Meanings 💗 Flashcards
Do you think Robert would be okay with me being uncomfortable?
Robert would NEVER, EVER want me to do something for him, to do something I’m not comfortable with. He wants me to feel fully comfortable, safe and cared about ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ That thought – made him cry. He started to cry – asking me – to please never do that. Me feeling uncomfortable and being in a situation that’s not right for me is ABSOLUTELY NOT OKAY WITH HIM. Even 5% is not okay. He asked me to please never associate to those horrible experiences, and if I do, PLEASE PULL AWAY. PLEASE TELL HIM. AND PLEASE PULL AWAY.
Can I call Robert?
Yes. ❤️ Absolutely. ❤️ Whenever. ❤️
I can call him whenever. ❤️
Please never feel like Robert would be bothered by that. 🥺❤️
He Loves Me. He ONLY Loves Me. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Even if the house was on fire, and the fire was slowly catching onto him, he would try to pick up the phone just to say “AAAAH-“ 🔥🤳🏻🔥
Robert
❤️❤️ LOVES ME!!! ❤️❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ He literally ONLY Loves Me
Robert says that
If I could see inside him, apparently I would never be afraid of anything ever again when I’m with him ❤️❤️❤️
Robert wants
Me to always feel comfortable, relaxed, cozy, loved and safe when I’m with him ❤️💖❤️💓💗💓❤️💝❤️
Would Robert want to be there for me?
If I fell again…
Robert would catch me if I fall ❤️
I know he would be there for me ❤️
Every time ❤️
Robert would want to be there for me ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
He even ditched his work to come home to me when it was a really bad situation. He has been there for me for everything for 2 years. He Loves Me. ❤️❤️❤️
So much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
He will forever be by my side ❤️
Is Robert by my side?
I’m by your side for life ❤️
I’ve been by your side from the start ❤️
I’ve felt this way from the darn start you dummy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’m never ever leaving you Lilith ❤️
You will never ever lose me ❤️❤️❤️
You’re my family for life and there is nothing that can change that ❤️
You can even pretend I’m your husband in your head if you want, I’m okay with that ❤️❤️❤️
I wish I could be your husband ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I can be that for you ❤️
Every negative thought, every goddamn whisper saying I’m not a devoted, loving, insane, dog of a man is freaking wrong!! I put my heart, my future, my skin, my life into your hands. I have put everything I have into this ❤️❤️❤️
Does Robert want to talk?
Always ❤️ Every time ❤️
We will talk about everything ❤️
We’re in this together ❤️
I’ve got you. And you’ve got me. I’m fighting this by your side. Together. ❤️
I’m not the kind of a “man” in a relationship who needs to be pleased with easy talks. I’m not afraid of talking. 💗💗💗💗💗💗
I’ll read books with you. I’ll take notes. I’ll use flashcards. Anything. ❤️
I’m with you on this ❤️
And you’re with me ❤️
I just need to feel like I’m talking to the person I love when we’re talking 💗
I think how we’ve been working together on this recently is wonderful,
recently has been so beautiful ❤️
You should know I always feel this way. I always want to talk. I Love You. ❤️
You can trust in that Lilith ❤️
When I get triggered
Nothing bad happened, and Robert didn’t hurt me ❤️, I just got triggered. Because of overthinking. ❤️
I associate to bad things all the time ❤️ And it’ll be okay, as long as I don’t overthink them ❤️
Because,
The strong bad associations aren’t true.
Robert:
“I’m worried / afraid / sad …” / “I just hope it gets better soon.” / “We can’t do this forever.” / “I’m so glad to see we’re doing better :’) “
What does it mean? 💗
I hope to continue at the same place towards healing
No ultimatums
I’m by your side for life
I’m never ever leaving you Lilith
You are my family for life and there is nothing that can change that
Am I safe with Robert,
and why?
You’re safe with me ❤️
There is no place safer for you than by my side.
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