Relationships Flashcards
What is meant by the evolutionary explanation?
Focuses on the adaptive nature of behaviour. Modern behaviours are believed to have evolved because they were passed on by ancestors and became more widespread in the gene pool
What is meant by sexual selection?
(Darwin) evolution is driven by competition for mates, and the development of characteristics ensure reproductive success
What is meant by reproductive success?
Contingent on attracting a mate, overcoming competitors and survival of offspring
What is meant by anisogamy?
The differences between male and female gametes
Outline intersexual selection
Members of one sex evolve preferences for desirable qualities in potential mates. Members of the opposite sex who possess these characteristics gain a mating advantage
What is the driver behind intersexual selection?
Low quality/less desirable mates who are unhealthy and unattractive are more likely to produce offspring that also possess these attributes
Which sex prefers intersexual selection?
Females
Outline intrasexual selection?
Individuals of one sex (males usually) must outcompete other members of their sex in order to gain access to the opposite sex.
What does anisogamy suggest about males?
Male’s optimum strategy is to mate with as many females as possible
What characteristics do females prefer in males?
- Able to invest resources
- Physically fit, for protection purposes
- Show promise as a good parent
What characteristics do males prefer in females?
Display good reproductive value
What is meant by the matching hypothesis?
Claims that when people look for a partner, they tend to look for someone whose social desirability approximately equals their own
How does the matching hypothesis work?
- Asses their own ‘value’
- By opting for partners of similar social desirability to themselves, they can maximise their chance of a successful outcome
- In modern society, matching has become more based on physical attractiveness alone rather than demographic qualities
Outline the procedure for Walster et al (1966) computer dance study
- University students randomly selected
- Completed a questionnaire
- Told the data would be used to match them with their ideal partner, it was done randomly
- After the dance they completed a follow up questionnaire about how it went with their set partner
Outline the findings for Walster et al (1966) computer dance study
- Did not support the matching hypothesis because results showed participants actually preferred people who were more attractive than them
- Other factors such as personality did not affect subsequent attempts to date them
What are weaknesses of the evolutionary explanation?
- Reductionist: ignoring social and cultural influences (women’s independence - less reliant on man)
- Weaknesses in research: use of undergraduate students who look for resourceful men out of similarity
- Largely based on speculations - no reliable way to check these suggestions are valid
What was the aim of Buss (1989) study of evolutionary explanations?
Buss explored anisogamy for partner preference
What was the procedure for Buss (1989) evolutionary explanation research study?
- 10,000 people from 37 different cultures
- Asked to rate 18 characteristics (physical attractiveness, financial resources) on how important they would be in choosing a mate
- A 4 point scale was used, ranging from ‘3’ (indispensable) to ‘0’ (irrelevant)
What was the findings for Buss (1989) evolutionary explanation research study?
Resources: Women desired mates who had financial resources
Physical Attractiveness: Men placed importance on physical attractiveness. Indicates fertility/reproductive value
Youth: Men universally wanted mate who were younger (also indicates fertility)
Other Important Characteristics: both sexes wanted mates who were intelligent (linked to parenting skill) and kind (interest in commitment)
What can be said about gender differences and the matching hypothesis?
Buss (1989) demonstrated that men place great importance on physical attractiveness when choosing a mate. This is because it is a cute to a woman’s health and fertility. More recent research (Eastwick, 2011), suggests that it may also be just as important to women as it is to men
How does the matching hypothesis work?
- Assess their own value
- Select candidates of their value
- By opting for partners of similar social desirability to themselves, they can maximise their chances of a successful outcome in reproduction
What features are considered attractive?
Baby face in females, heavy brown and strong jawline in males
What are some general weaknesses of the physical attractiveness/matching hypothesis?
- Individual differences; some people don’t place much importance on physical attractiveness
- Taylor et al; found that online daters met with potential partners who were actually more attractive - supporting computer dance study
What are some general strengths of the physical attractiveness/matching hypothesis?
- High population validity; Wheeler and Kim (1997) found that regard for physical attractiveness was just as high in collectivist cultures as individualist
- Feingold (1998) meta analysis found significant correlation in ratings of attractiveness between romantic partners
- Other research support (mind map)
What is meant by self disclosure?
When a person reveals intimate personal information about themselves to another person. It involves confiding in someone about your thoughts, feelings and experiences.
What is the main research study for self disclosure?
Sprecher et al, (2013)
What was the procedure of Sprecher (2013) self disclosure study?
- 156 undergraduate students
- Each dyad of unacquainted individuals engaged in a self disclosure task over Skype
- In the reciprocal condition, dyad members immediately took turns asking questions and disclosing
- In the extended reciprocal condition, one person asked questions while the other disclosed, they then swapped roles
- After each interaction, they assessed liking, closeness, perceived similarity and enjoyment of interaction
What were the findings of Sprecher (2013) self disclosure study?
More positive assessments for each interaction given by participants in the reciprocal condition
What were the conclusions of Sprecher (2013) self disclosure study?
Turn taking reciprocity more likely than extended reciprocity to lead to more positive interpersonal outcomes
What are the 2 main types of self disclosure?
- Neutral = disclosing things such as personal preferences (music, film, etc.)
- Intense = disclosing a deeper level of information such as disappointments and fears
What did Berg and Archer suggest about the norms of self disclosure?
People possess a norm of reciprocity with self disclosure; the more a person discloses, the more is expected in return
How does the Collins and Millar (1994) meta analysis support the self disclosure theory?
- Found people who disclose at an intimate level were more liked than those who disclosed at a lower level
- Liking was stronger if the person perceived the disclosure to be selective
- This gives research support for the importance of self disclosure in the maintenance and formation of a relationship
Why could self disclosure be argued to be detrimental to the maintenance of a relationship?
Cooper and Sportolan (1997) had a theory called ‘Boom and Bust’. This suggested the online relationships had very high levels of self disclosure due to the anonymity and comfort that the online presence provides. As a result, relationships become very intense very quickly and become difficult to sustain
Why did Knop (2016) favour face-to-face self disclosure?
A person who is disclosing appreciates non-verbal cues such as eye contact and attentive silence, both of which is absent in the online environment
What research can support self disclosure?
Has and Hartford (1998) found that 57% of gay men and women considered open self-disclosure as a main way to maintain close relationships. This demonstrates the importance of self-disclosure in romantic relationships, just as the theory has predicted.