The Family And Parental Responsibilities Flashcards
Definition of Role
A role is defined as the ‘proper or customary function’
eg mum, dad, aunt, sister
Definition of responsibility
A responsibility is defined as a duty which is carried out as a part of a role
What is one of the most important responsibilities of a family and why ?
One of the most important responsibilities is to provide for a child’s needs as they are unable to care for themselves
Needs of a child/baby (12)
- Food and drink
- Warmth and clothing
- Shelter
- love and companionship
- A secure environment
- Sleep
- Routine
- Attention
- Protection and support
- Clothes, toys, entertainment
- Boundaries
- Education
Responsibilities of the mother
- Feeding
- looking after the house and children
- Support and discipline
- cooking
Fathers responsibilities
- Provide for the family
- Help mum with the baby
- Work
- Set example
Grandparents responsibilities
- babysitting
- supporting the parents
- protection
- love/care
- storytelling
Siblings responsibilities
- play
- company
- advice
- Sharing
What does it mean by shared roles
In some families, mum and dad don’t have distinct roles. Both parents may have a job and both parents contribute to the family finances and they share the household jobs and child care.
Advantages of shared roles
- fathers may have a closer relationship with their children
- mothers may have more time to enjoy their children and to follow other interests
- children benefit from greater variety
- the quality of the marriage improves
What is meant by role reversal
Role reversal is when the father cares for the home and children while the mother earns the money
How do parents influence the development of a child
Physical- feeding the baby a balanced diet, bathe the baby
Intellectual - play with the child , read to them to develop vocabulary
Emotional - cuddling, showing affection
Social - take them to the park/soft play, sign them up for clubs
How do siblings influence the development of a child
Physical - take them for walks/exercise, play sports like football
Intellectual - teaching them new games + skills, help with homework
Emotional - being a good role model, give hugs
Social - chatting, gossiping, discussing problems, sharing toys
How do grandparents influence the development of a child
Physical - can play outside with them, can ensure child gets a healthy balanced diet
Intellectual - can share stories with the child about family history, traditions and life, teach them skills like baking, sewing ect
Emotional - provide extra support and guidance when parents are busy, mentoring the child
Social - children learn to talk to adults, grandparents set good examples and teach manners
Why do people have children
- Share with partner
- they love babies
- they want company as they grow older
- to give/receive unconditional love
- to give meaning to their life
- accident
- to continue family name
Factors that affect the decision to have a baby
- is there space for a baby
- do they have enough support to raise a child
- finicial stability
- strong relationship
- giving up social life
- house/stable/safe place to stay
- maturity levels
Features of a stable relationship
- Respect and love for each other
- compromising
- total commitment to each other
- honesty
- trusting each other
- accept each other for who they are
- communications