relationships and attachment Flashcards
I only have eyes for you study
eyes moved away more quickly from attractive, opposite- sex people in romantic love condition
love-based
levels of romantic love decrease drastically after five years
arranged marriages
levels of romantic love increased until 10 years than levels out
tracked marriage couples for 14 years study
- negative affect reciprocity
- wife demand husband withdraw
- both behaviors significant predictors of divorce
- less WDHW when talking abut event of the day
negative affect reciprocity
back-and-forth retaliatory negativity during conflict
Wife-demand-husband-withdraw (WDHW)
wife criticizes husband, husband “stonewalls” (i.e., withdraws from the interaction)
emotional reappraisal
evaluating previous conflicts from the other persons perspective, or as an outside observer
emotional reappraisal study
increased marital quality for couples after reappraisal intervention began
4 category attachment model
secure, anxious/ambivalent, dismissing-avoidant and fearful-avoidant
secure attachment
confident and emotional attachment
-positive view of self and others
anxious/ambivalent attachment
associated with neediness, clinging, ambivalent feelings
- negative view of self, positive view of others
dismissing-avoidant attachment
associated with self-reliance, fear of intimacy, rejection sensitivity, and emotional distance
- positive view of self, negative view of other
fearful-avoidant attachment
combo of insecure attachment styles, with alternating strategies, associated with trauma/abandonment
- negative view of self and others
two dimension attachment models
- abandonment anxiety
- discomfort with closeness
- dimensions used to predict level of attachment security
attachment style in relationship: secure
health/stability