Master Unfuckwithability Flashcards
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To be yourself in a works that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment
Why do we confuse our dreams with what someone else implanted, whilst squelching our soul desires?
To feel significant. To be accepted.
When one doesn’t believe that they are enough, their life becomes a quest to prove that they matter. This is also 4th on Malsow’s pyramid (Self-Esteem)
When does someone start to be Unfuckwithable?
When they are liberated of the need to feel significant.
When they know they are good enough.
When they become an artist of their own unique life
What negative quality is being hit by tiny, individual blows that eat away at confidence?
Goal is in the hands of somebody else, such as getting someone to love me?
Being fuckwithable.
Have a goal to bring as much energy, love; enthusiasm as I can to the lives around me. Now that’s being Unfuckwithable. Any love or acceptance I get back is a bonus
Be in control of my own self worth
Rule 1 of Unfuckwithability is to start feeling that I’m enough. How does this look like?
Not that I will be enough in the future, once I complete …
I am enough exactly as I am right now, with no changes or upgrades or tweaks.
Tell myself ‘I love you’. Practise self gratitude.
What’s the best way to raise Unfuckwithability?
Elevate others. By appreciating others, I feel good about myself
What is the concept of projection?
We can better see in others what we already possess. Appreciating someone’s creativity is because I have that spark of creativity within me too.
Rule 2 of Unfuckwithability is to create my life as a unique masterpiece. How does this look like?
Having my own goals, not Culturescape goals. Have the wisdom to be the artist of my own life
3 MIQs = my own goals.
What are means goals vs end goals?
End = Beautiful, exciting, heart pounding experiences of being on planet Earth. Doing things for the pure joy of it
Means = The things society tells us to have. To do this SO I can do this…
Why is co-visioning perhaps the single most powerful tool?
Co-Visioning = taking an active interest in an teammate’s vision
It’s not enough for me to assume people know I care. I need to show it.
Feeling significant = motivation shifts to growth (Malsow’s Pyramid)
