Relationship Questions

Question 1

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What is something we have in common that you love?

Answer 1

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The purpose of these questions is to foster a meaningful dialogue between individuals. It’s a chance to grow via openness and to strengthen relationships.

Question 2

If I were fearless, what would happen next in my life?

Answer 2

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Question 3

When was the last time I made you feel most secure in our relationship?

Answer 3

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Question 4

What’s your favorite imperfection about me?

Answer 4

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Question 5

What’s the wisest thing I taught you?

Answer 5

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Question 6

If there was one thing I still don’t understand about you, what is it?

Answer 6

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Question 7

What are the things that make you come back for more of me?

Answer 7

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Question 8

If for some reason I lost my memory, what’s the first thing you’d tell me about us?

Answer 8

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Question 9

What do you think is my greatest accomplishment that I fail to recognize?

Answer 9

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Question 10

Describe one experience you wish we’d have in the future.

Answer 10

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Question 11

What’s your ideal retirement lifestyle?

Answer 11

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Question 12

What do you think is the next step in our relationship?

Answer 12

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Question 13

What’s your love language?

According to relationship guru Gary Chapman, your love language is how you prefer to show love vs. how you prefer to receive love. [LIST]: (a) Words of affirmation; (b) Quality time; (c) Physical touch; (d) Acts of service; (e) Receiving gifts.

Answer 13

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Question 14

How would you title this chapter of our lives?

Answer 14

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Question 15

When do you feel closest to me?

Answer 15

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Question 16

What do you love about our relationship?

Answer 16

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Question 17

What do you think is the hardest thing for me right now?

Answer 17

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Question 18

What do you think would help improve our relationship?

Answer 18

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Question 19

What should we do more of and why?

Answer 19

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Question 20

What is the one thing you never want me to forget?

Answer 20

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Question 21

How would you define our relationship?

Answer 21

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Question 22

If you had/have a child, what advice would you give them regarding relationships?

Answer 22

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Question 23

How can I be a better friend to others?

Answer 23

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Question 24

What do you think I want from life?

Answer 24

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Question 25

If you had to call me by another name, what would it be and why?

Answer 25

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Question 26

Name the top five things you love about me.

Answer 26

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Question 27

What in our relationship are you most grateful for?

Answer 27

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Question 28

Tell me about the first time we met.

Answer 28

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Question 29

What are you hesitant to tell me?

Answer 29

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Question 30

If you could have something of mine, what would it be and why?

Answer 30

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Question 31

When was the last time I misunderstood you and how do you feel about it now?

Answer 31

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Question 32

What was the last trip that connected us best and why?

Answer 32

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Question 33

What is a value we do not share in common?

Answer 33

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Question 34

What do you want out of this relationship?

Answer 34

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Question 35

Am I different than you imagined I would be when we first met?

Answer 35

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Question 36

How would you describe my relationship with technology and how does that affect us?

Answer 36

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Question 37

Where do you see us in 10 years?

Answer 37

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Question 38

How do you describe me to others?

Answer 38

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Question 39

Do you think we’ll still be this close in 15 years? Why or why not?

Answer 39

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Question 40

In what ways do my friends reflect who I am?

Answer 40

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Question 41

What have we yet to try together?

Answer 41

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Question 42

How would you describe my relationship with money?

Answer 42

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Question 43

What do you think could come between us and what can we do about it?

Answer 43

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Question 44

If I decided to be a stay-at-home-parent, how would that change me?

Answer 44

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Question 45

When did you last feel jealous and how do you really feel about it now?

Answer 45

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Question 46

What’s the one thing I could do that would dramatically improve my life?

Answer 46

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Question 47

When do you feel we aren’t equal?

Answer 47

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Question 48

If I had the opportunity to work in another country, would you come with me?

Answer 48

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Question 49

What do you think I am learning from you?

Answer 49

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Question 50

What do we have in common that both of us need to change?

Answer 50

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