Lesson 1 (Personal Relationships of Adolescents) Flashcards
or how you define yourself. There greatly affect how you perceive,
remember, and evaluate yourself and others.
Self-schema
or who you might become. Include the self that we
dream of becoming someday. Do you dream of becoming rich? Losing weight?
Becoming famous? Your possible self can also include the self you fear becoming
– poor, unemployed, or perhaps, an academic failure.
Possible self
comparing yourself to others
and seeing how you differ. For instance, we feel smart when others seem average, or
attractive when others are not. The more you succeed, however, you tend to raise your
standards and compare yourself with others who are doing even better, and this may
diminish your satisfaction.
social comparisons
determined by how ither people think of us. For instance, children are
labeled as gifted or hardworking tend to incorporate the same ideas
Self-concept
plays a role in defining one’s identity. For some people, especially
industrialized Western cultures, they develop individualism, prioritizing own goals over
a group’s goal.
culture
the formation of one’s identity as a unique
individual, and is defined during adolescence – a time of self-reliance and separation
from parents.
The independent self
is the overall sense of self-worth that we use to evaluate traits or abilities.
Self-esteem
you see yourself as attractive, intelligent, or talented
high self-esteem
less satisfied in their relationships and are more vulnerable to clinical problems, such as
anxiety or loneliness.
low self-esteem
feeling good about who you
are rather than grades, looks, or approval – likely leads to greater well-being.
secure self-esteem
motivates us to meet others’ expectations, therefore maintaining or
increasing our self-esteem
social rejection
an inflated sense of self.
narcissism
how competent and effective we feel when doing
a task. If you believe you can do something.
self-efficacy by Albert Bandura
the extent to which people perceive control.
Locus of control
refers to the belief that you are in control of your own destiny.
Internal Locus of control