Peer Relationships Flashcards
What is the self concept?
- an organized set of beliefs about oneself, including personality traits, physical characteristics, abilities, values and roles
When does self concept emerge?
- 18 months
- children pass the rouge test
- children also start using “me” pronoun and calling themselves by name
How does the self concept develop?
- children’s self concept develops primarily by internalizing others’ perceptions of them
- direct vs indirect perceptions
What are direct perceptions?
- caregiver describes a child a certain way and the child incorporates that description into their self concept
What are indirect perceptions?
- how children are treated
What is the first characteristic present in children’s self concept?
- gender
- it is central to their sense of self
When do children form basic gender identity?
- 2.5-3 years
What is gender socialization?
- process through which children learn about the social expectations, attitudes and behaviours associated with girls and boys by internalizing the messages received about gender from caregivers and wider society
- starts early; parents of newborns describe boys and girls differently
What are the baby X studies?
- studies in which researchers label the same infant as a boy or girl and then observe how adults interact with the infant
- infants labelled as boys rated as bigger, stronger, louder, and more likely to be encouraged to be active
- infants labelled as girls received more talk and nurturance
- suggests that caregivers’ perceptions of differences between male and female babies are due to their own associations with gender, rather than actual gender differences
How does gender shape parents’ expectations about motor skills?
- parents of girls tended to underestimate their infant’s crawling ability but parents of boys more accurately estimated their ability
- when tested on their actual skills, boys and girls did not differ on the slopes they could safely crawl down
- suggests that gender differences in motor skills only exist in parent’s perception
What are the gender differences in toys?
- girls toys are more pink and sedentary
- boys toys are more active and there’s no pink
- boys have more toy trucks and girls have 5 times more pink toys by 12 months
What are gender differences in play?
- parents present boys with more physical challenges than girls
- more likely to offer girls more help
What are gender differences in language?
- parents are more likely to use emotion words with girls than boys in early childhood
- emotion understanding thus develops earlier in girls
What are gender differences in the division of household chores?
- homes in which parents take on more traditional gender roles in completing chores are communicating gender roles
What are gender differences in media exposure?
- more tv viewing by preschoolers associated with them more likely saying that people see boys as better than girls
What is self socialization?
- once a child identifies with a gender, they actively seek out gender related information and conform their behaviour to this info
- highlights children’s own role in their gender development
When do children have rigid, gender stereotyped behaviours?
- 3-5 years
What are rigid, gender stereotyped behaviours?
- preference for toys and clothes that are consistent with gender identity
- preference for same gender playmates
- cross cultural
- due to lack of gender constancy
What is gender constancy?
- understanding that gender remains the same regardless of superficial changes to appearance or behaviour
When does rigid, gendered behaviour relax?
- 6 years
- because gender constancy is achieved
- accept more non-gendered appearance and toy preferences in themselves and others
- but, as children get older, they acquire more complex ideas and expectations about gender that include traits, roles, abilities, etc
- incorporates these into their self concepts and adjust their behaviour accordingly
What are the implications of gender identity?
- gender is a central characteristic that organizes children’s self concepts
- adherence to gender stereotypes can unnecessarily limit children’s development in educational aspirations, social development, and emotional expression
- extent to which a child behaves in gender-consistent ways is associated with level of peer acceptance
- even though children increase their gender flexibility with age, they tend to reject peers who do not behave in typically gendered ways
- greater engagement with peers of same gender is powerful way that gender stereotypes and identities are reinforced
What is gender neutral parenting?
- conscious parenting practice to encourage children to explore and express themselves in a way that is not defined by traditional gender roles
- common in WEIRD countries
- not enforcing gender specific colours, avoiding gender specific language, encouraging all activities
What is sex?
- assigned at birth usually based on external genitalia
Who are cisgender children?
- children who identify with their assigned sex
Who are transgender children?
- children who don’t identify with their assigned sex
- tend to show strong identification and preferences aligned with current gender in a way that is very similar to cisgender children
- research suggest that transgender identity is not a result of parent socialization and instead seems to be internally driven
When is gender central to self concept?
- 3-6 years
What is self concept like in early childhood?
- 3-6 years
- gender is central to self concept
- concrete, observable characteristics that tend to focus on physical attributes and physical activities
- unrealistically positive and confident
What is self concept like in middle childhood?
- 7-12 years
- describe self using personality traits and inner qualities
- self concept is more balanced and accurate
- includes weakness, but overall positive
What are changes in self concept from early childhood to middle childhood due to?
- increased cognitive ability to think about multiple qualities simultaneously
- greater engagement in social comparison and more strongly influenced by the opinions of others
What is self concept like in adolescence?
- 13-18 years
- can think of themselves in increasingly abstract ways
- more intense concerns about social acceptance which heavily influences self concept
- egocentrism; assume their thoughts and feelings are more unique than they really are (younger)
- imaginary audience
- aware of differences in behaviour in different social settings leading to confusion and many questions about identity
When is forming an identity important?
- forming an identity is the primary psychosocial task of adolescence/early adulthood
How is identity formed?
- exploration
- commitment
What is exploration?
- questioning of parental and societal values and experimenting with various facets of identity
- including appearance, hobbies, traits, friends, courses…
- viewed as important and healthy for identity development
What is commitment?
- consolidation and acceptance of who one is as indicated by the choices one makes
- deciding on a major, friend group, clothing style
What are Marcia’s identity statuses?
- identity diffusion
- moratorium
- foreclosure
- identity achievement
What is the typical trajectory of Marcia’s identity statuses?
diffusion –> moratorium/foreclosure –> achievement
What is identity diffusion?
- lack of exploration of options and no commitments made
- due to lack of interest in own identity or indecision
- common in children
- if persists into late adolescence/adulthood, associated with feeling disconnected, being easily influenced by others, and little sense of purpose