Lesson 4 - The Art of Saying No

Question 1

What is the next step after saying “No”?

Answer 1

Explain the reason why you said no

Question 2

The purpose of giving a reason for your answer is:

a) to be manly
b) to sound wise
c) to help others understand your position/decision
d) to sound strong

Answer 2

c) to help others understand your position/decision

Question 3

Why are excuses difficult to work with in the church?

Answer 3

1. Excuses are justified

2. Excuse is reasonable

Question 4

Worthwhile (useful) projects:

a) Never have challenges
b) Sometimes have challenges
c) Are difficult to complete
d) Always have challenges

Answer 4

d) Always have challenges

Question 5

Some excuses must be ignored

Answer 5

True

Question 6

If you have an opposing opinion you should avoid — words

Answer 6

strong

Question 7

Appeal to the facts and go over areas that lead to your —

Answer 7

position

Question 8

Always consider the feelings of —

Answer 8

others

Question 9

Do not be afraid to — where you are at because you might need to change some things

Answer 9

re-evaluate

Question 10

It is an art to disagree —

Answer 10

agreeably

Question 11

When dealing with excuses there are four questions we should ask. Complete the three following

a) What part of the request is too —?
b) Is it a — of materials?
c) Is it a lack of help or do they need —?

Answer 11

a) difficult
b) lack
c) assistance

Question 12

You should not disagree:

a) In a hurry
b) Ever
c) When in church
d) When you are wrong

Answer 12

a) In a hurry