Sexual Ethics Flashcards
Pythagoreans, Stoics and Cyreniacs on sex
Pythagoreans: abstain from sex- unholy- stops soul’s progress
• Dualism: body + soul, physical + spiritual
• we should abstain from physical pleasure
Stoics: same as pythagoreans
• control over one’s own emotions, should not lessen oneself to animalistic instinct
Cyreniacs: celebrated physical pleasure, sensual enjoyment- these were supremely good
Ancient Hebrews on Sex
positive attitude to sex, sensual erotic beauty ‘Song of songs’
• “How fair is your love, my sister, my bride! How much better is your love than wine, and the smell of your ointment than all spices!”
Sexual morality in the 21st Century
• sex pursued for its immediate physical satisfaction
• if there is mutual consent then any form of sex is morally right
• monogamy and commitment are not important
• marriage is not a prerequisite
• the freedom of the individual is paramount
• legal and moral attitudes meet in a distinctive way
• e.g. adultery is considered by many to be immoral and it provides legal ground for divorce yet it is not a crime
• some believe sex with many partners is promiscuous and immoral while others argue that when there is consent it is not a matter of morality
• H.L.A. Hart in ‘Law, Liberty and Morality’: “Sexual intercourse between husband and wife is not immoral, but if it takes place in public it is an affront to human decency”. a private sexual act could not harm anyone except “a few neurotic..persons who are literally “made ill” by the thought of it”
Problems with Sex in the modern day
• although freedom is the most important thing to many…
• rising concern over sexual crimes
• rising teenage pregnancy rates
• proliferation of STIs
• more abortions than ever
• more children living in poverty as a result of marital breakdown
• However, some argue restriction would prevent them from realising their true sexual identity
Sex in the Old Testament
• in ancient cultures, fertility was a big concern in agriculture and continuation of the species
• a man’s status measured in terms of his property and offspring
• men would often have several wives and concubines, Jacob had two of each who produced 12 male heirs
• prior to the fall, Adam and Eve had sex because it was good in itself, not only because of lust but because God made it to be enjoyed
• the Genesis story is supposed to provide basis for good sexual relationships , in Christian marriage ceremonies God is invited to be part of the marriage
• Genesis 3 fall: relationship between God and humanity changes: “I will greatly multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children, yet your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you” (pain in childbirth, lust/obsession, sexual dominance)
• sex can no longer be intrinsically good after the fall and consequences must be suffered
• seems acceptable for a man to control or dominate his wife and to insist she is a virgin, yet it doesn’t seem that the same always applies to men
• Lot’s incestuous relationship with his daughters would not be acceptable by today’s standards
(NT&Sex) Jesus
• Jesus said little about sex, focused on followers living as part of the Kingdom of God
• “love God with all your heart and your neighbour as you love yourself”
• Ephesians 1:35: “
• Mark 10:11: “whoever divorces his wife and (kai) marries another commits adultery (porneia) against her”
—kai could mean in order to, porneia could refer to a woman who was not a virgin, an adulterous women or a non believer
(NT&Sex) St Paul
• Paul wrote expecting Christ to return imminently, so no detailed sexual ethics
• Galatians 3:28: “there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus” (all are equal)
• Ephesians 5:22-24: “wives, be subject to your husbands as you are to the Lord…Just as the Church is subject to Christ, so also wives ought to be, in everything, to their husbands”
• Ephesians 5:31-32: “a man will leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ This is a great mystery, and I am applying it to Christ and the Church”
• Paul is more rigid than Jesus, a product of his times, valuing celibacy and the inferior role of women as a result of his religion
• he was also influenced by platonic dualism and the views of the Greek philosophers that spiritual pleasure is greater than physical pleasure
Traditional Christian approach to sex
• Augustine considered non-reproductive sex to be a sin whilst Aquinas suggested it can be for enjoyment while needing to be connected to reproduction
• In some fundamental Christian communities the role of women is mostly the raising of children
• in early Christianity, celibacy was regarded as holy because Jesus never marrie Martin Luther left the monastery and married, Eramus praised marriage as the natural state and thought of celibacy as the unnatural state and that sex between a married couple is for pleasure and not just reproduction
• Churches hold that extramarital sex, adultery, masturbation and homosexual sex are sinful because of scripture or a natural law standpoint (Aquinas and our purpose)
• Christianity saw purpose of marriage as fidelity (fides), procreation (proles) and union (sacramentum), sex outside of marriage undermines the family and risks birthing children into insecure environments
Link between Sex and Love in Christian Theology
Until the twentieth century there was no link between sex and love in Christian theology:
• ‘Marriage and the Church’s Task’ (1978) CofE: “It is a profound sharing of present experience…a relational bond of personal love, a compound of commitment, experience and response, in which the commitment clothes itself in the flesh and blood of a living union”
• ‘Pastoral Constitution’ RCC: “The actions within marriage by which the couple are united ultimately and chastely are noble and worthy ones…spouses enrich each other with a joyful and thankful will”
Jack Dominion
Catholic psychologist, believes in need for new view of sex
• ‘Passionate and Compassionate Love’ (1991): sex is a personal expression, a profound way of thanking each other for the loving partnership that they have, the sexual act is a model of total unity between the couple, reflecting the idea of sex in Genesis restated by Jesus and Paul. This personal expression is present with or without the life-giving dimension
• Dominion believes Christianity has erred in stressing biological importance of sex, and has trivialised the act
• mainstream Churches still reject this and argue sex is for procreation and sex before marriage (increasingly common among teenagers) is ‘living in sin’
• Dominion argues that commitment, love and permanence are the only criteria for acceptable sex
Liberal Protestantism and Sex
• much more relaxed because of allegorical interpretation of the Bible, non-literal moral guidance
• attitudes towards sexuality have changed since Bible’s conception so Christian teaching should reflect change
• for some denominations, homosexuality is not a problem
• rather than requiring marriage for sex, commitment and desire to be together justify cohabitation
• sex can be for enjoyment and not just reproduction
• would generally accept divorce
• religion should be a force for social change
Evangelical Protestantism and Sex
• accepts sanctity of marriage and permanence of the marriage, would appreciate that sometimes divorce is a necessary evil due to irreconcilable differences
• intercourse should be reserved for marriage because: the Bible teaches that sex should take place within marriage; sex is mainly for reproduction; partners become one flesh through sex and marriage
• would be opposed to homosexual sex as they cannot take place within Christian marriage and cannot end in conception of children
Augustine on Sex
• context: gnosticism was a mixture of Greek traditions, Judaism and Zoroastrianism. Zoroastrianism: extreme dualism and pessimistic fatalism, dislike of body and needs and pessimism about sexuality
• Augustine: sex is a necessary evil reserved for marriage which, even in marriage can be dangerous because the devil uses women to lead men away from reason
• Adam and Eve were made for procreation though didn’t need to until the Fall/didn’t feel the desire or pleasure
• sexual desire is a reminder of our rebellion against God, our original sin
• Pelagius believed that we could control sexual desire by the will, but Augustine disagreed
Aquinas on Sex
• Natural Law: all things have a purpose, good acts developed our nature and bad acts went against it
• the purpose of sexual organs and intercourse was procreation and other uses of sex are intrinsically wrong
• Summa Theologiae: sex can be wrong in two ways: when “the act of its nature is incompatible with the purpose of thesex act” (this prohibits masturbation, bestiality, homosexuality and anything which doesn’t lead to procreation); when “conflict with right reason may arise from the nature of the act with respect to the other party” (incest, rape, adultery)
Marriage
• ‘New Dictionary of Christian Ethics and Pastoral Theology’ (1995) Atkinson and Field: marriage is a total troth communion which can be broken by any kind of prolonged infidelity”
• marriage in Christianity is ordained by God, an exclusive and binding relationship (Genesis 2:24) “one flesh”
• hierarchy in marriage has been controversial: “Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husband…Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect” (1 Peter 3:1, 7)
• Christians respond that this is about love and sacrifice (like Jesus) not domination. this dynamic is out of love
Divorce (general)
• “therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate” (Matthew 19:6)
• Jesus seems to forbid divorce altogether in Mark 10:11-12 (“anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery”) but allows it when there is adultery in Matthew 19:9 (“except for marital unfaithfulness”)
• Selwyn Hughs in ‘Marriage as God Intended’ (1983) argues divorce doesn’t need to be the end of the marriage after adultery but that forgiveness and reconciliation should take place
• RCC forbids divorce whilst other churches are more lenient
• Secular Ethicists argue marriages can go wrong so divorce should be an option