"midterm 4" Flashcards
what general themes of social psych does attraction focus on
subjective contrual
need to feel good about ourselves
need to be connected
what is the motivatoin behind attraction
need affiliate
=affects emotions
=need for social ties and close relationships
=motivated to be with others
evolution - we rely on each other in order to survivie
what leads to attraction - big statements
similarity
the propinquity effect
mere exposure
physical attractiveness
how similarity leads to attraction
shared interests and experiences
the propinquity effect
we tend to become attracted to people with whom we see and interact with regularly
single best predictor of who we will become attracted to
propinquity effect study
MIT first year students randomly assigned dorms (1 of 17 buildings, each with 10 apartments)
semester 1 asked who friends with
more likely to be friends with same building, next door neighbour, 2 doors down
functional distance what was important = ie near stairs then friends with other floors, mailboxed etc
mere exposure effect experiment
repeated exposure to same stimulus leads to increase liking
Zajonc (1968)
chinese ideographs to participants (non chinese speakers) 0, 1, 2, 10, 15, 25 times
assessed liking
high frequency = high liking
effects strongest when awareness of this repeated exposure is low
moderators of mere exposure
initially neutral or liking
less awareness
moreland and beach 1992 experiment about mere exposure effect
female confederate sit in class 0,5,10 or 15 times throughout the semester did not interact classmates rated attractiveness at the end of the semester rated the confederate as more attractive the more she had been there functional distance because mere exposure
what features do people prefer
symmetrical faces (for offspring)
average faces
universally attractive features (some for men and some for women) - apply to all sorts of different cultures
evolutionary perspective - to mate and have offspring
changes over time (think about art, used to like fat)
what is the halo effect
beautiful people benefit
we attribute positive charactersitics to people who are more attractive
they are seen as more: social, content, busy, intellignet, creative, friendly, successful, exciting, accessible, honest
self-fulfilling prophecy of the halo effect
snyder, tanke and berscheid (1977)
men talked to female confederate on the phone (same woman throughout)
men shown an attractive vs unattractive picture
males particiants would be more friendly when they thought she was attractive = would rate her as more socialble (and so would blind raters)
so the pictures changed the male expectation so asked her better questions and she gave better responses
name the model of why we stay in close relationships
social exchange theory
explain (ie draw) the social exchange theory
rewards(+) costs(-) comparison level (-) =overall satisfaction (+) investment(+) alternatives(-) all three = commitment(+) = stability
name the two types of relationships
exchange and communal
exchange relationships`
equity reciprocal track contributions feel exploited if unequal acquaintances and causal friends
communal relationships
others needs not focused on reciprocity don't track contributions feel happy when meeting the others needs family and close friends
marriage cultural differences
western / independent = romantic and love
eastern / interdependent = family and harmony
marriage and time
people become less satisfied with their marriages over time especially after having kids
biggest predictor of marriage break up
communication
married couples study
married couples brought into lab and made to talk about the biggest stressor in their marriage
with 90% accuracy could predict divorce / outcome of the marriage
= 4 horsemen of the apocalypse
ultimately positive experineces must outweigh negative ones (the relative value0
name the 4 horsemen of the apocalypse
contempt (most impactful)
crticism
defensiveness
stonewalling
Kitty genovese
young women
raped and murdere
screams heard by 38 people but no one did anythign to help