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Lecture 4: love and attraction Flashcards

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How will Attractiveness impact how we see others?

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  • appearance, character and profession all impact our behavior.

We find attractive people more trustworthy

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What do we assume about attractive people?

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Confident
Credible
Appropriate

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What are the three levels of the attraction template?

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Must
Need
Have

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The number of people who get divorced after a disability is encored is what %?

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50-80%

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Is the % chance of divorce the same or higher for couples who meet after a disability?

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No higher, it would be as if it never happened.

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What were the greeks four concepts of modern love?

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  • Storage
  • Agape
  • Philia
  • Eros
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What is the greeks definition of storage?

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  • Is a loving attachment, deep friendship, or nonsexual affection.
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What is the greeks definition of Agape?

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Is similar to generosity and charity.

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What is the greeks definition of Philia?

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Is closest in meaning to friendship

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What is the greeks definition of Eros?

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Is closest in meaning to our concept of passion

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What would the greeks define as romantic love?

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Eros: My lover fits my ideal

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What is harder to work around in a realtionship

physical or mental disability?

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Mental

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What would the greeks define as Game-playing love?

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Ludus:

I keep my lover up in the air about my commitment

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What would the greeks define a Friendship?

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Storage/philia:

The best love grows out of an enduring friendship.

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What would the greeks define as Logical love?

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Pragma:

I consider a lovers potential in life before committing myself

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What would the greeks define as Possessive or excited love?

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(Mania):

I get so excited about my love that I cannot sleep

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What would the greeks define as selfless love

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(agape):

I would do anything I can to help my lover.

18
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True or false:

Women are more pragmatic in love, and men are more romantic

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True

19
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True or false:

Our mental function changes when aroused.

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True.

20
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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the definition of Intimacy?

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The experience of warmth towards another person that arises from feelings of closeness, bondedness, and contentedness to the other.

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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the definition of Passion?

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An intense romantic or sexual desire for another person, which is accomplished by physiological arousal

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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the definition of Commitment/Decision?

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A component of love that involves that short-term and long-term issues.

23
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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the relationship that has none of the three sections?

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Non-love

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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the relationship that has only intimacy?

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Liking

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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the relationship that has only passion?

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Infactuation

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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the relationship that has only commitment?

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Empty love

27
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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the relationship that has intimacy and passion?

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Romantic love

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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the relationship that has commitment and passion?

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Fatuous love

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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the relationship that has commitment and intimacy?

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Companionate love

30
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Within Sterberg’s Triangular love theory, what is the relationship that has all three aspects?

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Consummate love

31
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What are the ABC’s of romantic relatioships?

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A- attraction
B- building
C- Continuation

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What is the potential D and E of the “ABC’s” of love?

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D- deterioration

E- ending

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What are the six descriptors of Passionate love?

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  1. Emotionally very intense
  2. the focus of ones life
  3. Highly sexualized feelings
  4. Sexual activity may be present or absent
  5. Fear of rejection
  6. Relationship feels unstable
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What are the six descriptors of compassionate love?

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  1. Emotion is less intense
  2. A focus of ones life
  3. less highly sexualized
  4. Sexual activity may be present or absent
  5. Emotional trust
  6. Relationship feels strong and stable.
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What is the First stage of Relationship development?

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Romance: We sense our possibilities and create a shared vision.

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What is the secound stage of Relationship development?

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Power struggle: We learn to recognize and learn and validate differing needs and perceptions.

We learn to say who we are and ask for what we want

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What is the Third stage of Relationship development?

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Stability: Learn to take responsibility and expand our senses of identity through dialogue with eachother.

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What is the fourth stage of relationship development?

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Commitment:

Experience ourselves as interdependent - “we”. Learn to live with paradoxes and insoluble dilemmas

39
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What is the final stage of relationship development?

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Co-Creation:

Learn to create our own universe and work towards a better world-interdependent with all of life.

40
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What are the two major fears of intimacy?

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  • being controlled

- being loved and left

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