New Pet - Opinion

Answer 31

Hey you guys, I need a female opinion… I want to get a pet, but I’ve got a bunch of criteria, so listen up. It needs to be clean, I don’t want to have to clean up after it everyday, it needs to have a lot of personality so we can become good friends, but here’s the thing… it needs to die within a year, because I don’t want to commit to something for 15years Or: But it has die within a year, because that’s when I’m moving to Italy!

Question 32

No Job, 3 Girlfriends

Answer 32

You: Hey guys I’m trying to figure out something here and maybe you can help. See, I have this friend and he has no job and no apartment. However, he has three girlfriends and he takes turn staying at each of their houses, and they cook for him and look after him and they don’t ask anything from him. What do you think about that?

Them: “Blah, that’s terrible blah.” So would you date someone like that?

Them: “Blah, what a jerk blah, no way.”

You: So what I can’t figure out is this… if it’s so terrible, how is he able to do this? Maybe you ladies know because I’m stumped!

Them: “Blah.” (This part gets interesting because they may actually start to ask you stuff about the three women and the guy, and play little miss detective. Now, you can describe any of the women and the guy any way you want. Say one of them is a 40 year old lonely woman, and another is an 23 year old party chick alcoholic. It doesn’t matter. You can neg the women for being Nancy Drew if you like.) Well I think you might be right, but you know, now that you mention it, I think it’s because he isn’t really able to look after himself well, so women feel sorry for him and look after him.

Question 33

Gay - Opinion

Answer 33

Do I look gay? This guy was totally hitting on me at the bar.

Question 34

“I have a boyfriend”

Answer 34

-So are you saying “game over” or just bringing up a logistical problem?
-Boyfriends are like colds. You can catch one at anytime but it doesn’t mean you can’t shake it off
-Well, that’s good news. You’ll have something to do when I’m out of town.
So are you saying the bridge is out…or there’s just a bump in the road?

Question 35

What is negation and what step is it most powerful in?

Answer 35

This helps especially with last-minute resistance but it can be used along the way in various scenarios to encourage behavior. Ex. “You’re right…I shouldn’t be touching your…you shouldn’t feel even more turned on…I really can’t be pulling off your panties and going down on you…we absolutely must not….now”

Question 36

A2 Female to Male Interest Tactics

Answer 36

Patterns
False Disqualifiers
Negs

Question 37

A3 Male to Femal Interest

Answer 37

Patterns (You’re Pretty, Realizing Attraction)
Neg Statements
BHRR

Question 38

Personal Stories

Answer 38

HIking in the Mountains-Came across a bear
Senior Prank
Party stories
ESP Stories-Mom’s ring, Lakshmy
High Value information-friends, weekend activities, etc.
Wedding Planning Pattern-High value of number of groomsman
Family patterns-advice

Question 39

C2 Connection Patterns

Answer 39

New Direction
Qualifying

Question 40

Unattractive opener

Answer 40

Excuse me I need your opinion. I keep getting rejected by ugly and unattractive girls. Do you know why that is?. Anyways what’s your number cause I wanna take you out?