Relational Maintenance and Persuasion Flashcards
Proponent of the Dialogics (the deep structure of all human experience)
Mikhail Bakhtin
Dialectic tensions experienced by relational partners (3)
- Integration vs Separateness
- Stability vs Change
- Expression vs Non-expression
Internal and external dialectics of integration vs separateness
Internal: connection-separateness
External: inclusion-seclusion
Internal and external dialectics of stability vs change
Internal: certainty-uncertainty
External: conventionality-uniqueness
Internal and external dialectics of expression vs non-expression
Internal: openness-closedness
External: revelation-concealment
Mikhail Bakhtin’s Dialogics illustrate (2)
Centripetal force (order, continuity) Centrifugal force (change)
- A constitutive process-communication creates and sustains a relationship
- Happens amidst a relationship that keeps changing.
- Allows temporary unity that can sustain couples through the existing tensions.
- Works as links-in-a-chain, influenced by what was said before. There is the presence of two voices in conversation.
- Allows for critique and correction of conversation styles.
Dialogue
Proponent of the Interactional View
Paul Watzlawick
Family relationships are impacted by several interrelated factors, that themselves influence each other
T or F
True
- Family interactions are governed by rules.
- The set of rules operational in each family is unique to them.
- The rules perform a function. They have established for a purpose at some point in time and have remained over the years.
- These rules tend to maintain a status quo, which makes families resistant to change.
The Interactional View
Interactions don’t create structures or rules that will govern family relationships.
T or F
False
Communication =
Content + Relationship
Concepts on Metacommunication (3)
- Punctuation
- Symmetrical and Complementary Communication
- Reframing
- The non-verbals that accompany the verbals change the meaning of a statement
- Partners should realize that they are not merely reacting with each other.
Punctuation
Participants are of equal power with no one attempting to dominate the interaction
Symmetrical
Participants are not of equal power, with one dominating the interaction
Complementary
- Changing the rules of the game
- Stepping outside the system to see the rules that family has been playing with
- Determine whether the existing conditions are conducive to achieving family goals
- Looking at the situation from an alternative viewpoint to arrive at new meanings
Reframing
Proponent of the Social Judgment Theory
Muzafer Sherif
Two themes of influence and persuasion
- Compliance
2. Attitude change
- attempts to explain and predict the processing of persuasive information
- Offer recommendations about how to craft persuasive messages
Attitude change
A set of internal responses
A predisposition to respond in a certain way
Attitude
3 dimensions of the social judgement theory
- Cognitive
- Affective
- Behavioral
What we do think about a particular subject
Cognitive
What do we feel about a particular subject
Affective
What do we do about a particular subject
Behavioral
The assessment of information against a mental attitude scale, comparing it against our current point of view
Social Judgement Theory
Three latitudes of the social judgment theory
- Latitude of Acceptance
- Latitude of rejection
- Latitude of non-commitment