Peer Relationships Flashcards

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What is the self concept?

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  • an organized set of beliefs about oneself, including personality traits, physical characteristics, abilities, values and roles
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When does self concept emerge?

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  • 18 months
  • children pass the rouge test
  • children also start using “me” pronoun and calling themselves by name
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How does the self concept develop?

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  • children’s self concept develops primarily by internalizing others’ perceptions of them
  • direct vs indirect perceptions
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What are direct perceptions?

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  • caregiver describes a child a certain way and the child incorporates that description into their self concept
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What are indirect perceptions?

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  • how children are treated
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What is the first characteristic present in children’s self concept?

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  • gender
  • it is central to their sense of self
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When do children form basic gender identity?

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  • 2.5-3 years
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What is gender socialization?

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  • process through which children learn about the social expectations, attitudes and behaviours associated with girls and boys by internalizing the messages received about gender from caregivers and wider society
  • starts early; parents of newborns describe boys and girls differently
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What are the baby X studies?

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  • studies in which researchers label the same infant as a boy or girl and then observe how adults interact with the infant
  • infants labelled as boys rated as bigger, stronger, louder, and more likely to be encouraged to be active
  • infants labelled as girls received more talk and nurturance
  • suggests that caregivers’ perceptions of differences between male and female babies are due to their own associations with gender, rather than actual gender differences
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How does gender shape parents’ expectations about motor skills?

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  • parents of girls tended to underestimate their infant’s crawling ability but parents of boys more accurately estimated their ability
  • when tested on their actual skills, boys and girls did not differ on the slopes they could safely crawl down
  • suggests that gender differences in motor skills only exist in parent’s perception
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What are the gender differences in toys?

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  • girls toys are more pink and sedentary
  • boys toys are more active and there’s no pink
  • boys have more toy trucks and girls have 5 times more pink toys by 12 months
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What are gender differences in play?

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  • parents present boys with more physical challenges than girls
  • more likely to offer girls more help
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What are gender differences in language?

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  • parents are more likely to use emotion words with girls than boys in early childhood
  • emotion understanding thus develops earlier in girls
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What are gender differences in the division of household chores?

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  • homes in which parents take on more traditional gender roles in completing chores are communicating gender roles
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What are gender differences in media exposure?

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  • more tv viewing by preschoolers associated with them more likely saying that people see boys as better than girls
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What is self socialization?

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  • once a child identifies with a gender, they actively seek out gender related information and conform their behaviour to this info
  • highlights children’s own role in their gender development
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When do children have rigid, gender stereotyped behaviours?

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  • 3-5 years
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What are rigid, gender stereotyped behaviours?

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  • preference for toys and clothes that are consistent with gender identity
  • preference for same gender playmates
  • cross cultural
  • due to lack of gender constancy
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What is gender constancy?

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  • understanding that gender remains the same regardless of superficial changes to appearance or behaviour
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When does rigid, gendered behaviour relax?

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  • 6 years
  • because gender constancy is achieved
  • accept more non-gendered appearance and toy preferences in themselves and others
  • but, as children get older, they acquire more complex ideas and expectations about gender that include traits, roles, abilities, etc
  • incorporates these into their self concepts and adjust their behaviour accordingly
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What are the implications of gender identity?

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  • gender is a central characteristic that organizes children’s self concepts
  • adherence to gender stereotypes can unnecessarily limit children’s development in educational aspirations, social development, and emotional expression
  • extent to which a child behaves in gender-consistent ways is associated with level of peer acceptance
  • even though children increase their gender flexibility with age, they tend to reject peers who do not behave in typically gendered ways
  • greater engagement with peers of same gender is powerful way that gender stereotypes and identities are reinforced
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What is gender neutral parenting?

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  • conscious parenting practice to encourage children to explore and express themselves in a way that is not defined by traditional gender roles
  • common in WEIRD countries
  • not enforcing gender specific colours, avoiding gender specific language, encouraging all activities
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What is sex?

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  • assigned at birth usually based on external genitalia
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Who are cisgender children?

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  • children who identify with their assigned sex
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Who are transgender children?

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  • children who don’t identify with their assigned sex
  • tend to show strong identification and preferences aligned with current gender in a way that is very similar to cisgender children
  • research suggest that transgender identity is not a result of parent socialization and instead seems to be internally driven
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When is gender central to self concept?

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  • 3-6 years
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What is self concept like in early childhood?

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  • 3-6 years
  • gender is central to self concept
  • concrete, observable characteristics that tend to focus on physical attributes and physical activities
  • unrealistically positive and confident
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What is self concept like in middle childhood?

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  • 7-12 years
  • describe self using personality traits and inner qualities
  • self concept is more balanced and accurate
  • includes weakness, but overall positive
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What are changes in self concept from early childhood to middle childhood due to?

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  • increased cognitive ability to think about multiple qualities simultaneously
  • greater engagement in social comparison and more strongly influenced by the opinions of others
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What is self concept like in adolescence?

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  • 13-18 years
  • can think of themselves in increasingly abstract ways
  • more intense concerns about social acceptance which heavily influences self concept
  • egocentrism; assume their thoughts and feelings are more unique than they really are (younger)
  • imaginary audience
  • aware of differences in behaviour in different social settings leading to confusion and many questions about identity
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When is forming an identity important?

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  • forming an identity is the primary psychosocial task of adolescence/early adulthood
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How is identity formed?

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  • exploration
  • commitment
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What is exploration?

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  • questioning of parental and societal values and experimenting with various facets of identity
  • including appearance, hobbies, traits, friends, courses…
  • viewed as important and healthy for identity development
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What is commitment?

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  • consolidation and acceptance of who one is as indicated by the choices one makes
  • deciding on a major, friend group, clothing style
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What are Marcia’s identity statuses?

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  • identity diffusion
  • moratorium
  • foreclosure
  • identity achievement
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What is the typical trajectory of Marcia’s identity statuses?

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diffusion –> moratorium/foreclosure –> achievement

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What is identity diffusion?

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  • lack of exploration of options and no commitments made
  • due to lack of interest in own identity or indecision
  • common in children
  • if persists into late adolescence/adulthood, associated with feeling disconnected, being easily influenced by others, and little sense of purpose
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What is moratorium?

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  • active exploration of various roles but no commitments yet
  • brought about by awareness of multiple selves and exposure to different identity options
  • feelings of confusion and anxiety are normal at this status
  • important phase for identity achievement
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What is foreclosure?

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  • commitment to a life path without having explored alternatives
  • due to parents making decisions for teen without their input or teen strongly identifies with a parent and wishes to follow in their footsteps
  • more likely in teens who are obedient, have a low level of tolerance for uncertainty, and have authoritarian parents
  • potential problem in choosing an identity that is not a good fit
  • can lead to lower life satisfaction and a struggle to maintain the commitment
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What is identity achirvement?

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  • completed phase of exploration and commitment to an internally driven identity
  • associated with most positive mental health and social outcomes
  • usually achieved in early adulthood
  • biggest gains in identity are in post secondary schooling due to greater exposure to different lifestyles, beliefs, and career options
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What are the criticisms of Marcia’s identity statuses?

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  • research into identity statuses conducted in WEIRD samples, typical progression and outcomes may differ in non WEIRD societies
  • identity development is a continuous process, not limited to adolescence
  • life event in adulthood can restart the process
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What is play?

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  • voluntary activities done for inherent enjoyment
  • play looks different depending on a child’s age
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What is non-social play?

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  • play that doesn’t involve the participation of peers
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What are the types of non-social play?

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  • unoccupied play
  • solitary play
  • onlooker play
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What is unoccupied play?

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  • birth - 3 months
  • child briefly watches things around them, but nothing holds their attention for long
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What is solitary play?

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  • 3 months - 2 years
  • child is focused on their own activity and is uninterested in playing with others
47
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What is onlooker play?

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  • being around 2 years
  • child watches other children’s play
  • may ask questions, but won’t join in
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What is social play?

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  • play that involves participation of peers
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What are the types of social play?

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  • parallel play
  • associative play
  • cooperative play
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What is parallel play?

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  • begins between 2-3 years
  • children play next to each other, possibly doing the same activity, but do not interact much
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What is associative play?

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  • begins between 3-4 years
  • children play together, engaging sometimes, but having different goals
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What is cooperative play?

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  • begins 4+ years
  • children play together and are working towards a common goal
53
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Why is play critical for learning?

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  • social-emotional development
  • cognitive development
  • motor development
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How does play help with social-emotional development?

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  • learn to cooperate
  • develop theory of mind
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How does play help with cognitive development?

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  • practice problem solving
  • learning about the world through trial and error
  • develop language skills
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How does play help with motor development?

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  • unoccupied play fosters motor skills
57
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What is the importance of play?

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  • UN recognizes child’s right “to engage in play and recreational activities appropriate to the age of the child”
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What is a friend?

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  • a person that’s not a relative with whom an individual has an intimate, reciprocated, and positive relationship
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What are the most important factors in children’s friendships?

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  • similarity
  • proximity
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What is similarity?

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  • age
  • acceptance by peers
  • personality
  • level of negative emotions
  • academic motivation
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What is proximity?

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  • live in same neighbourhood
  • go to same school
  • participate in same extracurricular activities
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How does gender affect choice of friends?

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  • more likely to be friends with kids of the same gender
  • this preference emerges around 3 years
  • peaks around 13 years
  • at 13, time with different gender friends increases, especially for girls
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What is the developmental trajectory of friendships?

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  • 1-2 years: show preference of some children over others
  • 2-3 years: developing more complex social behaviours
  • 3-5 years: kids have a concept of friendship
  • 6-8 years: define friendship on basis of shared activities with peers
  • 9-12 years: definition of friendship expands to include trust, care, help, support
  • adolescence: friendship primarily defined by self disclosure and intimacy
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What is friendship like at 1-2 years?

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  • show preference of some children over others
  • touch them more often
  • smile more at them
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What is friendship like at 2-3 years?

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  • developing more complex social behaviours
  • imitating peers’ behaviours, cooperative problem solving, turn taking
  • emergence of parallel play
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What is friendship like at 3-5 years?

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  • kids have a concept of friendship
  • most kids have at least one friend
  • friendship defined as playing together
  • best friend = peer a child plays with most
  • friends have more conflict than non friends, more likely to cooperate to resolve conflict than non friends
  • emergence of preference for same gender peers
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What is friendship like at 6-8 years?

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  • define friendship on basis of shared activities with peers
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What is friendship like at 9-12 years?

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  • definition of friendship expands to include trust, care, help, and support
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What is friendship like in adolescence?

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  • friendship primarily defined by self disclosure and intimacy
  • friendship takes on central importance
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What is the difference between boys and girls friendships?

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  • girls desire more closeness and dependancy in friendships but comes with more worrying and stress about friendships
  • girls and boys show similar levels of conflict and stability in friendships
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What is sociometric status?

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  • degree to which children are liked vs disliked by peers
  • measured by having children anonymously nominate peers in their class that they like and peers in their class they dislike
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What are the 5 status groups?

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  • popular
  • rejected
  • average
  • neglected
  • controversial
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What is the popular status?

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  • 11% of kids
  • liked by many peers and disliked by few
  • socially skilled
  • good emotion regulation skills
  • assertive, but not aggressive
  • tend to have factors that give them high status (attractive, athletic, popular friends)
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What is the rejected status?

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  • 13% of kids
  • liked by few peers and disliked by many
  • tend to have fewer positive social skills compared to peers
  • fall into one of 2 categories
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What are the categories of the rejected status?

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  • rejected-aggressive
  • rejected-withdrawn
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What is the rejected-aggressive status?

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  • 40-50% of rejected kids
  • tend to show high levels of hostility, threatening behaviour, physical aggression, and delinquency
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What is the rejected-withdrawn status?

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  • 10-25% of rejected kids
  • trend to be socially withdrawn, timid, and socially anxious
  • frequently victimized and feel lonely, isolated, depressed
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What is the controversial status?

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  • 7% of kids
  • liked by many but also disliked by many
  • aggressive, disruptive, and prone to anger
  • compensate for this with many positive social skills like being cooperative, sociable and funny
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What is the neglected status?

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  • 9% of kids
  • not liked or disliked
  • neutral/not noticed
  • less social and less disruptive than average children
  • not at risk for negative outcomes
  • simply prefer solitary activities
  • can be socially skilled in more structured activities
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What is the average status?

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  • 60% of kids
  • moderate number of likes and dislikes
  • more social than rejected and neglected kids, but not as social as popular and controversial kids
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How stable is sociometric status?

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  • sociometric status more likely to change from year to year
  • average and rejected status most stable
  • popular status tends to be stable within a given school year
82
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What is the importance of friendship?

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  • provides social validation and support
  • fosters development of positive social skills
83
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How does friendship provide social validation and support?

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  • especially important during transitions
  • kids tend to rely more on friends than parents starting in adolescence
  • chronic friendlessness is associated with increased loneliness and depression
  • friendship buffers against negative experiences
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How does friendship foster development of positive social skills?

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  • builds cooperation, theory of mind, conflict resolution skills
  • childhood friendships are practice for adult relationships
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What are the implications of being rejected?

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  • rejected, especially aggressive-rejected, status in childhood is associated with a variety of negative outcomes
  • more aggression
  • delinquency in teens
  • substance abuse
  • continued unhealthy relationships into adolescence and adulthood
  • low self esteem
  • less education and limited work success
  • crime in adulthood
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What is deviancy training?

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  • negative peer pressure wherein peers model and reinforce aggression and deviance by making these behaviours seem acceptable
  • kids that have aggressive/delinquent friends are more likely to also become more aggressive and delinquent themselves
  • can begin as early as age 5
  • similar effect with alcohol and drug use
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What is selection effect?

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  • children choose peers that are similar to them
  • implies that kids choose and contribute to the wrong crowd
88
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How can parents shape their children’s peer relationships in a positive way?

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  • monitoring
  • emotion coaching
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What is monitoring?

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  • parents decide whom children interact with and how much time they spend doing particular activities
  • looks different depending on the age of the child but matters at all ages
  • especially important in adolescence, who have more control over who they spend time with
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What is emotion coaching?

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  • parents teach kids how to effectively manage emotions to interact with peers and handle conflict
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What are school interventions?

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  • school interventions aim to improve children’s peer relationships by enhancing their emotional development
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What is PATHS?

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  • Promoting Alternative Thinking Strategies
  • aim to change how rejected children interact with peers
  • kids age 4-11
  • learn to identify emotional expressions
  • think about the causes and consequences of different ways of expression emotions
  • strategies for self regulation
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What are the outcomes for the children who participate in PATHS?

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  • improved emotion understanding and regulation
  • increased social problem solving
  • decreased externalizing behaviour (aggression, acting out)
  • decreased depression