Relational Development Flashcards
All our relationships are a product of __
Communication
- Self-disclosure, nonverbal warmth, empathetic listening, development of trust
- Closeness is a product of congruence, acceptance and understanding
Phenomenological Approach
- AKA the Transactional Approach
- Emphasis of social exchange
- Assessing the rewards and costs of the relationship
- Prevalence of economic metaphors
Rewards vs Costs Approach
- Self-disclosure is reciprocal, especially towards the middle of the relationship when semi-private information is being shared.
- Penetration is rapid at the start but slows down once the inner layers are reached.
- De-penetration is likewise a gradual layer by layer withdrawal
Social Penetration Theory
Why self-disclose
Rewards vs Costs
Maximize the ___ while minimizing ___
Benefits
Costs
- It happens gradually, from superficial to intimate levels of exchange
- A function of immediate and forecasted outcomes
Closeness
Personality structure is like a
Multilayered onion
Closeness is a product of
Self-disclosure
Depth of penetration depends on (2)
- Degree of personal disclosure
2. Degree of intimacy in friendship and romance
Relational Outcome =
Relational Benefits-Costs
Determines if a relationship is meaningful
Minimax Principle
- How happy or sad an interpersonal outcome makes us feel
- Points of reference
- The threshold above which an outcome seems attractive
- Pegged on our relationship history: baseline of past experience
Comparison Level
- Would this relationship be more rewarding if it was with another person
- What is the worst outcome that I’m willing to tolerate of I’m to stay in the relationship
Comparison Level of Alternatives
Proponent of the Uncertainty Reduction theory
Charles Berger
- Used to gain knowledge and create understanding
2. Used to reduce uncertainty and increase predictability
Human communication
8 Axioms to address uncertainty
- Verbal Communication
- Nonverbal Warmth
- Information Seeking
- Self Disclosure
- Reciprocity
- Similarity
- Liking
- Shared Networks
High levels of uncertainty increase verbal communication. As uncertainty decreases, verbal output
Increases
Nonverbal warmth reduces initial uncertainty. As uncertainty decreases, nonverbal warmth
Increases