Social psych test 2 Flashcards
Why do humans form relationships?
Humans are described “social animals”… we have a need to belong, which means there is a drive to form and maintain stable, positive interpersonal relationships.
Relationships tend to meet several important psychological needs, what are they?
Intimacy (connection/close contact), being nurturant (looking after someone or being looked after), reassurance of self worth (we want others to look at us and see our worth), assistance (direct tangible assistance, through social support) and social integration (being open, freely sharing concerns/connections.
In the Holt-Lund, smith and Layton study on affect on mortality and relationships, what did they find?
They found having a positive supportive interrelationship that provide support and assistance has an affect on reduced rates of morality which are normally associated with better physical health. People who have good interpersonal relationships liver longer, and have more meaningful lives.
What is proximity?
Proximity or geographical awareness is a powerful determinant of attraction… involves mere exposure effect which is being repeatedly exposed to someone or something, we then come to like it. (Interaction/ familiarity) or not depending on inital interaction lmao
What did the study by Festinger and colleg. Demonstrate? (MIT students)
the study demonstrated that attraction and proximity rely not only on actual physical distance, but also on psychological functional distance.
What is functional proximity(distance)?
Refers to the architectural design that determines which people you cross paths with most often.
In the Byrne and Nelson study on similarity , what did they find?
It was a study utilizing participant questionnaire, they answered it and then they got other participants to read questionnaire to either a similar different person than them. The greater the proportion that the questionnaire was similar to them, the more they liked the other person.
Why is similarity important?
It can be validating (helps us feel that what we think and feel is valuable and correct-validation can lead to attraction), ideals (our ideals for a potential partner come from the self. We want someone with similar ideals) and rewarding (interacting with and connecting with someone similar to us is rewarding)
What are three factors that affect reciprocity?
Perceived motives(if we see someone liking us, we may then reciprocate those behaviours), self-esteem (receiving an unfavorable review and then influencing our reciprocity) and whether we are gaining liking/esteem (we tend to like indiviudals where we are gaining esteem..)
We associate physical attractiveness with various positive characteristics, which is referred to as?
“What is beautiful is good” stereotype. There is little support for this stereotype though. More so people just get more attention and are able to develop more skills.
What is matching phenomenon ?
is the tendency for men and women to choose as partners those who are a “good match” to themselves in attractiveness (and other traits).
In the study by White (1980) on matching or mismatching longevity, what did they find?
The study examined whether similarity in physical attractiveness predicts relationship longevity.. they found that partner attractiveness was higher in married couples and lower in casual dating. The more serious the relationship, the more attractiveness needed.the further the feelings of attractiveness, the further the decline in feelings of love.
If you are dissimilar to someone , what can it impact? (3)
It can impact things like equity concerns, marketplace, or belief in marketplace…..
Equity concerns= there is often a big focus in relationships on maintaining equity. Having a mismatch in attractiveness can create imbalance in partners and as a result, the less attractive partner might feel compelled to contribute more to relationship. Uneven balance.
Marketplace= this suggests that because physical attractiveness is seen as desirable, the good looking partner will have more options to form more relationships. Larger marketplace.
Belief in marketplace= the unattractive partner is aware or will believe that the sexy one is flirting and the unattractive one may become anxious.
Recent research distinguishes two main categories of affection/love, what are they?
Passionate love, and companionate love.
What is companionate love?
Companionate love is the feeling of intimacy and affection we feel toward someone with whom our lives are deeply intertwined . Ex/ family and friends.
What is passionate love?
Is feelings of intense belonging, accompanied by physiological arousal, obsessive thoughts lol.. when our love is reciprocated we are happy, but when things arent going well we are sad and in despair.
Hatfield and Walster contended that passionate love requires 3 conditions?
1) appropriate target/potential lover— has to be similar to you, interact with you frequently and that is available.
2) physiological arousal that you believe is a reaction to your potential lover—- you need to experience physiological aerousal and need to attribute it to the indiviudal.
3) an understanding and acceptance of the concept of passionate love— you need to understand and be socialized that the idea of passionate love is accepted and present in that culture.