PERDEV Flashcards
LESSON #1 4TH QUARTER AT LANTING To figure out the different kinds of personal relationships
Your relationship during this stage is pretty much different from what you had when you
were still a child.
Teenage relationship
characterized by self-disclosure and your capacity to trust
others.
Intimate or close relationships
Is a state of connectedness between people (especially an emotional connection)
Relationship
Any form of relationship is said to be a?
Two-way traffic.
are two attributes describing
personal relationships and level of commitment to another
person/s
Privacy and Intimacy
commitment to an organization
like a business entity, a principle or purpose
Impersonal Relationship
it is a force that unites people and can grow into an attachment which eventually leads to commitment
Attraction
Kinds of Relationships
1.)Privacy and intimacy
2.)Impersonal relationships
3.)Attraction
refers to the close connection between people, formed by emotional bonds and interactions.
These bonds often grow from and are strengthened by mutual experiences.
Personal relationship
CONCEPT OF PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
1.)Attraction
2.)Love
3.)Commitment
The action or power of evoking interest, or liking someone or something: and a quality or feature that evokes desire
Attraction
Strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties
- attraction based on sexual desire:
- affection and tenderness felt by lovers
- affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interest
Love
it is a force that unites people and can grow into and the attachment which eventually leads to commitment
Attraction
It refers to the feelings and actions that keep partners
working together to maintain the relationship
Commitment
9 THINGS THAT ARE
UNACCEPTABLE IN NY
RELATIONSHIP
1.CHEATING
2.PUTTING YOUR OWN DOWN
3.NOT SUPPORTING YOUR DREAMS
4.CONTROLLING
5.LACK OF COMMUNICATION
6.UNRELIABILITY
7.FORGETTING THE MEMORABLE DAY
8.SELF-DESTRUCTION
9.NOT CARING ABOUT FRIENDS AND FAMILY
TREE KINDS OF PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
1.)Family
2.)Friends
3.)Romantic
It is an essential component in any discussion of relationships, but this varies greatly from person to person
Family
This organization defines family as “two or more persons who are related by birth, marriage, or adoption and who live together as one household.
Bureau of Census
Some typical characteristics of a familyare
-Support,
-Mutual trust,
-Regular interaction,
-Shared beliefs and values,
-Security,
-Sense of
community
Can be thought of as a close tie
between two people that is
often built upon mutual
experience shared interests,
proximity, and emotional
bonding
Friends
PARKER AND ASAHER( 1993)
TYPES OF FRIENDSHIP
1.Acquaintances
2.Companions
3.Intimates or best friends
ARTHUR (1999 )
TYPES OF PEER GROUPS
Clique
Crowd
Is an exclusive group of people who spend time together and do not readily allow others to join them.
Clique
Is a gathering individuals that it’s impossible to know everyone personality.
Crowd
Formed to pursue a shared interest or purpose, and
can feel and function like a community with
similar likes, beliefs or convictions.
Crowd
A narrow circle of friends.
Clique
'’it was found out that among girls, having friends as a source of social support is more common, compared with boys.”
Girls are more expressive than boys and usually show
their intimacy by talking about personal matters; boys, on the other hand, show intimacy in non-verbal
ways
Furman (1999),
including marriage, are close
relationships formed between two people that are built upon
affection, trust, intimacy, and
romantic love
Romantic Partnership
We usually experience this kind of relationship with only one person at a time.
Romantic relationship
WAYS ON HOW ATTRACTION TO SOMEONE IS EXPRESSED
Inspiration (CORRECT)
Distraction (WRONG)
ACCEPTABLE WAYS TO EXPRESS YOUR
ATTRACTION
Offer the gift of listening
Say please and thank you
Tell your loved ones how much you love and appreciate them
Offer to help someone’s need
Write a letter or send a card to someone you love and mail it
Practice the art of forgiveness
Write your love ones a poem of gratitude
UNACCEPTABLE WAYS TO EXPRESS
YOUR ATTRACTION
-Acting that you own him/her
-Acting weird when you are with him
-Stalk him/her on social media
-Obsession
People engaged in romantic relationships
experience a special type of feeling called
LOVE
are commonly observed
among adolescents who are involved in girl and boy relationships.
Romantic relationships
3 PHASES OF ROMANTIC
RELATIONSHIPS ( STEINBERG )
1.Discovery of interest
2.Dating
3.Commitment
Is mysterious; A powerful
feeling that allows you to
sacrifice your own happiness
for the sake of others.
Love
“the person’s ability to extend
himself/herself for the purpose
of nurturing one’s own or
another’s spiritual growth”.
(Scott Peck, 1978)
WAYS TO BECOME RESPONSIBLE IN A RELATIONSHIP
1.Clarify your boundaries.
2.Learn to communicate.
3.Invest in an “emotional bank account”
4.Learn to forgive others.
5.Consult professionals.
EXPRESSIONS OF LOVE &
COMMITMENT saying?
Love is a choice
Love involves trust &
commitment