lecture 7 Flashcards
Age 10- first crush or attraction
Age 12-14 -first kiss
Age 15-16 first genital fondling
Age 16-19 first intercourse
Timeline above Similar to sexual script for a sexual encounter
Different Data sources from reported sexual data
Retrospective surveys with adults
~Comes from surveys from adults recalling their experience
~Don’t know how accurate people memory are
Kinsey interviews
Talking computer interviews
~Children tend to report more data when reporting to computer than person
Surveys with adolescents
~Canadian youth, sexual health, and IV/AIDS study
~Bibby (2001,2009)
Factors influencing psychosexual development:
Parental socialization
Expectations
Do parents view sex a positive or negative thing
Reactions
Parents reaction to sexual things such as media portrayed sex
Communication
Is sex talked about? Do parents initiate sex talk?
Factors influencing psychosexual development:
Social learning (modeling)
How sex is portrayed in media
Sexual experiences
Developmentally appropriate
Abusive
Cultural factors
Cultures have different views on sexual things
Infancy and preschool Years (0-4 years)
Sexual response
Freud was first to express infants have sexual urges
Little infants with penis can get erections
Vaginal lubrication in infants in first 24 hours after birth
Attachment
Infant-parent bond important for later sexual relationships
Early in life attachment is similar to attachment style later in life
Self stimulation
12-16 months of age, infants will discover their genitals
15-19 months will touch genitals more due to curiosity
Orgasm are possible at this age
infancy and prschool (0-4)
By age 4-5
Child-child encounters
Children will play games with each other and show each other their genitals
Behavior is not sexually motivated
Knowledge starts to increase around this age
By age 5, they understand marriage
Age 5-6, they start thinking about biological sex from genitals
Sexuality during childhood (5-11 years)
adrenarche
Maturation of adrenal glands->start to produce androgens around 8-10
This may be why people get their first crush around 10
childhood (5-11): mastrubation
By age 12
To orgasm boys: 42%, girls:20%
Not to orgasm: boys:27%, girls: 18%
Boys start to masturbate earlier than girls. Why?
Boys have external genitalia, girls have internal genitals
Boys talk about masturbating more than girls, which is how they learn to masturbate from their peers
Girls learn about masturbation on their own accidentally through cleaning, touching, which is why the rate of masturbation increases gradually for girls
By age 14:
Boys 62.6%
Girls: 43.4%
By age 17:
boys:80%
girl:58%
Mixed-sex sexual play (boys and girls play together) during childhood (5-11):
Children will learn about intercourse around age 12
Between age 6-12: 80% of kids have had consented sexual activities
Ie: kissing, showing genitals
Same-sex sex play:
Debra Haffner: from diapers to dating..
Takeaway: be “aksable”- talk to children about sexuality instead of waiting for them to talk to you
Children who have good sex education have better sexual health in future and are more responsible in the future
Sexualization occurs when:
A person’s value comes from sexual appeal or behavior
A person is held to a standard in which physical attraction=being sexy
A person is sexually objectified
Sexuality is inappropriately imposed on another person
examples of sexualization
Boys:TV, games, movies that promote masculinity, physical power, sex for men involves aggressive domination or beautiful women for pleasure of men
Girls: sexual objectification, weight, appearance
Beauty pageants
Sexuality during adolescence(12-18 years)
Huge surge of sexual Interest during puberty and it continues:
Biological factors: increase in testosterone for all genders
Social factors: cognitive and developmental; awareness of gender roles, awareness of sexual scripts, social media portrayals
Same-sex sexual behavior becomes more common
masturbation (12-18) adolescence
According to kinsey data, there’s sharp increase in masturbation from 13-15
Increase after puberty
Sharp increase for boys
Gradual increase for girls