Self and Identity (VL 3) Flashcards
Different forms of self and identity
- Collective self: self defined in terms of attributes shared with ingroup members and distinct from outgroup members
- Individual self: self defined in terms of attributes that make one unique relative to other people
- Relational self: self defined in terms of relationships with specific other people
–> People experience different selves in different contexts, but feel they have a coherent (einheitlich) self-concept that integrates or interrelates all these selves
William James: Basic duality of the self
Both Me/Self-concept (our knowledge of who we are) and I/Self-awareness (the act of thinking about ourselves)
Self-awareness - Definition
people are not always aware of themselves, self-awareness can be uncomfortable and uplifting – depending on the situation
Self-Concept - Definition
set of beliefs we hold about who we are (can contribute to a good self-esteem but doesn´t have to)
Self-esteem - Definition
the evaluation we make of ourselves; exists of implicit/less conscious and explicit self-esteem
Sources of self-knowledge
- Socialization: How a person acquires the rules, standards and values of his/her family, group or culture
- Reflected appraisal: Self-evaluation based on the perceptions and evaluations of others
- Self-Perception: The theory assumes people sometimes infer their attitudes from their overt (offenkundig) behavior, rather than from their internal state
- Social comparison
- Social identity: Part from the individual´s self-concept that derives from his/her membership in a social group –> also ethnic identity: membership in an ethnic group and participation in the group´s valued activities
Self-schemas
- Describe how people think about their personal qualities in a particular domain
- Guide behavior in relevant situations
- Aid memory for relevant information
- Influence inferences, decisions and judgements
Possible selves
- Schemas people hold concerning that they may/could become in the future
- Represent hopes and fears for the future
- Help people focus and organize plans for pursuing goals
Ideal and Ought Self
Ideal self: The personal attributes one would like to have
Ought self: The personal attributes one believes one should possess (one believes others think one should possess)
Self-discrepancies
Differences in how we see ourselves and how we would like to be/believe others think we could be
Characteristics of People with a high self-esteem
- Persistent and resilient in the face of failure
- Emotionally and affectively stable
- Less flexible and malleable (formbar)
- Less easily persuaded and influenced
- No conflict between wanting and obtaining success and approval
- React positively to a happy and successful life
- Thorough (gründlich), consistent and stable self-concept
- Self-enhancement motivational orientation
- -> Clear and stable sense of self, a self-enhancement orientation
Characteristics of People with a low self-esteem
- Vulnerable to the impact of everyday events
- Wide swings in mood and affect
- Flexible and malleable (formbar)
- Easily persuaded and influenced
- Want success and approval but are skeptical of it
- React negatively to a happy and successful life
- Sketchy, inconsistent and unstable self-concept
- Self-protective motivational orientation
- -> less clear self-concept, a self-protective orientation
Self-motives
- People generally seek an accurate, stable, and positive self-concept; have a need for a consistent self-concept; are motivated towards self-improvement
- Self-verification: Seeking out and interpreting situations that confirm one´s self-concept
- Self-enhancement: Need to hold a positive view of oneself
- Positive illusions: Mild, falsely positive self-enhancing perceptions of one´s personal qualities
People are more realistic than self-enhancing when…
- They are about to receive feedback from others
- Making decisions about goals
- They are depressed or have a low self-esteem
Self-Affirmation theory
- Predicts people will cope with threats to self-worth by affirming unrelated aspects of themselves
- People with high self-esteem may be more likely to use self-affirmation
- Self-affirming people may help people be less defensive and more accepting of criticism