Relationship Questions Flashcards
Thoughtful questions to deepen connections between individuals in various stages of relationships.
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What is something we have in common that you love?
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The purpose of these questions is to foster a meaningful dialogue between individuals. It’s a chance to grow via openness and to strengthen relationships.
If I were fearless, what would happen next in my life?
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When was the last time I made you feel most secure in our relationship?
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What’s your favorite imperfection about me?
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What’s the wisest thing I taught you?
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If there was one thing I still don’t understand about you, what is it?
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What are the things that make you come back for more of me?
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If for some reason I lost my memory, what’s the first thing you’d tell me about us?
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What do you think is my greatest accomplishment that I fail to recognize?
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Describe one experience you wish we’d have in the future.
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What’s your ideal retirement lifestyle?
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What do you think is the next step in our relationship?
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What’s your love language?
According to relationship guru Gary Chapman, your love language is how you prefer to show love vs. how you prefer to receive love. [LIST]: (a) Words of affirmation; (b) Quality time; (c) Physical touch; (d) Acts of service; (e) Receiving gifts.
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How would you title this chapter of our lives?
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When do you feel closest to me?
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What do you love about our relationship?
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What do you think is the hardest thing for me right now?
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What do you think would help improve our relationship?
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What should we do more of and why?
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What is the one thing you never want me to forget?
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How would you define our relationship?
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If you had/have a child, what advice would you give them regarding relationships?
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How can I be a better friend to others?
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What do you think I want from life?
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If you had to call me by another name, what would it be and why?
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Name the top five things you love about me.
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What in our relationship are you most grateful for?
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Tell me about the first time we met.
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What are you hesitant to tell me?
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If you could have something of mine, what would it be and why?
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When was the last time I misunderstood you and how do you feel about it now?
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What was the last trip that connected us best and why?
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What is a value we do not share in common?
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What do you want out of this relationship?
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Am I different than you imagined I would be when we first met?
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How would you describe my relationship with technology and how does that affect us?
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Where do you see us in 10 years?
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How do you describe me to others?
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Do you think we’ll still be this close in 15 years? Why or why not?
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In what ways do my friends reflect who I am?
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What have we yet to try together?
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How would you describe my relationship with money?
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What do you think could come between us and what can we do about it?
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If I decided to be a stay-at-home-parent, how would that change me?
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When did you last feel jealous and how do you really feel about it now?
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What’s the one thing I could do that would dramatically improve my life?
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When do you feel we aren’t equal?
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If I had the opportunity to work in another country, would you come with me?
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What do you think I am learning from you?
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What do we have in common that both of us need to change?
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