Life Funny Rules Flashcards

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Fluffy on raising the voice

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If you can’t handle my raised voice how can you possibly handle the world where nobody cares about your feelings

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2
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Maintaining weight rules (4)

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Mindful, slow eating
One 9 inch plate
Water with meal and before second helping
Single snack enjoyed slowly

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Whicher about life in “Something more”, part of “Sword of Destiny” book?

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…As you correctly observed, this isn’t a fairly tale, it’s life. Lousy and evil. And so, damn it all, let’s live it decently and well.
Let’s keep the amount of harm done to others to the absolute minimum.

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4
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Drinking with dinner?

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Two drinks

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5
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Drinking party

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Five drinks

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What is one of our greatest freedoms as per mole fromCharlie Mackesy’s “The Boy, the mole, the fox and the Horse”?

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One of the greatest freedoms is how we react to things…

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What is the bravest thing you’ve ever said? -asked boy

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“Help” - said the horse

“Asking for help isn’t giving up. It’s refusing to give up”- said the horse

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What if somebody is wrong?

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You have the right to be wrong!

Father Mike

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9
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How to eat chocolate in moderation? 3/3

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Eat only when sitting

Enjoy mindfully every second of it

Drink hot tea with it

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10
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Kapłanka Nenneke o“bardzo powierzchownym zwiazku” Yennefer i Wiedźmina:

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Dość typowe….

Obydwojga nie stać na nic opròcz silnie emocjonalnej oceny skutkòw przy jednoczesnym ignorowaniu przyczyn.

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11
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Love and Sex for genders

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Woman are willing to give Sex in exchange for love

Man would give love in exchange for sex

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12
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How to start difficult topic when resistance is expected?

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Start with at least 2-3 sentences describing circumstances and positive aspect of the situation acknowledging prior efforts.

Especially to spouse….

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13
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How to run your own psychologic diagnostics? 3/3

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Ask yourself every few days where you are

What are my needs?

How can I respond better to the surrounding issues?

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14
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Can love tank be filled up by other sources of love and happiness projected over the spouse?

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Maybe?

Isn’t it a quality time language ?

Like for ultimate sports fan, but need to project happiness/glow over relationship during togetherness moments

Like with relationship with a pet, garden, mountains, faith

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15
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How to have togetherness moments over things that are important for Nikki

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Her kids

Her doing good job

How about her quality time?

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16
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What does the quality conversation focus on?

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In quality conversation you focus on what you are hearing

You would ask questions with a genuine desire to understand spouses thoughts, feelings and desires

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17
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How to listen for feelings: what question to ask yourself?

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What emotions is my spouse experiencing?

If you think that you have the answer - “confirm it”

“It sounds to me like you are feeling disappointed because I forgot…..”

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18
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Body language in quality conversations?

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Observe it - hands, eyes, eyebrows, eye movements

sometimes it speaks one message while words speak another

ask for clarification to make sure you know what she is really thinking or feeling

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19
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Interruptions in quality conversations?

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Refuse to do that

My goal is to discover your thoughts and feelings. My objective is not to defend myself or set you straight. It is to understand you.

Gary Chapman

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20
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Confucius (551-479 BC) about respect?

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Respect yourself and others will respect you ✊🏽

21
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Confucius (551-479 BC) about speed and perseverance?

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It doesn’t matter how slowly you go as long as you don’t stop.

22
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Confucius (551-479 BC) about three methods of learning wisdom?

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First by Reflection, which is the noblest

Second by Imitation, which is the easiest;

And Third by Experience, which is the Bitterest

23
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Confucius (551-479 BC) about what to do when you are right?

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If you see what is right, and fail to act on it, you lack courage

24
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Confucius (551-479 BC) about hatred?

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If you hate a person, you are defeated by them

25
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Confucius (551-479 BC) about books?

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You cannot open a book without learning something

26
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Confucius (551-479 BC) about chases?

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He who chases two rabbits catches none!

FOCUS

Follow
One
Course
Until 
Success
27
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Rabbi about happiness:

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“Happiness is not having what you want, it’s wanting what you have”

28
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What should you do to dissolve self-hatred?

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Laugh at life, laugh at others, and laugh at yourself

A wise man once said:
Life is tragic in its fate, lyric in its essence, and comic in its existence

29
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How to spend time when worried?

maybe Thomas Gutheil, MD, legendary professor of psychiatry at Harvard

A

Never worry alone!

30
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Mike Tyson and Gen. Eisenhower regarding having a “plan”?

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Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the face

Plan is useless in the battle. Previous planning is indispensable though.

No matter what, you will need to boldly advance into the shadows of uncertainty.

31
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How to guide choices in your life: what goals shall one have in mind?

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Not to have necessarily glamorous, but for sure, a powerful life

By father Schmitz

32
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Oscar Wilde about “existing”?

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“To live is the rarest thing in the world — most people just exist” — Oscar Wilde

33
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About joy and pain in life?

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Find a place inside where there’s joy, and the joy will burn out the pain” — Joseph Campbell

…it’s where you go when you want time back in your day to do it. You have some joy, somewhere. Use it.

34
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How much faster does the fake news spread on Twitter?

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6 times faster

because we are clicking and spreading it

35
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How social media is divisive for society?

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/\ gets individualized feeds… paid by advertiser who wants only one thing - your attention!

/\ is manipulated without knowing it

AI keeps running experiments to become more efficient

The Social dilemma

36
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Dalai Lama about the success?

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“Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.”

Set your boundaries. Be aware of your goals, have plans on how to achieve them, but also know what you’re not willing to do to get there.

37
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Dalai Lama about love?

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“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.”

38
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Dietrich Bonhoeffer - German dissident theologian: about evil (killed in concentration camp)

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Silence in the face of evil is itself evil.

God will not hold us guiltless. Not to speak is to speak. Not to act is to act.

39
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What happens when you are not paying for the product?

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You are the product

…advertisers pay for your attention

40
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Michael Jordan about limits?

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“Limits like fears are often just an illusion “

41
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Arthur C. Clarke (author of 2001: A Space Odyssey; in 1945 proposed a satellite communication system using geostationary orbits) on discovering the limits?

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The only way of discovering the limits of the possible is to venture a little way past them into the impossible.

42
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Paulo Coelho on learning who you are:

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You only know yourself when you go beyond your limits.

43
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Yoga principles of communication(3)?

- especially for children posting?

A

Is it true?

Is it kind?

Is it necessary?

44
Q

Come and get them in Greek?

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“Molon Labe”

Leonidas at Thermopylae 480BC

45
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Abraham Lincoln on speaking up when perceived to be a fool?

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“Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt.”

46
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For what purposes do you invest in your strenths and for what purposes in your weaknesses?

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In strengths - to get best price for who you are

In weaknesses - to get better

47
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Thomas Jefferson about lawyers:

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It is the trade of lawyers to question everything, yield nothing, and talk by the hour

48
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Franklin Delano Roosevelt on speech making:

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Be sincere; be brief; be seated