La relation d’activation parent-enfant: théorie et méthode Flashcards
La théorie de la relation d’activation père-enfant
- Emotional bonding of the child to the parent who is open to the world on a daily basis
=Emphasis on the “exploration” pole: active parent during exploration
=The context of an emotional bond facilitates the child’s learning - General function: openness to the world
=Direct paternal roles:
+Stimulate the child by confronting the physical and social environment to develop skills
+protect the child from the dangers of the environment by setting limits (through discipline and games; sensitive control); importance of authority
=especially with boys (more aggressive, active, impulsive and adventurous than girls)
more aggressive, active, impulsive and adventurous than girls) who take more risks and have more accidents
= limits and rules make the child feel safe
Interactions
Mère-bébé vs. Père-bébé
MÈRE:
- Calms and comforts the child
- More verbal and didactic
- Cognitive games focused on objects
Interactions
Mère-bébé vs. Père-bébé
Père
- Excites the child
- More physical
- Unpredictable, idiosyncratic, unconventional play
La fonction paternelle de l’ouverture au monde
- The father helps the child to open up to the outside world:
- The father responds to the need for stimuli, impulses and incentives through energizing action
- Through unpredictable or unconventional games and teasing, the child is destabilized and learns to react to unforeseen events, to novelty
L’ouverture au monde
- Catalyst for risk taking:
- Encourages the child to take initiative, to venture out, to be more daring, to be assertive
- encourages exploration in risky environments
- prepares the child to face a certain danger
L’ouverture au monde
The child learns self-confidence and autonomy:
- problem solving without recourse to the adult
- exploration of the new
- ability to confront when necessary
Rôle didactique du père au plan du langage
- more unfamiliar words
- more requests for clarification (language bridge)
- more questions requiring elaboration
- more requests for action
- more often refuses to solve problems for the child
L’enfant au plan du langage
- plus d’expressifs à la mère
- more polite to the father
- more demanding with the mother
- more requests for action to the father
- more expressive to the mother
Typologie de la qualité de la relation d’activation
- Sous-active
- Activé
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pologie de la qualité de la relation d’activation
- Sous-active:
- Explores little, is passive and stays close to the parent
- Linked to overprotection
- Activé:
- Confident and cautious in exploring, and obeys the parent when setting limits
- Sur-active:
Hypersociable, reckless and does not obey the parent when setting limits - Linked to lack of supervision (setting limits) by the parent
Pourcentage des dyades père-enfant
en fonction de la classification avec la Situation étrangère (A, B, C, D) et de la )
Pourcentage des dyades père-enfant
en fonction de la classification avec la Situation étrangère (A, B, C, D) et de la classification avec la Situation risqué
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La qualité de la relation d’activation depend du …
- gender of parent
- Fathers activate children more than mothers do
- Fathers under-activate children more than mothers do
- Mothers over-activate children more than fathers do
La qualité de la relation d’activation depend du …
the child’s gender
- Fathers and mothers under-activate girls more than boys
- Fathers and mothers over-activate boys more than girls
La qualité de la relation d’activation depend du … (suite)
child’s temperament
- Impulsivity
- Shyness
- Sociability
Parenting behavior
- Stimulation of risk taking
- Limit setting (protection)