Popularity, Rejection and Bullying Flashcards
How many kinds of popularity are there?
There are 2
What are the two forms of popularity?
Sociometric popularity
Perceived popularity
What is sociometric popularity?
Sociometric Popularity refers to how well-liked someone is and is determined mainly by social skills, friendliness, sense of humor, and
so forth (qualities that are valued by people of all ages and backgrounds)
What is perceived popularity?
Perceived Popularity refers to how much status, or prestige, someone has. Determinants of perceived popularity are highly variable!
- For example, having a boyfriend or girlfriend may have little to do with perceived popularity in fifth grade but may be highly correlated with it in ninth grade
Why is being liked when a teenager important?
The reward centers in teenagers’ brains are activated whenever they see Instagram
photos that have been labeled as receiving many “likes”
- This occurs for their own photos, for neutral photos posted by others, and for photos of risky activity…
What is the relation between popularity and aggression?
- Although psychologists used to believe that aggressive and antisocial adolescents are likely to be rejected by their classmates, it turns out
that some teenagers are BOTH aggressive AND popular! - In fact, some adolescents engage in antisocial or aggressive behavior because they believe doing so will make them more popular
- However, the degree to which aggression impacts popularity, really depends on the type of aggression…
What is proactive aggression?
Proactive Aggression refers to aggression that is strategic and selective. It generally involves forethought and planning
What is an example of proactive aggression?
A child threatening to physically harm a peer in order to get to the front of the lunch line, answers to the homework, etc.
What is reactive aggression?
Reactive Aggression refers to aggression that is unplanned and typically a reaction to a context
What is an example of reactive aggression?
A teen punching a peer after the peer made fun of or teased them or posting something really mean online about a peer who embarrassed
them
What did Donna Eder’s ethnographic research involving her observing peer relations in a particular middle school reveal?
- In this school, being a cheerleader gave you “elite” status – you were instantly popular if you made the cheer team
- She found that girls who were successful in cultivating friendships with the cheerleaders became a part of this “elite” group and thus, more popular
- However, popular adolescents can only maintain a finite number of friendships so these “popular” girls would inevitably end up snubbing other classmates who wanted to be their friends (I.e., they also came to be seen as “stuck-up”)!
In short, she found that adolescents who hang out with “popular” kids become more popular over time, but they also tend to become less well-liked by their less popular peers and even victimized because they are seen as snobby status seekers
What did Merten’s work contribute to the dynamic of popularity?
Merten (1987) also found that to ensure that no one person within a clique becomes “too popular” with students in general, clique members will often turn on other members of their clique
- Specifically, they would undermine the “too” popular girls’ standing by gossiping, starting rumors and trying to undermine her friendships
What happens if you are very high or low in popularity?
Students who are very high or very low in popularity are less satisfied with their friendships and social life than their peers who fall somewhere in between these extremes
What is relational aggression?
Generally, refers to acts intended to harm another through the manipulation of relationships with others (malicious gossip)
What is reactive relational aggression?
This type of aggression is a response to a
provocation that causes distress and is typically associated with impulsivity, anger, and making assumptions
What is proactive relational aggression?
(Sometimes referred to as Instrumental or
Premeditated Aggression)
- This type of aggression is planned and occurs
without provocation and its goal is to obtain a specific outcome or to coerce
others
Why has most research on relational aggression focused more on boys?
Most researchers have focused more on boys because boys on average show more
overt aggression
What form can relational aggression take?
May take the form of excluding a peer from social activities, damaging their
reputations with others, or withdrawing attention and friendship