Love and Attraction Flashcards
What is the Three-Factor Theory of love?
- Cultural concept
- Love object
- Emotional arousal, which you label as love
How is Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of love differ from the 3 factor theory?
Different elements of love:
- Intimacy
- Passion
- Commitment
What is the difference between intimacy, passion, and commitment?
Intimacy is closeness and connection. (Liking)
Passion is romance, sexual. (Infatuation)
Commitment. (Empty Love)
What is companionate love?
Intimacy plus commitment
What is consummate love characterised by?
All three elements of triangular theory: passion, intimacy, commitment
What is romantic love a combination of?
Passion and intimacy.
What is fatuous love a combination of?
Commitment and passion.
How does mere exposure influence attraction?
Greater familiarity with someone (and proximity to them)
What are four influences on attraction?
Proximity, similarity, reciprocity, and physical attractiveness.
How does reciprocity influence attraction?
Increases positive evaluations. We like people who express positive emotions. And we want to reciprocate.
How important is compatibility in attraction?
Attracted to those we like
Repelled by those we don’t like
So if we dislike their racist attitudes…
What is assortative mating?
Coupling based on similar resemblance in genetic and social dimensions. (Appearance, background, SES, religion)
In which domains do physically attractive people experience advantages? (6)
- newborn looking preferences
- mothers treatment of children
- teachers’ treatment
- popularity at school
- criminal justice system
- romantic relationships
When is attractiveness not an advantage in the criminal justice system?
When the person has used their attractiveness to help them commit a crime. Using their good looks to get away with something.
What is the matching hypothesis?
People choose partners whom they perceive to be equally attractive as themselves.