Relationships Flashcards
Cohabitation
A couple living together who aren’t married
Why may couples choose cohabitation over marriage?
MARRIAGE ISN’T AN OPTION - same sex marriage only became legal in NI recently, so before this cohabitation was their only option
TRIAL MARRIAGE - to see if they are right for marriage the couples might test how they get on living together
EXPENSES - weddings can be seen by some as a waste of money, money of which could be put towards a house together
UNNECESSARY - some couples are opposed to marriage/ don’t think they’re relationship needs to be validated by law/marriage
Alternatives to marriage
CIVIL PARTNERSHIPS - two people signing a document to have the same rights/responsibilities as if they were married
COHABITATION - living together without being married
Do Christians support divorce?
UNDESIRABLE - it can be a last resort when all other attempts to save the marriage have failed. Presbyterian, Methodist and Church of Ireland all accept divorce.
Benefits of marriage
IMPROVES HEALTH - phycological, mental well being, stress levels
STABILITY - a stable environment to raise children
SHOW LOVE - want to show their commitment to each other and publicly prove their love for each other
HIGHER INCOME - live more comfortably
Challenges of marriage
Financial disagreements, infertility problems, disagreements over the upbringing of children, fall out of love, adultery, domestic violence
How do Christians get support from their marriage?
Counselling and advise from their minister, encouragement from other married couples at church m preparation for marriage by ministers , strengthening their relationship by worship, prayer and Bible study
Challenges of divorce
Children may blame themselves for their parents divorce, causing stress, low self esteem, change. Divorce can affect other relatives. May find it difficult to adjust to loneliness. Money problems - one income to provide for the household
Benefits of divorce
Could lead to a happier home situation. Protecting themselves and children from abuse. Relationship improved if they admit marriage is not working
Roman Catholic church’s view on divorce
Catholics believe a couple can never get divorced and that they are married until death - they took vows to promise that they would stay married for life. A bond made before God in church can never be broken by divorce.
What is an annulment and when is it valid?
Declaration by the Roman Catholic Church that a marriage is invalid and can therefore end - not the same as a divorce. It is valid if they aren’t consummated or they were forced to get married against their will
