Power Skills and Emotional Intelligence Flashcards
Power skills
- are a set of non-technical abilities that are very valued in the workplace.
- are also known as transferable skills or soft skills.
- are not easily teachable and yet very transferable.
examples of power skills
o Teamwork
o Time management
o Communication
o Problem solving
o Decision making
Emotional Quotient (EQ) Vs Intelligence Quotient (IQ)
- IQ evaluates a persons cognitive abilities and logical reasoning skills
- EQ measures ones level of emotional awareness including their social emotional competencies
- Determined a very strong (if not the strongest) predictor of performance and success.
- Determined a very strong (if not the strongest) predictor of performance and success.
- Essential for interpersonal interactions, teamwork, leadership, and communication, making emotional intelligence a fundamental power skill that is highly valued in both personal and professional contexts.
- 90% of top performers are high EQ and just 20% of bottom performers are high EQ
- People with average IQ scores outperform those with higher IQs a majority of the time
four domains of Emotional intelligence
Self-awarness
Self-management
social awareness
relationship management
12 competencies in the of emotional intelligence
o Self-awareness
Emotional awareness
o Self-management
Emotional self-control
Adaptability
Achievement orientation
Positive outlook
o Social awareness
Empathy
Organizational awareness
o Relationship management
Influence
Coach and mentor
Conflict management
Teamwork
Inspirational leadership
examples of emotional intelligence in workplace
o Leadership and team management
o Self-awareness
o Communication
o Conflict resolution
Strategies for demonstrating self-awareness
- “Judging your emotions prevents you from understanding them”
- Reflect on activities and impact on others (stimulus – response)
- Proactively seek feedback without being defensive
- Being open to criticism and talking about shortcomings
- Admitting mistakes and gain insight from experiences
- Know your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and limits
Strategies for demonstrating self-management
- “You are what you believe in yourself”
- Use positive affirmations
- Make your goals public!
- Recognize that you have a choice in how you respond
- Use cognitive reframing to change thought patterns and emotional responses
- Look at challenges as opportunities
Strategies for demonstrating social awareness
- “Seek first to understand then to be understood”
- Identifying social cues and micro behaviours (verbal, physical)
- Demonstrating empathy and compassion
- Showing concern for the feelings of others
- Understanding and expressing gratitude
- Caring about and being motivated to contribute to the well-being of others
- Recognizing strengths in others
Strategies for demonstrating relationship awareness
- “technology does not run an enterprise relationships do”
- Initiating contact with others and cultivating friendship
- Communicating effectively
- Developing positive relationships
- Demonstrating cultural humility
- Practicing teamwork and collaborative problem-solving
- Seeking or offering support and help when needed
Emotional intelligence wheel
Modulate
o Resonance with the other while maintaining an non-anxious presence
o Lowers anxiety and distress
Create
o Open spaces that foster leaning
Mirror
o Mirror others emotional experiences
o Let others know you see and feel them
Acknowledge
o Acknowledgement of self and other
o Affirms other presence