Module 2- Leadership and Self Deception & Stages of Learning Flashcards
An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another
Self-Betrayal
What are steps #2-3 in Self-Betrayal
I begin to justify my self-betrayal #2
I begin to see through a distorted view. #3
How do I enter the box?
Self-Betrayal, justify that betrayal, distorted view. Enter box.
What happens after I enter “the box”
Box becomes characteristics of me and I carry them with me. #5
I provoke others to be in the box. #6
What is collusion?
Mutual mistreatment and justification giving each other reason to be in the box. Both in their boxes.
Name the 7 steps of Self Betrayal or “The box”
- Self Betrayal
- Justify that self betrayal
- View others and self through distorted view (self-deception).
- Enter the box.
- Boxes become my characteristics, I carry them around.
- Provoke other to enter the box.
- Collusion–both parties mistreat and justify staying in the boxes.
How do I perceive others inside my box?
Inflating their faults and minimizing my own, view
from a point of how their faults impact me–negative, no grace
How do I perceive others from outside my box?
As a human with lots of grace and acknowledging my own flaws
How do we get out of “the box”?
The moment I cease resisting others humanity on me–see them as a person with needs and hopes as legitimate as my own.
What are the four stages of learning?
- Unconscious incompetent
- Conscious incompetent
- Conscious competent
- Unconscious competent
What is the most productive stage of learning?
My answer would be conscious incompetent–because you’re humble and realize how much you don’t know yet.
What is the most dangerous stage of learning?
Unconscious competent–because you just do things automatically even if you’re doing them wrong. May be harder to change. Think you know everything –even if there is a better way.
What is consciousness?
A process of awareness.
The process of ability.
Competent
Able to be influenced.
Vulnerability