Nmmng Flashcards
What being integrated means?
Means being able to accept all aspects of ones self. Being able to embrace everything that makes him uniquely male: his Power, courage and his passion as well as his imperfections, his mistakes and his dark side.
Whats the attributes of an integrated male?
Strong Sense of self. He likes himself Just as he is.
Takes responsability for getting his own needs met.
Comfortable with his masculinity and his sexuality.
Integrity. Does whats right, not convenient
Clear, direct and expressive of his feelings
Know How to set boudaries and is not afraid to work through conflict.
Doesnt strive to be perfect or gain approval of others.
Accepts he is perfectly imperfect
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How to not give a fuck (social context)?
Getting serious about your mission, get serious about your life.
In my case: Get a lot of knowledge, mainly in Engineering and social arts
Doing what you really want
TRY TO EMBRACE YOUR COUNTER-CULTURE
(You Are Different, Stop Trying to Be Otherwise)
But it can help:
In your 20’s - just look better and Get Laid more than the average guy and you’ll automatically stop caring what he thinks.
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How to get serious about your life/mission?
Dont let anything except really serious issues can rip your focus away from your ONE very specific goal.
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What would you be doing if youre serious about your life/mission?
Studying at least 2:30 hours about science and machines. Everyday, no mimimi. With or without lazyness.
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Be honest to your self, how to do it?
Stop now and think what you really want.
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