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what is attractive

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  • symmetrical face
  • unblemished skin
  • unblemished teeth
  • full hair
  • mathematically average features
  • men, prominent cheekbone, low deep voice
  • women, youth, waist him ratio hourglass
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buss

aim

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  • investigate the role of evolution in attraction and mate selection
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buss

procedure

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  • 29 countries rated how important “good looks” are in choosing a partner
  • ratings compared with degree of pathogen stress (number of parasites) to see if any correlation
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buss

results

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  • countries more pathogen stress, more emphasis on good looks
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buss

conclusion

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  • high pathogen stress, healthy partner with strong immune system is more important for successful reproduction
  • physical attractiveness is a sign of good health
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buss

evaluation

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  • supports evolutionary theory of attraction, attraction driven by desire to reproduce successfully
  • correlational so not proven casual relationship between pathogen stress and importance of good looks
  • other differences could explain the correlation
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wedekind

aim

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  • investigate the role of MHC genes in attraction
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wedekind

procedure

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  • men wore shirt 2 nights, no cologne, natural body odour
  • female participants rated attractiveness of the smell of the shirts without seeing the men
  • of the seven shirts 3 were MHC similar, 3 MHC dissimilar, 1 not worn
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wedekind

results

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  • women who were fertile preferred MHC dissimilar scent shirt
  • women birth control prefered the scent MHC similar men
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wedekind

conclusion

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  • fertile women attracted to MHC dissimilar, ensures their children strongest possible immune system
  • birth control prefer MHC dissimilar, beneficial to stay close to biological family members
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wedekind

evaluation

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  • supports evolutionary theory of attraction, fertile women attracted to men provide the best chance for children
  • existence of pheromones , unsure
  • low ecological validity, nobody chooses a mate by tshirt
  • unclear how much of a role MHC genes play in attraction in real life, other factors
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evolutionary theory of attraction evaluation

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  • can explain why certain physical features are attractive in every culture and time period
  • evidence physical features are associated with good health and reproductive fitness
  • buss and wedekind studies support
  • considerable cultural variation on what is attractive, other factors influence attraction
  • implies attraction is purely biological
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why similarity leads to attraction

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  • consensual validation
    share the same values so you feel validated
  • cognitive evaluation
    proud of our beliefs and will evaluate others higher if they have the same ones
  • opportunity for self expansion
    gaining new knowledge and experiences whilst sharing the same interests and goals allows self expansion
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why similarity leads to attraction

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  • consensual validation
    share the same values so you feel validated
  • cognitive evaluation
    proud of our beliefs and will evaluate others higher if they have the same ones
  • opportunity for self expansion
    gaining new knowledge and experiences whilst sharing the same interests and goals allows self expansion,change together
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markey

aim

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  • investigate how similarity affects attraction
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markey

procedure

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  • 169 single american university students
  • survey on characteristics , values and attitudes of ideal partner
  • survey on their own personality and values
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markey

results

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  • high correlation between description of ideal partner and self description
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markey

conclusion

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  • perceived similarity important factor influencing mate selection and attractive
  • not much evidence “opposites attract”
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markey

evaluation

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  • large sample size
  • all american university students, not generalizable to age/cultural groups
  • based on self report instead of actual dating behaviour
  • correlational study, casual relationship can’t be formed
  • attraction to someone may perceive them as more similar
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culture and mate selection

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  • arranged marriages
  • meeting people online
  • delaying marriage until later in western countries
  • importance given to romantic love, marriage for union or love
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buss 1989

aim

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  • investigate sex and cultural differences in what people look for in a mate
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buss 1989

procedure

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  • 10,000 participant survey 37 countries

- rate importance of different qualities in a mate

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buss 1989

results

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  • women ranked good financial prospects higher than men
  • men ranked good looks higher than women
  • women prefer slightly older men, men prefer younger
  • love ranked most important in the USA less important in traditional cultures
  • some cultures value chastity in women, others unimportant
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buss 1989

conclusion

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  • universal sex and cultural differences
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buss 1989

evaluation

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  • supports evolutionary theory of mate selection
  • indicates culture plays a role in mate selection
  • large sample and variety of cultures, reliable and able to cross cultural compare
  • self report results, say what they want instead of what they do
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social penetration theory

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  • close relationships are formed over time, process of self disclosure
  • as relationships develop, shallow communication to deeper communication
  • one person discloses deep information so will the other causing closer relationship (disclosure reciprocity)
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collins and miller

aim

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  • investigate the relationship between self disclosure, liking and intimacy
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collins and miller

procedure

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  • meta analysis of 94 studies on the topic of self disclosure, variety of research designs
  • meta analysis = combination of different studies to reach an overall conclusion
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collins and miller

results

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  • people who shared more intimate facts, generally more liked by others
  • greater self disclosure leads to being liked
  • people disclose to people they like already, more likely to be accepted and supported
  • like others more after because they feel acknowledged and listened to
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collins and miller

conclusion

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  • self disclosure can lead to a positive feedback loop increasing intimacy of a relationship
  • self disclosure decreases a relationship, leads to a negative feedback loop
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collins and miller

evaluation

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  • supports self disclosure theory, important factor in increasing liking and closeness in a relationship
  • 94 studies, reliable
  • limitation, doesn’t explain why some relationships decrease disclosure and liking and others opposite
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four horsemen of the apocalypse

gottman

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  • criticism
    verballing attacking personality or characteristics
  • defensiveness
    reversing blame criticising back
  • stonewalling
    withdrawing from the relationship to convey disapproval and distance
  • contempt
    attacking partners sense of self to psychologically abuse them
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gottman

aim

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  • determine how communication affects marital satisfaction and likelihood of divorce
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gottman

procedure

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  • couples in lab, recall a recent disagreement while being filmed
  • video analyzed by coding verbal statements and facial emotion
  • followed up to see who stayed together and who divorced
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gottman

findings

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  • couples with high criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling significantly more likely to divorce
  • predict 91% accuracy which couples would stay together and divorce after viewing one argument
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gottman

conclusion

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  • healthy communication patterns are essential to make relationships last
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gottman

evaluation

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  • high applicability as couples can improve their relationship and apply results
  • researcher bias, code consistent with hypothesis as verbal statements and facial affect is not fully objective
  • self selected sample of mainly educated middle class americans , limited generalizability
  • correlational study, communication may not cause relationship dissatisfaction
  • possible couples already dissatisfied argue with more hostility
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social exchange theory

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  • relationship will only last if both people “get something” out of it
  • weighing up rewards and costs
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3 components of social exchange theory

outcome

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  • rewards of relationship minus the cost
  • rewards, intimacy, emotional, financial support, social standing, fun
  • costs, arguments, jealousy, manipulation, annoying
  • aim most rewards, least costs
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3 components of social exchange theory

comparison level

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  • rewards and costs measured against a comparison level

- comparison level is what person expects from a relationship based on past experiences or social expectations

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3 components of social exchange theory

comparison level for alternatives

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  • other options in the dating pool
  • surrounded by potential matches, comparison level for alternatives will be high
  • few options may stay because alternatives are worse
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3 components of social exchange theory

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  • determine whether a relationship will be happy, stable or opposite
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prediction of social exchange theory

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  • very attractive people. less stable and shorter relationships due to many alternatives
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ma-kellams and wang

aim

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  • investigate how attractiveness can impact relationship longevity
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ma-kellams and wang

procedure

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  • 130 participants, half in relationship
  • shown a picture an attractive person of the opposite sex, ranked 1-7 how attracted to them
  • researchers secretly rated attractiveness of participants
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ma-kellams and wang

results

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  • participants below average looks, low attractiveness ratings to the person in the photo, not interested in relationship alternatives
  • above average looks, significantly higher attractiveness ratings, more open to pursuing relationships
47
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ma-kellams and wang

conclusion

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  • very good looking, more interested in pursuing attractive members of the opposite sex, even if already in a relationship
48
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ma-kellams and wang

evaluation

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  • supports the predictions of social exchange theory
  • limitation, only attractiveness ratings were measured, not if participant would actually flirt or be unfaithful
  • all american, may not apply to other cultures
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evaluating social exchanhge theory

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  • strength, explain why people stay in bad relationships
  • limitation, assuming complete motivation in self interest, implies true commitment doesn’t exist, always looking for alternatives
  • impossible to quantify relationship rewards, costs and quality of alternatives, hard to use theory to predict couples staying together and breaking up
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prosocial behaviour

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  • action that benefits other people or society as a whole
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prosocial behaviour???

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  • evolutionary perspective perplexing
  • risking your life to save a stranger doesn’t help you in any way
  • maladaptive
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2 theories to explain prosocial behaviour

biological

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  • kin selection theory

- reciprocal alturism

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kin selection theory

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  • closer family more prosocial
  • evolutionary biology selfish genes
  • genes copied from successful reproduction or prosocial behavior towards family members
  • increases chance close relatives, may same genes as you will procreate
  • help people in whom we share genes
  • siblings, parents > cousins, more genes shared
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madsen

aim

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  • investigare how family relationships influence prosocial behaviour
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madsen

procedure

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  • painful squating backs against a wall for as long as they were willing
  • longer able to hold, more money
  • one condition, told keep the money
  • next condition, told brother, uncle, cousin, charity keep money
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madsen

results

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  • participants held the position for the longest when they keep the money
  • family member, longest going to a brother (50% genes) least cousin (12.5%) genes
  • shortest, going to charity
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madsen

conclusion

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  • likely to endure hardships to help close family members than for strangers
58
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madsen

evaluation

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  • supports kin selection theory, greater genetics= more prosocial behaviour
  • lab experiment, casual relationship between degree of genetic similarity and prosocial behaviour
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theory of reciprocal altruism

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  • prosocial behaviour is a social exchange
  • help our friends expect to be helped in return
  • increases our chances of survival and reproducing
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axelrod and hamilton

aim

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  • test the theory of reciprocal altruism
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axelrod and hamilton

procedure

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  • two participants play the prisoner’s dilemma several times in a row
  • two options “confess” or “stay silent”
  • the best outcome for both is to stay
  • don’t think partner stayed silent better to confess
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axelrod and hamilton

results

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  • players adjust to the other players last decision
  • tend to stay silent first round to see if other player will do the same
  • if other player also stays silent they will repeat
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axelrod and hamilton

conclusion

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  • when two players expect to play several rounds of the prisoner’s dilemma, it is possible to cooperate by staying silence
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axelrod and hamilton

evaluation

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  • supports the theory of reciprocal altruism

- lab and artificial game, unsure if can be applied to real life behaviour

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evaluating evolutionary theories of prosocial behaviour

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  • kin selection theory and reciprocal altruism explain high degree of prosocial behaviour between family and friends
  • don’t explain why people help strangers
  • assume biology is the ultimate cause of prosocial behaviour
  • cultural expectations could play a role, expectations on how to behave
  • genes are the “cause” of altruism, relationship between genes and the environment is complex, no specific gene.
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empathy altruism model

batson

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  • importance of empathy in prosocial behaviour
  • respond to someone needing help dependent on our degree of empathy
  • help to relive our own distress, egoistic helping
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batson

aim

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  • investigate whether empathy influences altruism
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batson

procedure

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  • american university students, watched a video interview of another student
  • student describes struggles in uni after breaking both legs in a car accident
  • students asked to volunteer their time to meet with carol and help
  • two variables manipulated, level of empathy, told focus on how carol is feeling while watching video, other half don’t be concerned with her feelings
  • second variable, cost of not helping, half told in the same class see her everyday, feel guilty, other half told carol at home, never see her again
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batson

results

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  • most high empathy group offered to share notes regardless of seeing her in class
  • low empathy group tended to help only if in class to avoid guilt, egoistic helping
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batson

conclusion

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  • feel empathy, help even when there is no reward

- no empathy, consider rewards and costs

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batson

evaluation

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  • supports the empathy altruism model
  • empathy is the key difference between true altruism and egoistic helping
  • high ecological validity
  • only american university students, may not be generalizable to other cultures/age groups
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sympatico hypothesis

levine

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  • influenced by the environment
  • cities busy competitive, no time to help a stranger
  • small town, relaxed unhurried, emphasis on social obligations
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levine

aim

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  • compare prosocial behaviour towards strangers in cities around the world
74
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levine

procedure

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  • 36 U.S cities and 23 global cities

- measure how many strangers would be willing to perform altruistic tasks

75
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levine

results

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  • significant differences in helping behaviour between cities
  • cities with lower population density and economic productivity had more prosocial behaviour
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levine

conclusion

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  • supports the sympatico hypothesis, each city has a character that influences helping
  • some cultures favor social obligation over individual achievement
77
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levine

evaluation

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  • high ecological validity, real life examples
  • field experiment, extraneous variables, districts of cities
  • kindness = prosocial behaviour? may not stop and help someone cross the road but could donate lots of money to charity
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evaluating cognitive and sociocultural explanations for prosocial

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  • explains prosocial behaviour towards strangers, bio only family and friends
  • empathy altruism model, hard to predict if a person will feel empathy
  • sympatico hypothesis why prosocial behaviour more common in some cities or cultures than others
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bystanderism

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  • an individual less likely to help in an emergency situation because there are lots of other bystanders present
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theory of the bystander effect

latane and darley

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  • why more witnesses = less prosocial behaviour?
  • diffusion of responsibility, soley on your shoulders if it is only you but shared fault if lots of people, nobody feels personal duty
  • informational social influence, unclear whether a true emergency, looking at how others are responding, ignore assume fine
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latane and darley

aim

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  • investigate why people fail to intervene in an emergency situation with many bystanders
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latane and darley

procedure

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  • participants (university students) were told interviewed by intercom in separate rooms for anonymity
  • midway through, participants hear another “participant” cry for help making choking sounds, actually recording
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latane and darley

results

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  • participants told only one other student 85% rushed out to help
  • 65% with 2 other students
  • 31% with 4 others
84
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latane and darley

conclusion

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  • many bystanders create diffusion of responsibility

- someone else will probably help

85
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latane and darley

evaluation

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  • carefully controlled
  • casual relationship between IV number of bystanders and DV willingness to help
  • high ecological validity
  • ethical issues, stressful situation, deceived by recording
  • only american university students, may not be generalized to other age groups and cultures
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arousal cost reward model

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  • we see someone distress = arousal, uncomfortable emotions
  • then calculate the costs and rewards of helping
  • stronger arousal, increased chance of helping
87
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pillavin

aim

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  • determine if rewards and costs influence helping behaviour
88
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pillavin

procedure

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  • a “victim” collapses on the floor of a subway car
  • IV = appearance of victim
  • half the time, alcoholic, carrying bottle
  • other half disabled with a cane
  • frequency and speed at which the “victim” was helped recorded
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pillavin

results

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  • disabled helped 100% of the time, 5 seconds average

- alcoholic 80% of the time, 109 seconds averafe

90
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pillavin

conclusion

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  • support arousal cost reward model
  • costs of helping an alcoholic are higher, unstable, possibly violent
  • costs of not helping disabled are higher, feeling guilty
91
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pillavin

evaluation

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  • field experiment, high ecological validity
  • ethical issues, deception and no consent
  • alternative explanation, social norms explain why disabled person helped more, norm to help the disabled