Power Paradox Flashcards
Power is granted in exchange
for improving the lives of others in our social networks. It is granted to us by other people.
The reputation of an individual is used to
mark their capacity for power and check against abusers.
Your power is only as good
as your reputation
Gossip is a sophisticated means by which individuals
can spread information that feeds reputations.
By strategically giving esteem to individuals
groups encourage those in power to continue to act in ways that are good for the group
Having enduring power is a privilege that depends
on other people continuing to give it to us.
Power is gained and maintained
through focus on others.
Social practices for power
empathizing, giving, expressing gratitude, telling stories.
Life is made up of patterns: of eating, thirst, sleep, courtship, sex, creativity are crucial to our survival.
Wisdom is the ability to perceive these patterns and to shape them into coherent chapters within the longer narratives of our lives.
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Power is About Altering the States of Others
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Power is part of every relationship and interaction
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Power is found in every day actions
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Power comes from empowering others in social networks
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Groups give power to those that advance the greater good
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Groups construct reputations that determine the capacity to influence.
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Groups reward those who advance the greater good with status and esteem
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Groups punish those who undermine the greater good with gossip.
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Enduring Power comes from empathy, giving, expressing gratitude, and telling stories that unite.
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Power leads to empathy deficits and diminished moral sentiments
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Power leads to self serving impulsivity
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Power leads to incivility and disrespect
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Power leads to narratives of exceptionalism
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Powerlessness involves facing environments of continuous threat
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Stress defines the experience of powerlessness
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Powerlessness undermines the ability to contribute to society
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Powerlessness causes poor health
The difference we make in the world is quotidian:
raising the right question, offering encouragement, connecting people who don’t know each other, suggesting a new idea. Power hinges on simply doing things that are good for others.
Charles Darwin changed the world but much of his evidence came from the network he created.
He wrote fifteen hundred letters a year, four a day, to collaborators: missionaries, neurologists, mds, fur trappers, gardeners. His writings are an expression of many ideas from all walks of life.
Power is distributed across social networks
and is found in empowering others.