Test #3 Flashcards
Do emotions control behavior?
emotions influence behavior
Emotion
a complex series of changes throughout the body, brain, nervous system, blood flow, organs, lungs, hormones, etc. (these physical changes helps prepare us for action)
The 3 purposes of emotion
- communication to others
- motivation
- illumination
- Communication to others
-See you feel guilty, more likely to forgive
-See you feel sad, more likely to support
- Motivation
Helps prepare to move your body in particular ways and act in ways that are helpful and life enhancing
- Fear = protect from danger
- Anxiety = protect ourselves
- Guilt = reflect on our behavior and repair relationships
- Illumination
Tell us what is important to us
- fear = importance of safety
Struggle switch- on
When on- we are going to struggle against internal experience
Struggle switch- off
When off- no matter the emotion, we don’t struggle with it. Our emotions are free to come and go
TAME
Tame your emotions
T - TAME
Take note (notice and anime what is showing up in your body)
A- TAME
allow your feelings to be there
M- TAME
make room- open up to this feeling and let it freely move through you
E- TAME
expand awareness- broaden your focus to the world around you
Dirty pain
makes the pain greater even though we are trying to help ourselves
Clean Pain
the event that happens that causes us pain
Goal of acceptance
make peace with the sensation, not to get rid of it
Acceptance
make room for our feelings
What is your motivation?
-What towards moves would you do?
-How would you treat yourself differently?