love and loving in a relationship Flashcards
love
deep abiding feelings that grow over time including qualities of friendship
-prioritization
-caring and sacrifices
-sexual desire (sometimes)
lust
sexual desire and arousal
triangular theory of love (Sternburg): intimacy
liking
romantic (passion) companitionate (decisions and commitment)
triangular theory of love (Sternburg): passion
infatuation
fatuous(decision and commitment)
romantic (intimacy)
triangular theory of love (Sternburg): decision/commitment
empty
compassionate (intimacy)
fatuous (passion)
lees color of love: eros
romantic
passionate
primary
lees color of love: agape
selfless love
mix of eros and storage
lees color of love: storage
friendship love
primary
lees color of love: pragma
shopping list of love
mix of storage and ludus
lees color of love: ludus
game playing love
primary
lees color of love: mania
possessive dependent love
mix of ludus and eros
current conceptualization: passionate
short term
sexual desire and preoccupation
short lived
idealized partner
current conceptualization: compassionate
long term
sexual and emotional intimacy
permanence/commitment
realistic view of partner
your brain on love
neurotransmitters released by the nervous system
-certain parts of the brain being activated
your brain on love: rejected in love
unrequited
nucleus acumbens
-craving which is also activated when addicted to cocaine
