Self, Family, Peers (4&5) Flashcards
The Self: 3-4yrs
understand themselves in terms of concrete, observable characteristics related to physical attributes, activities, abilities and psychological traits.
- describe preferences and possessions
- unrealistically positive
The Self: early elementary school
Refined concepts of self, based on social comparisons, performance discrepancies on tasks
The Self: mid-late elementary school
Integrated and more broadly encompassing conceptions of self. Increasingly based on relationships with others, their evaluations and objective performance.
Ability to evaluate themselves as a person
The Self: Adolescence
Multiple selves, may lack ability to integrate these selves
The Self: Early Adolescence
Personal Fable & Imaginary Audience
Preoccupied with what other think of them
Personal Fable
adolescent egocentrism believing in uniqueness of one’s own feelings and thoughts.
Imaginary Audience
adolescent egocentrism that everyone else is focused on their appearance or behaviour
The Self: Middle Adolescence
lack cognitive skills to integrate multiple selves into a coherent sense of self
agonize over contradictions in their behaviour and characteristics
The Self: Late Adolescence
more integrated and less determined by what others think
reflect internalizes personal values, beliefs and standards
Identity vs. Role Confusion
Erik Eriksons pyschosocial stage of development
time of identity crisis resulting in identity achievement or incomplete/incoherent sense of self
Identity Confusion
incomplete, sometimes incoherent sense of self results in feelings of isolation and depression
Negative Identity
identity that represents the opposite of what is valued by people around the adolescent
Identity Foreclosrue
Prematurely committing to an identity, has not considered or experimented with other choices,
Establishes identity based on values or choices of others
Identity Diffusion
Not making progress toward identities, not developing identities
Moratorium
exploring various occupational and ideological options
Erikson “time out period” to pursue activities that lead to self-discovery
Family Dynamics
members all influence one another, directly and indirectly.
dynamics change as children age - adolescents feelings of closeness declines, conflict or arguments
Parents influence socialization (3)
Direct Instructors
Indirect Socializers
Social Managers
Two dimensions of parenting styles
- Warmth, support & responsiveness
2. Control & demandingness
Authoritative Parenting
high support
high demanding
parents set clear standards, limits and are firm with enforcement, attentive and responsive to child’s needs,
-bidirectional communication, reciprocal relationship
Authoritarian Parenting
low support
high demanding
parents are nonresponsive to childs needs, expect obedience
- unidirectional communication, controlling relationship
Permissive Parenting
high support
low demanding
parents are responsive to childs needs and do not regulate childrens behavior, low control attempts
-indulgent relationship
Uninvolved/Neglecting Parenting
low support
low demanding
parents are not involved or disengaged with child
-rejecting, neglecting relationship
Authoritative outcomes
child is competent, self-assured, problem solving and coping skills, low antisocial behaviour
adolescent is highly competent socially & academically, positive behaviour, low problem behaviour
Authoritarian outcomes
child tends to be unhappy, unfriendly, low self confidence
adolescent low social and academic competence continues from childhoom